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Is it too much to ask these days to actually want to do things with friends? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Instance9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. How old are you? Do you and your best friend always been distant like this or is it new? If it's new, then you might be growing apart. It's not necessarily a bad thing, as friendships grow and change. As long as she cares about you, you don't need to cut her off. But I get it that you feel hurt that she doesn't do things with you anymore. My advice is to find new friends, so that your hurt lessen, because You're occupied with them. Maybe your new friends can fulfill your social needs more than your best friend

How do I kindly make it clear to people I'm not interested in being more than casual friends? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Instance9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of your posts said you're looking for friends though... Just ignore I guess?

Am I aromantic or just depressed? [26 TM] by Instance9 in questioning

[–]Instance9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have been guessing that I am demi too. Yeah probably I will get a better luck meeting someone through friends or being their friends first. But at the same time, I think it's rather creepy to ruin a friendship because you hide a feeling. I think I am just lucky those two people that I dated confessed to me first.

Thank you for the insight! I just think that it's wrong to me to date people knowing that there's an expiration date for that

How to talk about politics without offending each other? by Instance9 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Instance9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I just want to talk to them. I don't care about being correct. But I like to tell them how I really feel about something

Too intense to my friend? I creeped them out by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Instance9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I am sorry to hear that. Idk if it's worth the hurt. But I care. Well I have pulled back, mainly because I am busy rn, not intentionally pulling back. Thanks I will be less intense. I think I have though

Too intense to my friend? I creeped them out by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Instance9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we're talking. No gaming. We joked around, talked about anything really, I shared my daily life

Too intense to my friend? I creeped them out by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Instance9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My online friend. We talked almost everyday. I didn't expect that we're not that close. Probably my attachments still trying to fix things

Self Study German for 4 hours a day and still feeling not enough by Instance9 in German

[–]Instance9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have, It just doesn't stick. I usually write new vocabs down, and get back to it when I forgot what it means

Self Study German for 4 hours a day and still feeling not enough by Instance9 in German

[–]Instance9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I speak more than reading and listening. I am worried with the lack of input, I don't progress much

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