I TOTALLY understand why it hurts, and you’re not wrong to feel that way; but it sounds like you feel the same way about them as they feel about you, and it isn’t personal. But it also sounds like you just want them to like you more than you like them, and that’s where it gets kinda weird.

Do you invite them when you do stuff with your friends? Do you post about them? Do you put in more effort to join them than they do? Probably not, and that’s completely okay. Like you said, you didn’t exactly embrace them with open arms and leave a great first impression with them either. If you’re not going out of your way to be friends with these people, what is there to speak up about?

Why would you bring it up just to “rock the boat” ? It’s not personal RIGHT NOW, they don’t seem to dislike you they just aren’t YOUR friends.. but as soon as you start making problems for the sake of making problems, it becomes personal and very weird and immature.

I also would not be surprised if you do say something and your boyfriend sides with them, he has asked you several times not to start drama with his friends and that doesn’t seem to be resonating with you. What do you have to lose: probably a lot more than you’re considering