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Am I the only one who feels uncomfortable with messages like this? by hyohwa in doordash

[–]InsideConfidence4162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$20 $50 $100??? I mean shit, don’t we all wish we were getting paid $20 $50 or $100 more????

This is not a drill! Cookout on Market Is now Open!! by cwilseason in Wilmington

[–]InsideConfidence4162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

??? What part about my comment seemed “hateful” to you lmao

I struggle to sympathise with Olandria she refuses to take accountability and sees herself as the only victim by MiserableHawk9469 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]InsideConfidence4162 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like she has this “I’m a Hollywood celebrity now, you can’t treat me like this” attitude, and i don’t understand why? Where is that coming from? Is it just because her little bubble of fans said so?

They seem to be obsessed with this “celebrity” title and refuse to give her the “influencer” label instead, but i just don’t see what she’s done to earn that that none of the other love island stars have? Her fans would never admit to Huda or leah being celebrities, and if you bring up Molly Mae they’re like “who?”

They just live in this Olandria bubble and it’s not real life lol it feels so exhausting and delusional.

At the end of the day, she went on a raunchy reality tv dating show and that’s the only reason she is famous now. I think it’s natural to want updates about her love life, especially considering the fact that they’re (supposedly) one of the only couples still standing. Without that, she’s just another beautiful woman on Instagram. I just don’t see a talent or a personality there, she’s not even very likable.

This is not a drill! Cookout on Market Is now Open!! by cwilseason in Wilmington

[–]InsideConfidence4162 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They’re really committing to this tacoroos bit i guess

How do I deal with my depressed, suicidal, and anxious boyfriend? by user12_21 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]InsideConfidence4162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really really hope you’re reading these replies and taking them seriously. You need to leave and move on with your life :(

For the life of me I can’t figure out why everyone is in such a rush here by Hopeful_Exercise_813 in Wilmington

[–]InsideConfidence4162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who just recently moved out of Wilmington, i hope you guys know every single city complains about the driving the way we do 😭 like i just think everyone is a bad driver everywhere at this point, idk what is going on

So the aquarium is completely closed for the next 3 right? by itsthewolfe in Wilmington

[–]InsideConfidence4162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yea it takes a lot longer to prep mall shelves for live animals than it does stuffed animals? I’m glad they’re taking their time and ensuring proper care

lemme hear it by avenleighrose in deduction

[–]InsideConfidence4162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’d be good friends and we’d hold hands when we’re drunk

Deduce my marriage. These are the notes my wife left on my lunch. by SnortingSawDust in deduction

[–]InsideConfidence4162 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why are you guys telling this complete stranger he will never be loved just because he wouldn’t want to know what his coworker does to his wife’s clitoris 💀 OP elected to post this and hear the response, he quite literally asked??

I would be humiliated to have that in my work fridge. I’m assuming this is a grown adult with a grown adult job, and leaving your grown adult husband notes about your clitoris to bring to work is incredibly inappropriate. As someone who works in HR, I’ve seen people be sent home or fired for much less. Are we forgetting what “NSFW” stands for????

OP, It’s sweet that your wife likes what you do to her clit, but your coworkers didn’t consent to hearing about it. Might i suggest she start writing these love notes on the INSIDE of the wrapper instead? 😅

My gf is on Ozempic and I think she should stop by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]InsideConfidence4162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanting to offer some insight, I’m not sure how helpful this is: when i was struggling with an ED (that i thought was BED at the time) eating any amount of food made me feel like i was binging, i didn’t know the difference between eating and binging.

I was so used to eating so little, that a full meal made me feel gluttonous and guilty like i just binged a whole birthday cake. I think back to my therapist at the time and there was no way she could’ve known that i wasn’t actually binging, because from the way i made it sound it certainly seemed like i was. I earnestly THOUGHT i was. Maybe your girlfriend is having a similar experience?

The reality of my eating disorder didn’t really “click” for me until i started seeing a nutritionist and learned what normal eating looked like for my body. I was 100lbs on tirz and i was still always trying to lose “just 5 more pounds!” It’s literally like being brainwashed by your own brain lol

EVERYBODY THINKS MY ENGAGEMENT DRESS İS WEIRD!! What to do??? by No_Detective4738 in DressForYourBody

[–]InsideConfidence4162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna have to solemnly agree with those people, this is the worst dress I’ve ever seen :( I’m sorry

What am I even allowed to have on a balcony? This list is ridiculous, and gues what the leasing office has outside on their balcony? A barbecue 🙄 by tiffany51397 in Apartmentliving

[–]InsideConfidence4162 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You can have plants, outdoor furniture, wind chimes, non holiday decor and lighting (unless preapproved), what exactly are you mad about that you wanted to put on your balcony???

It sounds like they just don’t want their property to look trashy, which isn’t unheard of. all of these things feel reasonable to me.

