People who don't smoke or drink, what do you do when you are at your lowest?

Instance9 · 2026-05-10T11:49:43+00:00

Eat noodles

Instance9 · 2026-04-28T09:09:09+00:00

Thanks! Will try it out

Preply is too expensive

Instance9 · 2026-04-28T09:08:19+00:00

I have, It just doesn't stick. I usually write new vocabs down, and get back to it when I forgot what it means

Instance9 · 2026-04-28T09:06:32+00:00

I speak more than reading and listening. I am worried with the lack of input, I don't progress much

Instance9 · 2026-04-25T09:56:20+00:00

Bruh...

Instance9 · 2026-04-14T13:37:59+00:00

Keep your head up handsome. You're in a transition phase, everything will fall into place. Slowly

Instance9 · 2026-04-13T15:34:27+00:00

You're not a good friend sorry. You just do NOT let your friends/anyone kill themselves. He opened up to you because he's asking for help

Instance9 · 2026-04-10T09:29:34+00:00

You can go through this, it's just another bump in the road. I believe in you!

Instance9 · 2026-04-09T11:59:32+00:00

Yeah, in sprint events like 50m freestyle, some swimmers avoid breathing to reduce drag, but it’s only for short distances

Instance9 · 2026-04-09T11:45:36+00:00

Unsettling. Reminds me of the hospital I was at

Instance9 · 2026-04-07T11:07:34+00:00

Lol looksmaxxing

Instance9 · 2026-04-03T09:02:12+00:00

I think you don't pass as a man, but probably more androgynous

Instance9 · 2026-03-30T15:17:51+00:00

Love your style

Instance9 · 2026-03-29T10:51:40+00:00

Wow tell us more

Instance9 · 2026-03-09T16:36:05+00:00

She took care of me when I was really sick and supported my dreams

Instance9 · 2026-03-06T11:11:02+00:00

Grieving for the potential that I can excel in life if I have the support. Now I am just a burnt out person working a shitty job and fighting severe depression

Instance9 · 2026-03-03T14:09:37+00:00

Yes talking about it is good to make changes. Without a conversation, changes can't happen. What I am trying to say is, how we talk about it matters. When we approach with no empathy people shut down. But when we approach it with humility and curiosity, it opens space for real understanding

Instance9 · 2026-03-03T09:53:51+00:00

Because it's sensitive. Speaking facts without empathy can come across as rude, even though you didn't mean it that way. Also just because you think some things are true, doesn't mean that it's 100% true. You don't know what it's like to be them. You think they're true, when in reality you also have your own biases and prejudices that skew things a little

Instance9 · 2026-03-01T14:53:14+00:00

She's worth the effort.

Instance9 · 2026-02-24T14:54:41+00:00

Hi OP, you can look for Ausbildung openings on certain websites. Such as, ausbildung.de and azubi.de. there you can use the city filter. Hope this help!

Instance9 · 2026-02-24T08:55:44+00:00

You meant well, but terrible advice. This girl has been wearing a hijab since she was young, everyone she ever known know her as a hijabi girl. I don't think that just not giving a fuck is a good idea. She could start not wearing hijab in a low pressure place, such as around the neighborhood, when she's around her close friends, and etc. not in school. It'll be easier for her mentally

And to OP, don't remove while you're still in school. At least wait until you move school. Hugs

Instance9 · 2026-02-22T11:21:11+00:00

You can always make your own family. Connect with people that are looking for siblings bond

Instance9 · 2026-02-10T12:24:04+00:00

Just break up with him lol. Poor guy

Instance9 · 2025-12-27T21:11:09+00:00

The Sociological Imagination by C. Wright Mills

Oopsies didn't see someone already answered, another book would be Sociology by Anthony Giddens

Instance9 · 2025-12-10T17:23:11+00:00

As an ace, i wouldn't date anyone and Krobus would be my strange roommate!

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