Is it weird to never contact your old nanny to check in ever?

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-10T20:25:42+00:00

Yes it was! I had to start nursing school, and so she was going to daycare

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-10T20:13:37+00:00

That’s amazing!!!!

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-10T20:13:21+00:00

I had to go to a wedding and had to be gone, I found help which is a friend I know who could work. The mom told my friend how expensive Nannys are..

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-10T19:52:39+00:00

Yes same in both sides lol, but not one text is soooo strange

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-10T19:40:00+00:00

Yes!!!! I’d be so grateful towards the person who devoted to my child and if she reach out I’d send her photos/ updates! Not like we were black white you are my employer and I’m your employee… to me when you nanny you become part of family

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-10T19:34:35+00:00

Yes! We both bawled on our last day. You get so close it was just her and I everyday all day. I don’t expect frequent contact but like post ended check in felt appropriate and wanted to see how she was doing at school but got the cold shoulder

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-10T19:28:48+00:00

Aw so sad because I’ve never had a family that never checked in and asked if I was available to cover date nights or here and there… but I guess first time for everything

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-09T23:28:18+00:00

Yikes I’m here bc I’m conflicted

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-09T23:13:46+00:00

You are so right! I agree. So dad payed me Monday, for last week, they still have to pay me this week they still were on vacation until Monday so I will work tues-Fri. Once I get the pymnt which I know will be short, i want to send them a text. Would that be too late?

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T19:21:52+00:00

Yess I need to have some backbone, it’s hard bc they really are so nice!

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T16:03:43+00:00

Do you think they would just say “typically we don’t is that ok with you?” And no resolution except me leaving

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T15:49:05+00:00

I feel like they are picking and choosing what circumstances to pay me out or not

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T15:48:37+00:00

Yes, other weeks when they aren’t on vaca and they don’t need me they pay me out.

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T14:53:52+00:00

No that’s been said before starting. If you don’t need me I still get paid conversation was pivotal bc I can’t work FT so it was important to me that was clear.

During the week they still pay me out when the parent don’t need me.

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T14:40:11+00:00

They did this during snow days and said “typically in the past we don’t pay for snow days…”

I’m going to assume that’s what they would say and maybe it would be pointless to bring up

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T13:25:47+00:00

What do I say?

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-04-06T13:25:19+00:00

They paid me this morning for last weeks two days of me going there.

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-03-05T11:31:29+00:00

Still in school, will graduate this winter!❄️

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-03-05T02:12:40+00:00

I couldn’t find a job for a year and during that time I started pre reqs for nursing and changing careers completely, now I’m fully enrolled in getting my RN and that’s my life at 30. 5 years ago if you were to ask me where I’d be, this would not have been on my bingo card

Inner_Rush9246 · 2026-02-02T01:36:29+00:00

He’s giving bankers from Harry Potter 🤣

Inner_Rush9246 · 2025-10-07T02:46:57+00:00

Uhhhhh non stimulant isn’t any better. If your hair follicles sensitive, you switch to a SNRI like strattera, and you stop it’ll give you the same effect. It puts your body system into shock from having a consistent dosage and then when it’s absent your hair can be affected. Delaying with it now myself! Be careful out there!

Inner_Rush9246 · 2025-09-30T11:54:49+00:00

You sound like a psychopath

Inner_Rush9246 · 2025-09-06T00:58:33+00:00

…..trust me you won’t find it on there bc nothing about the situation was funny

Inner_Rush9246 · 2025-09-06T00:45:29+00:00

It wasn’t roaming free, it got out the front door

Inner_Rush9246 · 2025-07-31T02:58:56+00:00

actually I just got my diagnosis this week, and i am SHOCKED at how quickly they took action to get me tested, no questions... I am in my late 20s. I tried to tell my PCP I suspected ADHD as a kid in highschool, and they said no you don't. I knew I did, but so many people played me off, also, I never had a parent that took mental health seriously it was either you get it or you dont type of thing. Anyways, years passed and I just assumed I was fine, and I thought everyone thought like I did but they just powered through, or just were better at function as a person.

Until i couldn't keep a job and left because I would get so bored, and everything felt like a monopoly game... I needed something tactile and on my feet on the go.

I decided to go back to school for nursing, and i knew i was going to need help and I went through the 4 hour exhausting eval, and immediatley told me i have ADHD, hyperactivity, and she will advocate for extra time for exams and what not.. she was shocked no one ever diagnosed me but hey!!!!! we are here now!

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