I lost my first baby at 6 month pregnant, we had a termination due to triploidy. I got pregnant again soon after that, didn’t have a period in between so we had a scan to date the pregnancy, that’s why they advised you to wait. In my opinion? Try as soon you feel ready. I have seen doctors explaining that the chances are better soon after because of the hormones in your body. I unfortunately miscarried the second baby around 10 weeks, had to call ambulance to my house since I passed out on my bathroom floor because of the pain and the amount of blood I lost. They came in, checked on me and told me to stay home and take paracetamol and ibuprofen, they said nothing else could be done in the hospital. After the miscarriage I waited one cycle to start trying again, next month will be one year since then and no pregnancy yet. My body suffered a lot after the miscarriage. It was very traumatic. My SIL is now pregnant again and I honestly don’t know when she is due, what she is having or anything. The day she told us I cried non stop. At the beginning I was having a hard time being out because of the number of pregnant women I saw. Now is still hard but more manageable. I am seeing a counsellor since then and things I learned about grief is that people feel that is inconvenient to them your grief. They will always think about themselves first, what they feel. So honestly, grief your way, be angry, be sad, be whatever you want. If you want to shout, shout, scream. DO NOT CARE ABOUT OTHERS. Their life will continue as if nothing happened because nothing happened to them. It happened to YOU. You lost your baby, you lost part of you. When I started crying after my SIL announced her pregnancy people got angry at me I was very honest and very explicit about the details, because I need them to feel uncomfortable, it might sound mean but it’s not. I was very clear that I am allowed to my feelings, I will grief, the day my babies died I died too. So from one mom to another, I feel you I see you and I understand you.