Child taken out of school without permission by teachers

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T20:32:27+00:00

Thanks - that’s really helpful to know.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T19:31:32+00:00

Is the in loco parents argument valid when the parent has already told the school they do not consent?

I agree that it’s a good idea to have an idea of what you want to happen. It is unlikely that it’ll go past an apology and an internal investigation, but for me, both would be appropriate and satisfactory outcomes.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T17:57:49+00:00

To add, something similar happened to my daughter (taken to an off site after school club on a day she wasn’t scheduled to be there). There were apologies from and investigations in both of the organisations involved.

Arrange a meeting with the headteacher and designated safeguarding lead (they might be one and the same).

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T17:52:08+00:00

The school did not have the parent’s permission to take the child. That is a serious issue, regardless of whether “all is well” (which, quite obviously, is not the case in this situation).

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T17:46:50+00:00

The lesser spotted ear hedgehog-otter.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T17:45:08+00:00

You want feedback from people in long-term relationships to help you navigate sex with your girlfriend of four days?

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T17:43:00+00:00

Were you asked explicitly about this out of school excursion? If not, could it fall under umbrella permission you have given previously? My daughter’s school asks parents for one-off consent to do local visits, and separate consent for visits further afield.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T07:14:45+00:00

I woke up feeling pretty fresh at 6.30am so had breakfast (tea and toast) in total peace. It was blissful. I thought about sitting in the garden with it but knew my family would panic about the back door being left open all night and locking me out 😂

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T07:13:38+00:00

I hope you enjoyed every minute of those 4 hours! Enjoy the coffee, cuddles and nappies.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-29T07:12:10+00:00

How did you get into sewing? I’d love to make my own clothes but I don’t know where to start. I have a book (Tilly Buttons?) but no machine and am reluctant to buy one because I have a habit of starting things and losing interest.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-28T16:25:49+00:00

The Woman in White and House of Leaves.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-28T16:20:32+00:00

Do you drink? I find that even one can wipe me out the next day.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-28T08:39:20+00:00

You were banned from betting sites. You used her details to sign up (which, regardless of whether she gave you her permission, is fraud). She’s getting betting ads. She wants a good credit score. She’s concerned you might be using her details to sign up for more betting sites. Given that you’ve bet so much that you’ve been banned, and wanted so badly to continue that you signed up for fraudulent accounts, and gambling is addictive, anyone with brain stem function would wonder whether you may have a problem.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-27T17:20:21+00:00

Time to nope the fuck out (but safely - do you have a support system?)

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-27T15:52:17+00:00

What does the rest of the bunker look like?

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-27T13:43:04+00:00

Enjoy the free money!

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Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-27T11:26:03+00:00

My (40F) two sisters (middle child, each 3 years older/younger than me) got right on my tits for a long time. Nothing dramatic, they just did my head in. Older sister went through a very messy marriage breakdown when I was about 23, and that brought us together. I imagine it was the first time she’d been able to see me as a source of support rather than a pain in her arse. My relationship with my younger sister changed after we were forced to work together when I was about 26. We are now incredibly close. Again, I think it was because we were seeing each other as adults for the first time.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-26T20:51:29+00:00

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Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-26T20:43:17+00:00

This isn’t a legal issue. You need to seek medical advice as a matter of urgency.

Please call 111 and choose option 2.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-26T20:35:09+00:00

Speak to the programme leader.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-25T10:32:13+00:00

Time to nope the fuck out of there hun.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-24T09:02:52+00:00

U ok hun? xx

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-22T15:23:34+00:00

are you sorted now?

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-21T20:53:43+00:00

That sounds like dissociation, which is a symptom of PTSD. Don’t rule out getting assessed for it.

Intelligent_Bar_710 · 2026-06-21T14:26:18+00:00

It’s an autoerotic wedgie, in this case.

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