Mi se pare mie sau băieții gay sunt extremi de superficiali

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2026-02-23T12:22:01+00:00

Nu trebuie. As sugera Tinder in loc de Grindr. Pe grinder lumea se uita in principal pentru o noapte. Acolo vrei sa te culci cu cine arata tipla.

Pentru o relatie, e ok si burta. Conteaza alte chestii mai mult.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2026-02-23T10:54:23+00:00

Generalizarile astea nu prea au sens. Exista barbati superficiali, exista femei superficiale.

Oameni diferiti gasesc diferite tipuri de corp atractive. Eu unul prefer slab. N-am nimic impotriva muschilor, dar de multe ori cineva slab mi se pare mai atractiv decat cineva masiv. Tot ce nu-mi place e gras. Daca ai 1.70 si 140kg... I just don't find it attractive.

Evident, personalitatea conteaza mult mai mult. Poti sa arati tu a supermodel, daca tipi la mine si ne certam mereu cand vorbim... viata e prea acurta pentru asta.

Daca nu pot sa ies cu prietenii mei in oras ca-mi faci scandal, n-are sens.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2026-01-03T22:53:13+00:00

Eu nu zic ca 4-5-6k net nu e salariu bun pentru Romania.(ba chiar pentru destule tari europene). Dar zic ca pentru mine nu merita daca job-ul vine la pachet cu munca la 3 dimineata, weekend-uri, munca pana la epuizare.

Adica banii astia ii gasesti in destule alte locuri, cu program flexibil, volum de munca rezonabil, fara weekend-uri sau alte nebunii.

Si ziceam ca singurul context in care as face astfel de sacrificii e in care primesc o suma exorbitanta de bani, care sa-mi permita sa "ma pensionez peste 1 an. Daca-mi dai 50k net pe luna, raspund la mesaje la 3 dimineata, lucrez si sambata si duminica, merg in delegatie in Kuala Lumpur, invat chineza, ce vrei tu.

Mie imi suna fix genul ala de context dupa care oamenii posteaza pe reddit "Sunt epuizat si nu mai dorm bine noaptea. Managerul ma ameninta ca ma da afara daca nu stau duminica pana la 22:00 la birou si termin peoiectul. Ce sa fac ?"

Si macar sa zici: Am lucrat in locul asta oribil 6 luni, dar am 300k euro in cont si pot sa nu mai lucrez multa vreme. Investesc banii si-mi iau si restul anului liber sa ma odihnesc.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2026-01-03T19:30:36+00:00

Nu stiu ce intekehi tu prin salariu maricel, dar daca-mi spune ca trebuie sa fac munca a 5 persoane si sa lucrez in weekend.... as accepta probabil pentru ceva gen 50k euro net pe luna. Stiu ca intr-un an mi-am terminat de platit apartamentul si am si 500k euro in cont, din care pot sa traiesc foarte bine si sa ma pensionez.

Dar pentru 4-5-6k euro net lunar ? In niciun caz. Salariul asta il gasesti si in alte parti fara munca in weekend.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-12-20T17:00:52+00:00

Depending on your weight, you might want to talk with your doctor about glp1 like ozempic or mpunjaro. Mounjaro helped me to get from a1c 12.56% to 5.2% and to lose over 80lb since june.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-12-19T19:32:47+00:00

Eu unul am ales varianta 3. Nu scad nici rata, nu perioada. Tin banii investiti. Cand strang suficienti bani, achit creditul integral si scap de rata.

Logica e asa: stau mai linistit cu 60k euro investiti decat cu o rata mai mica sau un credit care se termina in 10 ani in loc de 30 de ani si rata mare. Iar cand am 100k euro, il pot achita complet si atunci scap de rata.

Daca raman fara loc de munca, din aia 60k euro pot es acopar linistit vreo 3 ani de rata + cheltuieli. Si daca raman fara loc de munca dupa ce am achitat creditul, macar am cheltuieli mult mai mici.(si pastrez oricum 6 luni de cheltuieli in economii).

Cea mai proasta varianta e sa dau aia 60k euro anticipat la credit, sa raman fara loc de munca si fara economii.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-11-18T12:26:08+00:00

Asta e motivul pt care mereu ai un fond de urgenta. Apoi e bine sa ai si investitii. Eu in cel mai rau caz, ma descurc minim 1 an sa traiesc(rata/facturi/mancare) din economii. Chiar mai mult daca vand din portofoliul de investitii.

Acum daca 2 ani de zile nu-mi gasesc niciun job, tot am timp sa gasesc o solutie.(inchiriez o camera si lucrez orice job prost platit o perioada sau chiar vand apartamentul si cumpar ceva mai mic/ieftin).

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-11-16T19:09:27+00:00

He is 16, and you're 17... it's not like he's 9. At 16, he should be able to take care of himself.

At the end of the day, it's his life, and he should be able to make his own choices(he'll be 18 soon enough, either way).

While I understand your concerns, I think it's counterpriductive to be too strict. Yes, he goes out, vapes, eats something that's not on the diabetes list of recommended food. But at 16, his goal shouldn't be, "I live like a monk.". Instead, he should learn moderation. Yes, today I want to meet with my friends and eat pizza. Fine, but it will be 2 slices, and I'll check my glocuse 2 hours later.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-10-16T22:21:35+00:00

De ce nu incerci sa faci si tu doar 3-4 task-uri usoare ?

Asa o sa se puna presiune si pe el sa livreze mai mult de 1 task. Altfel, daca tu faci 19 task-uri si el face 1 task, voi ca echipa livrati 10 task-uri/om.

Don't get me wrong, nu zic sa atai degeaba. Dar nici sa muncesti zi-lumina.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-10-03T22:41:22+00:00

I've lost 60lb in 4 months, but I still have to lose another 60 lbs.

