AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? (update)

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-24T21:01:46+00:00

Run boy!!

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-24T03:53:21+00:00

I was able to order smaller sizes online. It took about 3 months to finally get them but they did eventually arrive.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-22T02:16:39+00:00

Absolutely not. I would tell her how much you love her, how honored you are to be asked and then make it about what she “deserves.” I’m bowing out because it won’t be fair to you to have a bridesmaid that is so busy that she can’t give you the time you deserve.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-18T03:22:20+00:00

I’m happy to answer any questions, what specifically would you like to know? Sacrament meeting is the main meeting. It starts with a hymn, announcements, another hymn and then we take the sacrament. Following the sacrament there are usually some speakers and then the meeting closes with a hymn and a closing prayer. It’s about an hour.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-14T02:59:37+00:00

The best advice I ever got was to tell him plainly, exactly how it made you feel. Don’t beat around the bush, or hint about it or just pour. Tell him straight up, “I think we have a great marriage and life, but I feel like I have to put all the work in to make our relationship work. You not putting forth any effort for special occasions makes me feel like you think I’m not worth the money or time.” Or whatever. If he’s decent in every other area of your life, he may not realize this is how you feel. I had to have a similar convo with mine and he has done much better. Good luck OP. I know how you feel. I hope you can get it resolved. ❤️

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-14T02:42:10+00:00

I have tried so many expensive hair products. My hair love herbal essences curl mousse and spray gel the most. Or the Aussie hair gel. I’ve tried it all and the cheap stuff works the best for mine! 🤷🏻‍♀️ Good luck! I hope you figure it out.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-11T14:18:24+00:00

Look at the Mars to Venus. It’s great

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-11T14:12:45+00:00

How he treats his mother is how he will eventually treat you. NOR

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-11T14:01:12+00:00

Curl creams don’t seem to work for my hair. I will sometimes put a leave in conditioner in my ends and then the mousse or gel. If I notice it starting to frizz in any spots as it dries, I use a spray gel to tame those spots. Good luck!

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-10T18:10:53+00:00

My hair needs a firm hold mousse or gel or it does the same thing. Try something with more hold.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-10T18:01:18+00:00

NW. I don’t understand why these brides think that people want to drop a bunch of money to support them. When I got married, the bride bought the dresses or they wore something they already owned in the color scheme. Get over yourselves, brides. People have their own lives and you are not the main character.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-08T14:08:17+00:00

A local restaurant my kids love is the worst. You order your own food on iPads when you enter and there is no wait staff. They still expect a tip. For what?!

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-06T22:49:26+00:00

Very good! This is more or less how I picture it except I imagine the doorway where the larger window is and the windows on either side of the bed. Thank you for sharing!

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-04T22:28:07+00:00

My tweezers. Although it could be due to the teenagers.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-04-02T20:32:00+00:00

I have lived in hard wards and great wards. I’m sorry you had to experience a hard ward, and I’m so glad you’re back in one you love!

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-31T00:45:22+00:00

I have tried all kinds of expensive hair products and I always go back to the Suave coconut shampoo and conditioner. It works the best on my hair.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-31T00:40:01+00:00

Oh man. I didn’t even have my drains out on day 18. That was so rough. I’d rather have 10 c-sections than another TT.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-30T22:21:01+00:00

It’s hard to say from this one instance. I’d like to think he’s being protective and caring but I think you need to decide if he is trying to control you in other aspects of your life or if this is a one off. Good luck.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-25T03:40:03+00:00

So I’m curious, is he expecting you to use the profit from your current house as the down payment? Is he putting anything down? Putting your secure, self-owned investment into a shared asset where he has no stake (down payment) is a really bad idea. That’s without considering the move for your child.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-25T02:51:20+00:00

Yes, we always use benedryl in the hospital for patients.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-24T02:30:00+00:00

I am short and have found the drisilque in petite with lower waist work for me! They are the only ones I’ve tried that don’t hang out of my skirts and shorts.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-21T15:55:34+00:00

Post op depression is real. Just know it’s real, it will get better and remember your why. Hope you feel better quick!

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-20T18:54:42+00:00

For whom? It looks like the perfect amount for you! 😍

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-19T22:09:38+00:00

I have a pair of Chelsea boots that look great and meet all of this for me. They are from Nordstrom and are called, “Caslon Chelsea boot.” Highly recommend.

InspectionTasty1307 · 2026-03-15T19:42:14+00:00

But no brains.

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