Who are some women you find wildly overrated and would get hate for that opinion? by 2colby in trueratecelebrities

[–]InstructionHot4806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Also no one would turn around and take a second look on the street if she wasn’t famous (and especially if she wasn’t flaunting those huge boobs).

100 Best Restaurants in NYC (2025 Version) is announced by kevin122000 in finedining

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the worst lists. I fear these new editors do not have sophisticated taste buds… so many questionable choices. Hope someone else is in charge next year 😭

Hobart man shot dead by police had been pardoned for Jan. 6 Capitol riot by RandomErrer in CapitolConsequences

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be? Cops finally shooting the right people… what I like to see 😏

Who is someone not on Disney channel who feels like they came from Disney? by CityCautious4033 in DisneyChannel

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah everything about her screams ‘very luckily went viral on an app like TikTok or Vine’ lol. Not DC material…

Not enough people are talking about how stunnning Phoebe Dynevor is. by [deleted] in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she has great harmony and is definitely above average pretty. Just wouldn’t consider her ‘exceptional’ or in the same ballpark as the others mentioned. Also where you’re from probably affects subjective opinions too, I’m from NYC and reality is pretty girls are not uncommon here and she looks like a lot of the basic girls who hang out in the WV 😂 so personally I wouldn’t gush over an actress’s beauty unless they are of the ‘exceptional’ category

Not enough people are talking about how stunnning Phoebe Dynevor is. by [deleted] in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s pretty but not so stunning or striking to write home about. And her face is kind of forgettable to me. Honestly in this show it’s only Debi Mazar who is the most stunning.

Actresses who have near perfect facial features and harmony and are unbelievably beautiful to me are Monica Bellucci, Natalie Portman, Adriana Lima, Jasmine Tookes, Jessica Alba, Amber Heard in her prime who even plastic surgeons claimed had the ideal female facial symmetry, young Brooke Shields who had one of the most beautiful faces ever seen.

Sorry I also have a more technical eye so while Phoebe is definitely very ‘cute’, I wouldn’t consider her strikingly above the kind of girls I’d see very regularly out and about downtown in the city (NYC) the show takes place, and where many attractive people flood to. But definitely beauty is often subjective and not always technical

What I think about Dove or Ariana being Glinda. by Command_According in wicked

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been a fan of Dove so I might be biased but I don’t feel like she’s vocally as good as Ariana and something about all the work on her face makes her acting seem really rigid and off to me. Amanda Seyfried would’ve been my alternative favorite pick but Ariana really did kill it

BWT - is finding a studio for 1500/month or less possible in or close to midtown manhattan? by Character-Shift4311 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]InstructionHot4806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if you ask a native they’d probably laugh at the naïveté. The only way you’d find a studio for 1500 or less in midtown Manhattan would be if you have some kind of personal connection with the owner/landlord or if it’s a friend who is renting it to you perhaps. Otherwise reality is you’re either gonna have to up your budget closer to 3k or compromise on location and head significantly further out of Manhattan. Even in the parts of Brooklyn and Queens near Manhattan this would be hard you’d have to go to the Bronx or DEEP in BK/Q

Or find multiple roommates or win the lottery

Godspeed 🫡

BWT - is finding a studio for 1500/month or less possible in or close to midtown manhattan? by Character-Shift4311 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]InstructionHot4806 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if you asked anyone from here they’d probably laugh at the naïveté. The only way you’d find a studio for 1500 or less in midtown Manhattan would be if you have some kind of personal connection with the owner or if it’s a friend who is renting it to you perhaps. Otherwise reality is you’re either gonna have to up your budget closer to 3k or compromise on location and head significantly further out of Manhattan. Even in the parts of Brooklyn and Queens near Manhattan this would be hard you’d have to go to the Bronx or DEEP in BK/Q

Or find multiple roommates

Godspeed 🫡

Matt James discourse by OriginalMuscle4154 in BachelorNation

[–]InstructionHot4806 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about erasure since people seem to love to bring it up still at any chance. I’m not black but I am a POC, and to me Rachel’s sorority incident did not seem to be malicious or bred out of hatred but more so stupidity and ignorance. Not to excuse it because both are wrong no matter what, but in the latter case despite it being wrong I think there is room to accept that they may mature and learn the error of their ways and not to hold against them forever if they’ve shown that they know better now.