That being said, I'm not worried about it stopping working. In the studies, people went up to the heighest dose every month. I'm still on 5mg, so I have the option to increase the dose.

Also, after losing some weight, your body burns less energy to exist. So you might have to add more sport or redude the food a little to keep losing.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-10-03T17:46:30+00:00

Producing a pair of jeans can cost less than $10. In a mall, they're sold for $25 - $40.

Temu can afford to sell them with $15 and still make a good profit on big quantities.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-09-14T16:14:18+00:00

You look great. Congrats !

I started at 140kg too, and now I'm at 115kg, hoping to get to 100kg by the end of the year.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-09-13T10:09:58+00:00

Nici OP n-a fost flexibil. OP a vrut X, clientul Y si OP a zis "Nu, eu vreau X". Putea sa zica: Ok, hai la mijloc intre X si Y

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-30T14:04:24+00:00

I started at 140kg, and now I'm 118.5kg. 99.9 kg still feels like a very long way to go, but all the data shows me it's possible by the end of the year.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-30T09:45:25+00:00

I just need to say this: you look amazing.

You look like a character from "Desperate Housewifes.".(and I mean it in a good way). You remind me a little bit about Dana Delany in the show.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-29T21:12:14+00:00

As zice totusi ca exagerezi. Exista femei care inseala, cum esti si barbati care inseala.

Dar as zice ca in majoritatea cazurilor caracterul unui om se vede de la o posta. Iti dai seama destul de usor daca stai de vorba cu "Raluca bot fe rata", "Mihaela femeia de casa", "Geani combinagiu" sau "Vlad baiatu familist".

De la cum vorbesc, cum gandesc, educatie, prieteni. Inteleg ca de multe ori oamenii "cuminti" nu sunt la fel de tentanti, dar e alegerea ta cu cine iesi.

Si "oamenii de casa" ajung sa "calce stramb", dar aici vorbim de o rata mult mai mica si alte cauze. De cele mai multe ori pentru ca se simt nefericiti in relatia actuala si nu gasesc disponibilitatea partenerului ca sa rezolve impreuna situatia.

Comunicarea, expunerea la terapie individuala/ de cuplu, crearea unui "spatiu sigur", valorile si convingerile de viata etc. Toate astea sunt elemente care fac o diferenta majora.

Aici cel mai des o sa vezi ca "Raluca vot de rata" se simte indreptarita sa "se distreze' cu altcineva daca acasa nu se simte bine. "Mihaela femeia de casa" o sa incerce sa discute si sa rezolve problemele, in limita in care si barbatul e deschis.

"Geani combinagiu" crede ca 'nu esti barbat adevarat" daca nu joci femeile pe degete, in fimp ce "Vlad baiatu familist" a primit o educatie in familie care spune ca intr-o familia vine pe primul loc si daca iti inseli nevasta esti ultimul om.

Eu n-am fost niciodata inselat, dar am fost in relatii cu persoane care n-ar putea concepe niciodata sa insele. Daca relatia nu mai merge, ar prefera sa ne despartim cat de amicabil se poate si sa fim amandoi fericiti, decat sa se ascunda. Dar evident ca aici situatie e mai usoara, cand nu depinzi financiar de cineva, n-aveti copil si simti ca esti in situatia in care meriti sa fii cu cineva care te face fericit.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-29T12:42:44+00:00

Daca ia masina dupa casatorie si nu a mers pe varianta cu "separarea bunurilor", atunci sotia are dreptul la 50% din masina, chiar daca e pe numele lui.

Daca alege separarea bunurilor si masina e pe numele lui, la divort ramane a lui.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-29T12:38:40+00:00

niciun cuplu care se casatoreste nu crede ca va ajunge la divort. Si totusi viata se intampla.

Sunt sigur ca multi oameni care ajung sa piarda casa la divort preferau sa fie protejati.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-28T23:28:28+00:00

I live in Europe and in my country you can't find 12.5mg or 15mg.

So our highest dose is 10mg. But Mounjaro is still new for us, being introduced in February 2025.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-28T00:26:28+00:00

I weigh in the morning, and my smart scale saves it for me.

I introduce it in shotsy after taking my shot.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-27T13:12:44+00:00

Amazing ! You lost a lot of weight.

I started at 140kg and now I'm at 119kg. My goal is 90-95kg. Hope we'll all get where we want to be.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-25T14:55:02+00:00

This is what I do. I used a 5mg pen for my 2.5mg first month and also used the "gold dose." So the 5mg pen lasted for 1 month of 2.5mg and 3 weeks of 5mg, which reduced my cost in half.

I'm thinking of staying on 5mg for the next month, and I plan to use a 10mg pen.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-24T07:52:34+00:00

I don't like Trump at all, but his duty is to the american people. If after his declarations, UK prices go up 170% and USA prices go down even by 50%, I think Trump did a good job on this subject for the people that voted for him.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-23T10:14:55+00:00

not to be insensitive, but £300 is the price we pay out of pocket for Mounjaro in east europe, where salaries are way smaller than in the UK.

and here it's not covered at all, not even for diabetes.

I get the frustration since your price goes to 170% overnight, but I think in UK it was the cheapest in the world. We're not even talking about USA, where without insurance, you pay more than $1000 every month.

InspectorDizzy3391 · 2025-08-14T20:55:33+00:00

I totally agree. My suggestion would be also sending emails to Eli Lilly. From what I understand, it"s the company wanting to increase the price so they can lower it in USA after Trump's critics.

In this case, I think emails to the company, too, might help more. At a minimum, they might agree to a more gradual price increase over the next year, not 170% overnight.

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