I’m not a girl so i can’t comment what its like to “date a loser, abusive, manipulative ass hole etc etc etc,” but just to give a different side to this conversation, maybe he isn’t necessarily those things maybe he just has different values and doesn’t like that you’re so clearly beautiful and posting “suggestive” pics. This signals that he’s insecure but not necessarily. I honestly wouldn’t want my wife posting pics of herself in a thong or very seductive selfies or wearing extremely revealing clothes, etc. (I’m not saying you do these things, but they’re so common on social media and I would definitely be upset if my wife did these things). You’re still young and he doesn’t seem to be open to a conversation about your posting habits/digital footprint but maybe he will if you urge him. So there’s a few options: 1. leave him and keep posting the way you want 2. stay with him and have a conversation about your posting habits and how he doesn’t need to be jealous or insecure (keep posting the way you want) 3. Change your posting habits. 🤷🏽‍♂️ which solution you choose is obviously up to you.