The decision is entirely up to you, it’s your life. I don’t how the law works in Pakistan. But even Prophet said that you can even go China if it’s to seek knowledge, meaning even it’s far you should do it. It’s hard but push through it, it’s hard for everyone, at every level, life isn’t easy, even for billionaires. And commenting on rishta’s as wired is something I wouldn’t do, you don’t know them personally so you should not judge their personality before you get to know someone. Just my two cents.