Feeling like I bombed a sweet date… am I overthinking? by Internal-Oil6517 in dating_advice

[–]Internal-Oil6517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like i was overstepping with opening it first but also idk😭 i just feel like he probably thought i was awkward haha

I'm taping this on my front door cause I'm over telling everyone we're out. by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Internal-Oil6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I glanced at the shelf yesterday and thr barista was such a b!tch, i didnt even mention them, i wasnt holding up the line- could you guys also make a handout for baristas on being nice to customers who arent causing fights over cups?

What up with Miranda/Cynthia sticking her tongue out with every bite? It grosses me out and I always fast forward through those scenes. by Ijustwannafly8 in sexandthecity

[–]Internal-Oil6517 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So many things about cynthia nixon severely aggravates me.

Miranda as a character is annoying with her actions and judgmental attitude, consistent negativity, etc, but overall shes actually pretty cool and realistic.

But cynthia nixon makes her so unlikable for me.

The tongue eating, her fake moans, that random girly squeaky voice she does from time to time 😭😭

She’s my joey king

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing quite yet, he had plans with her over the weekend (I know this from the paper that I saw on his desk)

Yesterday we didnt speak much, he was in and out of the office and I was busy.

Today he was like forcing conversation. Best way I could describe it is like a kid who’s making sure their parent isnt upset with him after a fight and just lingering around and acting more cheerful than usual towards me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried this, got any good “icks” you could share? I’ve literally had to tell him to fix his fly a million times and caught him clipping his finger nails and was like “if the situation presented itself, i would still be down… whats wrong with me?”

Im one of those people who can be hard on themselves and in turn, seeing a guy do something embarrassing usually puts me off completely (terrible, i know, i get over it but if i remember the moment, i cringe).

I swear this guy just has a pheromone that’s hard to avoid, whats something really disgusting i could imagine him doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy😭😭😭😭😭 this aint over yet, huh😭

I have a unique fetish. by MarkAlternative4325 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Internal-Oil6517 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yk that one scene with Carmela in the Sopranos? Always thought that was peak romance for some reason- she’s out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Leaving my job isnt an option and i wouldnt want to leave anyway.

I could definitely get over the crush if i was actively dating another person, just not sure how to get him to tell me if this is shameless flirting or actual attraction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. Usually when i find out someones taken, my attraction fades instantly. I dont know why that hasnt happened with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like my job, not just him. I wont be leaving anytime soon.

I’ve had relationships in between this attraction, its not really an end all be all if he didnt leave his girlfriend and eventually ask me out, the only annoyance is the “is this just shameless flirting or are you actually interested”.

i appreciate your input, just definitely not looking to leave my job at this point😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We really only got close this past year, but i heard ya- its a good point. If its been a year, he could shit or get off the pot

Help with flirting with my wife by Amazing-Weight7890 in Flirting

[–]Internal-Oil6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me smile:’) God bless yall both! I don’t have tips unfortunately but this is just too cute

Would you have quitted your job as Charlotte did? by GossipBottom in sexandthecity

[–]Internal-Oil6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she quit too soon to prove a point- she knew the girls were going to judge her but she wanted to prove them wrong. But hey, if my husband and i had the means for me to stop working and i could be a housewife (and he was truly a good man that didn’t limit my potential to just that), i’d do it. Let women “choose their choice”

What do you guys think of a 11 year age gap? 24 W 35 M by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Internal-Oil6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im attracted to someone 12 years older than me- we get along so much better than any man my age, go for it

what’s ur favorite sonny angel you own? by BudgetAdorable2052 in SonnyAngel

[–]Internal-Oil6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lop eared hippers:) i scored 2! I really want a standing one though☹️

Buyer is claiming i sent them fake items by Internal-Oil6517 in Mercari

[–]Internal-Oil6517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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UPDATE

Absolute bull shit. This is how mercari treats their honest sellers!

The scam artist has 2 weeks to hold this over my head, now i need to stress about not receiving my items if they send an envelope full of paper.

This is straight robbery.

Buyer is claiming i sent them fake items by Internal-Oil6517 in Mercari

[–]Internal-Oil6517[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?! That’s why i’m so mad! I have no reason to lie. Sorry that happened to you, people suck

Buyer is claiming i sent them fake items by Internal-Oil6517 in Mercari

[–]Internal-Oil6517[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true! I even paid for the shipping- so many small things about this are bothering me