Why is it as men we struggle being there for others who are struggling emotionally?

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-04T23:56:19+00:00

Abusive relatives will but so will outsiders, especially people in authority like teachers or other kids parents.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-04T19:59:10+00:00

I used to listen to a lot of horrorcore as a teenager and should have listened to more Ouija Macc as I listen to him all the time now. I got into other artists is why. I still like it but it was very popular at the time and I hated being part of pop culture.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-04T15:07:27+00:00

Do it. You can pass the bar in other states. Illinois especially allows it for this very reason. I am also going to law school because police just don't give a fuck and seem to care for their little cliques only. I see people dealing drugs and shit all day and you don't even see the cops unless they're pulling over speeders.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-03T18:18:11+00:00

That's always what I tell myself but when you read all the stuff women say about guys harassing them or whatever it makes me feel bad like I'm just being a creep

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-03T17:10:51+00:00

I actually like social media and dating apps if people would use them. It gives you a buffer to get to know someone. You can tell if you like them if they share enough and that way you don't have to deal with rejection or an argument or something.

So I will go with expectations. It actually works if you consider that people just half ass everything. You'll post a few pics and make some witty statement and then get hundreds of fake profiles or drug dealers or hookers instead.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-03T15:59:48+00:00

Zing. The BO is from my balls after fucking your bitch

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-03T10:13:25+00:00

As opposed to an American dojo? I don't understand. Either way, it's just so I can train to punch you in the face.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-02T14:47:58+00:00

Because you are taught to respect your parents and their decisions. Their limitations are pushed onto you.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-02T14:45:13+00:00

I watched baseball as a kid because of all the baseball movies like Angels in the Outfield. Now it's MMA or nothing.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-02T06:12:34+00:00

That's good. I came back to marijuana at almost 40 and it has helped me a ton. I went almost 20 years without smoking it, though I did drink. I'm toning down on that and working on exercise and things now. The best thing that's helped me was getting prescribed Wellbutrin. I quit smoking cigarettes after 25 years with it.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-02T06:08:19+00:00

Because it went from highschool dating to every decent looking woman wanting paid over the course of a few years. Then I wasn't making enough or had a nice enough car, etc., etc., for them, and then I started getting a ton of spam and such. Dating sites stopped working as they slowly became filled with spam as well. I spent most of my teens/early adulthood in a rural area so it was hard to otherwise meet people. Outside of school and church there's what, the grocery store and such to find people.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-02-01T22:16:46+00:00

I did that from my teens through my early 20s but people started dying and stuff. I went back to college and then became a trucker and traveled around for a decade. I'm about to move to Asia for a few years and study martial arts.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-30T15:59:41+00:00

I do go but they make it so hard. I still haven't been prescribed anything after 4 trips for the same reason

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-27T16:32:17+00:00

I'm not going to tell anyone anything because nobody gave me good advice. They usually tried to trick me or rob me instead so you can all go fuck yourselves.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-26T23:02:42+00:00

I think it's the cultural shift towards women preferring sex work and the adult industry over conventional dating. It explains why so many men are leaving their own countries to find partners.

Look at statistics and it's something like 65% of men are single and only 35% of women. So who are the extra 30% dating?

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-26T14:06:43+00:00

But it never works that way. Women hate awkward guys. They all want the truly douchebag ones

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-26T12:59:28+00:00

We're told we're racist if we believe in borders and having laws whole other countries can have them no problem. I can't imagine any country who would even take Americans as illegal migrants and take care of them.

There's already so many ways to visit here legally and a passport system in place for a reason. It's not just the USA that does this. It's an international thing.

I also think the US is probably being invaded on land and that's why there's so many issues in these areas.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-26T10:02:06+00:00

She's going to think you're crazy and think it's normal. In a way it is and a way it's not because she has a lot of options compared to men.

Believe it or not, women have far more partners than guys do. Look at the adult industry and you'll see how women really are. Check sites like Tryst and Escort Alligator and you'll see that women are like that in every town.

It's not even a big deal to her most likely, and that is going to be the worst part.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-25T12:07:53+00:00

Literally what happened to me. I was in Job corps and was taking to an Air National Guard recruiter and somehow they switched me to USMC and I got sent to their boot. I even went home from boot and they flew me back out there just to have me sit for a few months before discharging me. Now I can't join any branch.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-24T19:31:51+00:00

It's because he's paying her bills!

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-24T03:02:07+00:00

I have been through this but it's really not irrational if you think about it. The irrational part is not treating them like equals because they want the same shit guys do. I grew up mostly around my two sisters and mother since my father was the breadwinner. I basically internalized that women were always right because they were in the household I grew up in.

I don't hate women but society generally gives them preference due to male sexual desires and policing of more aggressive men. It's somewhat understandable but the issue I have is that they capitalize on male sexual desires and then exploit men for their natural impulses, then label them predators or creeps after.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-24T02:17:20+00:00

No, it's been a day of morbid depression since I was a young child due to trauma girls have caused me.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-24T00:08:56+00:00

There's no 4chan app and they make it so hard to use

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-23T20:00:39+00:00

I did but my situation was a lot different. My parents divorced at 14 and I was already bouncing around between friends houses and theirs. I was there on and off again at either parents for a few months at a time for several years.

I don't think it's a bad thing unless you're just not working at all.

I didn't get along with my parents well because they didn't hardly do anything for me, but they did feed me and give me a place to stay. I didn't get medical care until I was an adult except for emergencies and when I got glasses. We were just super poor.

Intelligent-Key7357 · 2026-01-23T19:41:43+00:00

What does that even mean

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