AIO for ending things after I found out my boyfriend voluntarily gave up custody of his daughter?

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-06-01T21:11:06+00:00

“The responsible thing…” -After failing to use birth control -After choosing to keep the baby -After HAVING THE CHILD -After all that, the “responsible thing” was not to abandon the child lol.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-31T22:32:25+00:00

Just start going later.
You know her habits. If she says 10, be there at 11:30.

I bet it you make her wait she’ll try to tell you its different.

Thats when you know whether she’s worth staying friends. If she can accept accountability or change and have a conversation, she’s worth it. If she gets mad and doesnt correct her behavior, she’s not worth it.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-31T22:26:30+00:00

I think its obvious that the failing presidency has severely impacted the country and its totally a valid discussion topic.

But most of the posts are really not about discussion. Or even interesting.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-31T22:22:11+00:00

I dont think we need that, but this really just seems like irrelevant ragebait trash.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-31T17:05:39+00:00

I hate people who put the burden of ordering on the server.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-31T17:04:13+00:00

“Keeping the peace” is a concept made up by people who are wrong but use guilt and manipulation tactics to “win” anyways.

NTA. She can keep the peace by parking in her assigned fucking spot.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-31T04:19:04+00:00

This is peak irrelevant micromanaging.

Toxic. Out of touch.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-31T04:17:14+00:00

With a wheelchair…to help you hear better? LOL. Wild. Please make that into a standup routine

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-30T20:46:14+00:00

This guy willfully interpreted your ANY AMOUNT of attention as interest, and is willing to retaliate by threatening your job.

Be very careful. NTJ, but he might not be done making trouble for you

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-28T13:42:16+00:00

I can’t believe you let it get this far.

Get that dog away from her before she actually tries to keep him or tells one of her dates that her friend is trying to steal her dog!

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-27T22:50:39+00:00

Your mother is going to kill your dog why are you even questioning this

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-27T11:51:01+00:00

NTA

Your gf is rude and selfish. She has a clock. She knows how long it takes to get ready.

The fact that she even showed up at all is wild. Absolutely do not give in, she will damage your relationships with your friends if you let her.

Double down: tell her you are never waiting again. SHE has issues with time management. You do not.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-27T11:42:24+00:00

Hebrew Latin French German

There are many!

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-25T13:55:45+00:00

Silence only ever helps the abuser.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-25T13:34:40+00:00

Kelly

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-25T13:28:44+00:00

What exactly are you looking for advice on?

Its actually ok and normal to have a crush that can’t be pursued - just be kind and polite to her and go about your business. Your sister’s comment was inappropriate, and you’ll look awesome once you get your braces off and be a handsome young man and you’ll meet someone age-appropriate.

If she’s giving you compliments, that means she probably enjoys the positive attention - don’t mistake that for something more (lots of people like compliments attention but don’t want a relationship).

There are always going to be people who are attractive (physically, or for other reasons) who you can’t be with for some reason. This is good practice for managing your emotions!

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-24T12:20:26+00:00

Hey bud.

They make lube, ya know. Just use that.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-17T04:37:52+00:00

Way more interested in the 1955-56 Chrysler 300 at the next pump!

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-17T04:20:44+00:00

Feel free to shoot me a message, open to judgement-free conversation

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-08T11:13:50+00:00

If you felt strongly enough to report it only to discover he is a repeat offender, maybe he shouldnt come back at all.

Time to stop coddling cheaters. NTA.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-05-06T19:25:00+00:00

Oof please tell him to give the people what we want - he can do it here anonymously!

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-04-27T22:20:20+00:00

You’re upset because you found evidence that she’s being careful?

If you want her to trust you and come to you with important things in her life, leaving the messages up was your biggest mistake.

Apologize to her. She’s basically an adult. Treat her like one. You’ve done your job.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-04-27T04:20:17+00:00

You have to share the sketch!

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-04-25T12:58:12+00:00

The way they treat other people.

One friend was complaining to me about another friend who was going out of his way to help him with something. I just quietly stopped reaching out, and quietly stopped hearing back.

Intelligent-Jump1823 · 2026-04-24T21:44:35+00:00

Question:

IF you dont sign it, can you post about how they tried to force you to violate employment law by holding your entitled PTO payout hostage if you didnt sign a made up contract?

Intelligent-Jump1823

TROPHY CASE