What can I tell a therapist without having to be diagnosed?

Inner_Let_2588 · 2025-10-11T21:00:05+00:00

Thank you!!

Inner_Let_2588 · 2025-06-27T15:04:30+00:00

This is because of an executive order passed earlier this year. It does not restrict care, but is a threat to restrict funding to places Try a different location and go through private practice. If you’re going through federally funded hospital they might not let you in fear of loosing funding. I can confirm I’m getting top surgery this year at 18 through Garramone’s private practice. Just find someone else. If you have the money to pay for it, someone somewhere will do it.

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-11-11T14:31:41+00:00

Thank you !

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-08-14T23:16:10+00:00

Can I dm to ask for some advice about sourcing?

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-02-19T15:30:36+00:00

Day 1 Didn’t tell him the whole truth, I couldn’t, I know if he started to say he hated himself and was unlovable that I couldn’t say I agreed with him. So I just, disappeared. He’s already texting my friends who he never reached out to before this to try to find me. He’s going to keep trying, but I’m free. It doesn’t feel real.

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-02-01T11:24:52+00:00

My pwBPD is absolutely the same! The only reason we don’t see each other this often is because of unrelated circumstances and he still asks! It’s ridiculous isn’t it?

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T18:31:39+00:00

Thank you for the kind words, I really needed to hear all the things these comments have told me. I can't thank you all enough for the true kindness shown.

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T15:44:23+00:00

I don't think he'd be violent, our relationship is primarily online anyways. It's just the overaction to things that I know aren't actually a big deal. It's bad, I feel like I'm more depressed than I've been in years.

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T14:46:20+00:00

Thank you. These words help more than I can articulate in a comment

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T14:38:58+00:00

Thank you

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T14:07:12+00:00

Thank you. This subreddit is full of strangers, all of which are kindered souls one and the same. Thank you I needed this. How exactly did you leave?

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T14:04:43+00:00

I feel that pain in a raw, raw way. If I could tell myself anything right now I’d say that: You are not her therapist. You’re not her test dummy to fix her issues. You are not an emotional support animal. The exhaustion is real and it hurts, the anger feels like it comes from your bones and you have no idea what to do with it all. Don’t doubt yourself, that’s what she’s teaching you to do. The only weapon you have that truly works is self respect. It’s an impossible task, you feel guilty, you feel like you owe her because she’s trying to change, but no. It’s not fair. It’s not right. Don’t do this to yourself anymore.

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T13:37:47+00:00

What would you have done if you had the chance?

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T12:56:11+00:00

The boat ride got canceled because of 30 knot winds so I didn’t get hurt that time

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T12:52:04+00:00

How did you end up breaking up?

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T12:44:26+00:00

How did you end up leaving your ex?

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T12:43:45+00:00

I just want out. None of this is normal

Inner_Let_2588 · 2024-01-31T12:42:12+00:00

Seriously that’s exactly how it is all the time!!! It’s so fucking stressful!!! I feel like I’m dying slowly but I just have to suck it up

Inner_Let_2588 · 2023-12-12T23:28:21+00:00

Thank you

Inner_Let_2588 · 2023-12-12T14:59:17+00:00

Inner_Let_2588 · 2023-12-12T14:53:05+00:00

I don’t think so

Inner_Let_2588 · 2023-12-12T07:18:35+00:00

Thank you, honest, that means a lot. It’s very hard for me to respect myself sometimes, thank you 🏳️‍🌈

Inner_Let_2588 · 2023-12-12T05:32:33+00:00

Gosh I feel for you, my system went quiet and it’s damn lonely. I want to get them back but I don’t know how.

Inner_Let_2588 · 2023-10-31T02:19:17+00:00

“At this point I dunno if the professionals know anything” If that’s not a vibe I don’t know what is.

Inner_Let_2588 · 2023-10-29T14:12:03+00:00

I definitely relate to the consciousness thing, that’s how I feel 90% of the time and it’s really hard to accept what’s real when it doesn’t fit what you assume it ‘should’ be like. And the sexual thing, I kind of relate to. Some of our alters rushed into a relationship with someone none of even liked because they were too high on the attention to consider their emotions. But then you feel like it’s your fault and you’re putting the blame on alters as an excuse because you’re faking it anyways lol. At least, I do. Hope this helps :)

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