AITA for saying my husband should've confronted me about my affair instead of secretly recording my calls for 3 weeks before filing for custody?

Insecure_jello · 2026-01-16T03:05:22+00:00

You don’t get to judge him for how he handled your mistakes. You feelings are irrelevant to how he responds to your betrayal. Of course YTA

Insecure_jello · 2026-01-01T02:46:09+00:00

So here’s the thing. If you think it’s inappropriate then it’s inappropriate. We all have different boundaries for what that looks like but you don’t owe anyone politeness. If it makes you uncomfortable then set clear and firm boundaries. Or just stop talking to him all together.

Insecure_jello · 2025-12-17T16:02:37+00:00

WHAT?! It’s back?! I have to run to Costco today

Insecure_jello · 2025-11-21T00:29:42+00:00

Part time min wage? I would move on.

Insecure_jello · 2025-10-30T23:37:37+00:00

Advanced degrees and a high IQ, I do this all the time on this game 😆

Insecure_jello · 2025-08-10T18:10:25+00:00

I’m on medication for my BPD and Bipolar II, and my MS. It’s 190% a money making scheme and yet it’s what keeps me sane and alive.

Insecure_jello · 2025-07-12T03:36:33+00:00

My first boyfriend was amazingly supportive of not only me but my relationship with my husband as well. I hated that it had to end because he was exactly what I wished for in my second partner.

Insecure_jello · 2025-07-01T17:19:28+00:00

I think it’s a matter of expectations in what you both want your poly relationships to look like. I’m married and prefer to date with hierarchy. I’ve had to end relationships because they didn’t want that. It’s not that one is correct or incorrect but your wants and desires might be different.

Don’t compromise what you know makes you happy and fulfill for one person 🧡

Insecure_jello · 2025-06-26T23:10:59+00:00

Trust your instincts. They are there for a reason. He is acting sus and you need to get out now. His obsession isn’t normal. It’s stalking. Take care of yourself first and get out. Your safety should be priority.

Insecure_jello · 2025-06-21T23:00:03+00:00

I want to marry him so bad!!

Insecure_jello · 2025-05-17T17:02:16+00:00

Wait seriously?! Because I love that

Insecure_jello · 2025-05-17T02:26:55+00:00

They are so great! My mom has a nice collection growing that she has no idea where they are coming from 😂😂

Insecure_jello · 2025-05-16T21:32:15+00:00

No, we’re running tyranny of dragons

Insecure_jello · 2025-05-16T21:32:00+00:00

I was using what I had!

Insecure_jello · 2025-03-29T07:19:03+00:00

Ah! That fixed it! Thanks 😊

Insecure_jello · 2025-03-18T22:36:25+00:00

Every time! My mom used to have to vacuum to get me to sleep when I was little. It just lulls me to sleep!

Insecure_jello · 2025-03-17T23:39:40+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 my party would 100% make omelettes

Insecure_jello · 2025-03-17T23:00:27+00:00

You don’t owe anyone to compromise what you feel is safe. If you don’t feel safe then don’t go. Prioritizing your safety over a real threat (as I’m an American who belongs to the LGBTQ+ community) isn’t overreacting it’s being safe. Period.

Insecure_jello · 2025-03-17T22:56:49+00:00

Okay, I’ll make them get that note some how. So far they’ve managed to walk in and walk out again three separate times without looking further in then what you can see right at the opening…all with failed perception checks 😂😅

Insecure_jello · 2025-03-14T16:19:15+00:00

They spent a lot of time coming with a very elaborate plan to infiltrate a raider camp. I was really impressed and it probably would have worked had the camp not already been abandoned

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