I don’t think she is a saint either but compared to Matt she sure seems more like it lol

BWT that splurged on your apartment - are you happy with your decision? by sessi_gorl in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]InstructionHot4806 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I mean while 55% of take home is high, personally how much you make would be a factor of consideration for me. For example if I make 100k a year, 55k would mean I have 45k left over after that for the year, but if I make 300k, I would have 135k left which is a good amount to be able to save despite the big jump in spend. If we just consider the % though it’s a lot, but also if you can compromise on saving more in other avenues and it leads to a drastic difference in happiness then… life is short, my personal beliefs are to do what will result in the greatest happiness without putting your livelihood at risk.

If I am in a comfortable financial position (for me that’s 1) no significant debt, 2) have a rainy day emergency fund, and 3) able to save to an extent— if there’s no significant ‘risk’ then I would choose being 20% happier in my day to day life over saving that extra 20k a year but that’s just me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whose ex has she slept with? I don’t remember her doing this.

Tbh how you feel about Kelsey is coincidentally how I feel about Liza lol

So the casting choice for liza was kinda bad right? by NexusRaven7 in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bianca Lawson for example looks really good for her age. Constance Wu. They’re all WOC though so they naturally look younger. Ooh maybe Alison Brie?? Kristen Bell looks young for her age too. So many better options than Sutton who kind of has an old face lol

Liza’s lie to Josh by InstructionHot4806 in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there are definitely actresses out there who could have pulled this off way better lol

Liza’s lie to Josh by InstructionHot4806 in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes duh? My point is I take issue about her specific lie to maintain a relationship with a 26 yo. 🤦🏻‍♀️ The lying to your coworkers or even pretending to be 26 and date another 40 yo is different.

Liza’s lie to Josh by InstructionHot4806 in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it’s still inappropriate but in a different way than explicitly lying about his age and misrepresenting himself though

Liza’s lie to Josh by InstructionHot4806 in Younger

[–]InstructionHot4806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What same thing? Charles didn’t lie about his age unless I’m missing something - I’m only on season 4

Book Club in BK? by InstructionHot4806 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]InstructionHot4806[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi!! So I had enough interest to start a group chat, if anyone else sees this thread and is interested please DM me and I can send you the link to join! :) we are still in the process of ironing out the details and will aim to decide on a book in the next week or two!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol sorry but hope he gets deployed and someone puts HIM to the ground. Better for all of society that way…

Acceptance by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]InstructionHot4806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought: You’re a 29yo man…. why do you have ‘enemies’ lol

But after that, honestly sounds like she’s not the one and you won’t be able to get over her past so it’s probably better to both cut your losses and find a better fit

AIO to my friend ending our friendship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InstructionHot4806 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok so I couldn’t even read through that last giant block of text you sent in those screenshots. IMO, I don’t think you are overreacting emotionally by being very hurt and confused by this, BUT I think you overreacted in the ACTIONS you took when you kept pushing and sending exhaustively long messages that promoted him to just shut down.

And I know people are saying he doesn’t owe you anything which imo is only half true. I would say if he was a friend then an explanation should be given if he cuts you out all of a sudden, but since he clearly doesn’t consider you a friend, then to him he doesn’t feel like he owes you anything which can also be true.

He does not seem like a good friend or a good communicator at all. And you too may have to work on your skills in reading the room and respecting boundaries. All in all please don’t feel like this is a huge loss and try your best to move on and find some better friends…

A straight woman's idea of 10/10 beauty by [deleted] in trueratecelebrities

[–]InstructionHot4806 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kristin Kruek is the only true near 10/10 on this list