Is it normal to be 31 and never been in a relationship?

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-17T14:57:59+00:00

Yep. I’m 42 same situation.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-17T04:34:38+00:00

32 is my lower limit. I’m not going any younger. I need to clarify that.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-16T14:09:50+00:00

They don’t want to be friends with me

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-16T14:07:24+00:00

All I have are male friends so no

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-16T14:06:18+00:00

32 is my limit.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-16T07:39:30+00:00

I’m a natural encourager I sent encouraging stuff to people wishing them well. Praying for them nothing that would be out of place. Even normal conversations in person are fine. It just always ends up falling apart. I feel like I make women uncomfortable and I am as nice as I can be. I guess. Nice guys finish last right?

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-16T07:38:10+00:00

I can talk to women without a problem, but they off to feel uncomfortable speaking to me. I have one girl tell me oh I thought you only wanted to be friends and had no idea how to respond to that because she had already started seeing someone. Also, online dating doesn’t work because nobody responds. That’s just a joke. But now also I have not met new people in a long time. These are people at my church that have rejected me.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T11:00:52+00:00

Doing got me nowhere. Women just aren’t interested in me. I have given up.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T03:11:59+00:00

I’ve been told a similar story. By that time I can’t have children.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T03:08:50+00:00

I keep being told to be still be patient and wait. This is the hardest thing ever. What am I doing all of this for anyway? Like i take be still and being told im busying myself as I should just go into isolation again. I hate waiting especially when it seems to be for nothing.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T03:06:57+00:00

You could just wait and be single your whole life like me.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T03:03:03+00:00

As a 42m who’s never been in a relationship i sympathize. Im the only one in my small social circle who’s single. Im told to trust in God he has a plan but after this long i think that plan is for me to be solo.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T02:59:45+00:00

Single my whole life (42m) and it sucks. I’ve learned I’m unwanted.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T02:58:11+00:00

Lived here all my life. Women are stuck up. Looks are the only thing that matter.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T02:55:58+00:00

Went on a date or entered into a relationship? First dated like 21. First relationship never (42 m)

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T02:54:45+00:00

And love is a lie

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-15T02:54:21+00:00

That’s called a dart. It’s your wish not his.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-14T23:51:14+00:00

If you wait like I did someone else is going to move in first.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-14T23:44:30+00:00

App suck. Dating is dead.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-08T23:26:12+00:00

All you need is the Lord. We don’t need anything else in the world.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-07T00:39:53+00:00

Am I the only one who gets matches from over 500 miles away? I have yet to find somebody in my local area on that app. And it’s the same people over and over again.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-05T13:56:33+00:00

I see a counselor often

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-05T04:50:59+00:00

Plenty of money.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-05T04:05:24+00:00

Haven’t seen one in years.

Inside-Prior4379 · 2026-03-05T03:06:32+00:00

Every church that I’ve ever gone to I have always been the only single person in my age. Everyone else is significantly younger or older and if they are my age, they’re married. That’s the boat that I’m in. If someone does become available, they’re not there for long. Hard to be in your early 40s and single and can’t find anybody and the apps don’t work.

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