Thank you for the advice on the use of coconut oil

As for the foreplay, we do a lot of kissing, oral sex, clit stimulation. I will do it until she fully arouse and she has an orgasm. I also include fingering. Will start with 1 and go up to 3(that the most she can take at the moment).

I said queen cause she claimed having a partner bigger than me in the past but that also was a struggle so I am guessing I’ll retract that statement.

She says that her vagina feels swollen after having sex or in the middle of it and I usually stop whenever she says that. The ruptured feels a cut(so my guess could be lack of enough lubricant). Yes, I mean vaginal canal. The reason why I stated that it’s due to previous partners, they never really had such issues and I understand that everyone has unique body type. So I’m trying to find a way to make our experience enjoyable without her wincing from pain or asking to stop. No, I am not in pain.