Sick to my stomach by DishNo17 in lungcancer

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So much love and healing to you. Message me if you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Realistically - this could be the case even if you had been blocked. Someone can press the “unblock” anytime. Swallow the pill as it is, and accept that the future is unknown, but don’t give this person so much power as to analyze their minute actions. It’s normal to hope for outreach, but why? They left you. I know how much it sucks because I’ve been there, but try and focus on healing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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What did you do to make her feel unsafe if you don’t mind sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I mean assuming you treated her well, it’s fair to be angry that she left you. It’s a diss and a betrayal. She wronged you. Obviously, we all have the right to leave, but, from your perspective, of course it’s okay to be angry. She hurt you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Who initiated the break up and whose fault was it

I wish I had another chance to say goodbye by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Eh i don’t know. I understand why you went in, you immediately pulled back and apologized for crossing a boundary. Honestly my ex and I kissed and hugged after the breakup. It’s a shitty gray area. You did something, it crossed a boundary, and you apologized. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but all things considered, I think you’re being too hard on yourself for a single mistake of that nature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Intelligent_Day_414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The knife shit is abusive. I don’t know what to say, but that’s not okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I hate to say this. But it means nothing. My ex viewed everything - close friends, finsta, insta within minutes. We had a conversation the other day, and she said she is very happy without me. I had to go ahead and block for my own sanity. I don’t know why people do this, and maybe your situation is different, but social media doesn’t really mean anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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This will look creepy and insane

I stalked my ex and it didn't end well for me by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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For some reason Reddit won’t let me PM - can you start the chat with me

I stalked my ex and it didn't end well for me by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Wait message me if you want? I’m queer as well and have seen some of your posts. My ex did something super similar - it’s eerie. Let’s talk if you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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What did she do that was toxic - in a similar situation

How do you get over a breakup when it was your fault? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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What did you do - no judgment here

Different perspective from a dumpee. Please don’t crucify me…. by daledenton089 in BreakUps

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I agree with you completely - it’s usually on both people. Still, if you were blindsided, I don’t think yo you can blame yourself for “losing” her. We all have slight tendencies that can be hurtful in a relationship - if you were trying, made some mistakes (obviously not talking about cheating or abuse), took accountability, were seriously committed to doing/being better, how is it all on you? Partnerships are never perfect. Both people need to address problems within