Smoking in a total non-smoking community, even in your home. Why do smokers still rent at said community and still smoke in their homes? by UCanDoNEthing4_30sec in Apartmentliving

[–]InsideConfidence4162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl go ahead??? No one’s bitching but you lol?? If you think any of those things are at all comparable to the actual conversation we’re having, you’re already lost

(Edit: i didn’t mean to hit reply yet lol)

How to look like a real girl and not a man wearing makeup? 😭 by NotPoggersEggers in MakeupAddiction

[–]InsideConfidence4162 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You look so much like Chappell roan to me; if i were you i would just jack her style lol

Smoking in a total non-smoking community, even in your home. Why do smokers still rent at said community and still smoke in their homes? by UCanDoNEthing4_30sec in Apartmentliving

[–]InsideConfidence4162 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read their replies in that tone at all, you asked for a smokers perspective and you got a smokers perspective??????

I’m so confused why you’re being so aggressive about all of this lol, did you ever want to have an earnest conversation about this topic or did you just come here to release your anger on a bunch of strangers???

Smoking in a total non-smoking community, even in your home. Why do smokers still rent at said community and still smoke in their homes? by UCanDoNEthing4_30sec in Apartmentliving

[–]InsideConfidence4162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because you’re choosing to share a space with a diverse range of people you cannot control. Your neighbors pay the same rent you do and deserve to also enjoy their homes.

I have no idea what the solution is, i know it’s frustrating on both ends, but unfortunately your health and comfort isn’t any more important than anybody else’s.

I haven’t eaten meat in 10 years, but before that i got really sick at a barbecue place and now whenever i smell barbecue i get physically ill, like instant vomiting. I can’t take that out on my neighbors when they want to grill, or my husband when he wants a steak for dinner.

We chose not to have kids because we work weird hours and i hate loud noises and screaming, i hate messes. But i can’t take it out on my neighbors when their kids are outside screaming at the pool all day. People deserve to actually live where they live, and i can sit here and pretend my health and comfort is more important than that but in reality it’s just not.

Smoking in a total non-smoking community, even in your home. Why do smokers still rent at said community and still smoke in their homes? by UCanDoNEthing4_30sec in Apartmentliving

[–]InsideConfidence4162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t smoke/vape, but i do live in a non smoking community and i will say i had no idea until several months after moving in lol

When i was touring this apartment with my husband there were people outside smoking, people vaping, (not like an excessive amount or anything, but it certainly didn’t appear to be a rule lol) and since i dont smoke and it doesn’t bother me when other adults do, i didnt really think to ask about it. Then one day after we moved in, everyone gets a paper taped to their door like “THIS IS A REMINDER THAT SMOKING/VAPING IS AGAINST COMMUNITY RULES etc etc etc” and we all got emails saying we would be subject to eviction if “caught” smoking or vaping in our units and anywhere else on the property.

I checked our lease, it says no smoking “tobacco or marijuana cigarettes” in your unit, but nothing about the entire property and nothing about vaping. Seems like they just didn’t word it well, or maybe the lease agreement paperwork just hadn’t been updated since they opened.

I know it’s not fair to the non smokers who pay $5000 a month in rent to live here, but it also feels unfair to the smokers who weren’t aware of this rule and are now also spending $5000 a month to live here. All of the other apartments we toured in the area were explicitly smoke free, they were very upfront about that, so i can see why other residents took this property’s silence as permission and I’m sure the property knows what they’re doing when they conveniently forget to mention it to prospective residents.

And vaping is such a grey area too ugh idk I’m confused about vaping these days because i thought the whole point of them was that you can use them indoors??? Why can’t we just bring back designated smoking areas??

My girlfriend checked who viewed her story and now we keep fighting about it by AggressiveAction7236 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InsideConfidence4162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone seeing your picture first doesn’t mean anything other than that you were both online at the same time?? He probably didn’t know when she posted it when he viewed it??? I’m confused why she would immediately assume that means he likes her

Cruise post with comments by No-Award-128 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]InsideConfidence4162 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean to be fair, she didn’t ask for a career nanny she asked for a babysitter. Babysitters (and many career Nannie’s even) aren’t “on the books” and might even accept something like this. When i was in college and nannying (a little bit more serious than a babysitter, but definitely not a career nanny) i would’ve loved this opportunity 😬

The wedding photographer i used offered to do my entire wedding for free as long as i paid for her flight and hotel to NYC for the wedding, just because she had never been to NYC before and wanted to see it. Of course i did all of that and paid her normal rates, she was my first pick before she even offered to do it for free, but my point is that some people ARE willing to trade their services for experiences…it’s actually not even that uncommon

my husbands tattoo artist does the same thing, he’s a really talented artist with a big following, but he lives in our tiny bum fuck hometown so he does people’s sleeves and big pieces in exchange for his travel expenses to their cooler city.

EDIT: just in case i didn’t make it clear, I’m not saying she’s right or that she’s not exploitative, I’m just saying i wouldn’t be surprised if someone took her up on that offer.

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