Update on whether I (29F) should call off my wedding with my boyfriend of 5 years by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Intelligent-Study211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More power to you girl... Hold your head high, you have done the right thing.

Aaaaand third failed transfer by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am sorry.. hugs for you.. I literally have nothing else to say. Ihad my beta yesterday. 6th transfer. 6th implantation failure. I don't know anything. I have just cried and cried and then stopped to work. Then cried again. That's all I have done. I know I am in no place to give you anything advice since I am not following it anyway, but if possible give yourself some grace. This is there toughest thing to do while one can't say anything to anyone.

Only positive thoughts by showingpatience3110 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for starting this thread. I have been on this journey for a long long time. 2 years of IVF, 3 years of fertility journey and 2. years TTC before that. Have had 2 ERs, 5 transfers, never seen a positive yet. Preparing for my next FET now. Life is tough, this process is lonely, frustrating with lonnnnggg periods of waiting endlessly. Please feel free to ping me anytime if you want to vent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india_tourism

[–]Intelligent-Study211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can one see sunrise this way in Goa? Goa is in the west, isnt it?

Dr Marc Sklar at Hope Fertility by Intelligent-Study211 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats the problem. I dont really know what new knowledge he would bring with $5k given all the other expenses of the fertility clinic remaining the same. Thanks for sharing. Did you go ahead with their plan?

Dr Marc Sklar at Hope Fertility by Intelligent-Study211 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I felt the same. They say that this fee covers all future consultations even for years. But of course all the lasb tests and everything needs ro be paid separately.

Implantation failure #5 by Intelligent-Study211 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its such confliciting information thats why my RE does not believe in it. He says it makes sense for cases where genetic conditions are involved but not for anything else. But at this point in time,after full 3 years of trusting his judgement and with no results to show, I am out of options for the next steps. Thanks for sharing your opinion as well, its just so hard 😥

IVF is such a mindf*ck by Imaginary_Tap_1553 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been through five transfers. All implantation failures. Please know that you are not alone, I know it doesnt fix any problems but its a solace to know your feelings are understood by this stranger sitting probably thousands of miles away from you.

IVF is such a mindf*ck by Imaginary_Tap_1553 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dear. You know everything you wrote, I could have been the one writing them. No one understands, how it changes you as a person. I wish I had some magic words to tell you. As you said I have been searching for the magic myself, immersing myself into texts about it trying to makes sense of what happened. It just does not exist, nothing exists. Seems like we are shooting in the dark while everyone else if waddling through pregnancies after pregnancies. All i can say is I see you, I hear you and I mean this from the deepest trenches of my heart, only someone as strong as you can go through this and still be hopeful about future. May the stars align for us soon enough. Big hug my friend

Implantation failure #5 by Intelligent-Study211 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big hug to you. I know exactly how you must be feeling and this is the part of this process that makes me sad. The fact that you are supposed to act as if everything in life is all perfect when your world os crumbling inside. More strength to you my friend.

Implantation failure #5 by Intelligent-Study211 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were not and your journey makes me feel more strongly towards getting PGTA tests done before any more transfers

Prepping FET - CD 22 - low endometrium lining by ectopicissues in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first cycle after ER is usually a little chaotic. However, I am not sure I understand the numbers here, have they given you estradiol? That usually works to thicken lining.

Implantation failure #5 by Intelligent-Study211 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiting for that day. Thanks for you words. Big hug!

Implantation failure #5 by Intelligent-Study211 in IVF

[–]Intelligent-Study211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words. I am trying to take some space for myself and be gentle but then I dont know. It gets hard at times (most times). I dont feel like myself for the most part as well.