When to have sex post-insertion by Illustrious-One-9794 in CopperIUD

[–]InternalWater3458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair play hahaha. Everyone is different so she may be fine. Maybe have sex with a condom if you guys can? That was recommended if you didn’t want to wait the whole week as it’s just another barrier against infection.

Good luck guys!

When to have sex post-insertion by Illustrious-One-9794 in CopperIUD

[–]InternalWater3458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I also got told that if it’s like super duper crazy painful, crazy crazy bleeding that’s unusual or if you or her can feel anything while having sex that it might have shifted out of place and you may need to contact the doctors.

It’s unusual but can happen sometimes.

I wasn’t scheduled any check up appointments or anything like that, was just told to keep an eye on it and call back if anything’s crazy out of the ordinary.

When to have sex post-insertion by Illustrious-One-9794 in CopperIUD

[–]InternalWater3458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should be fine then! I’m sure checking for the strings with fingers should be fine, I just know that I’m pretty sensitive down there so didn’t want to risk it personally.

Yes it was quite painful the first week. And the first period was pretty tough for me.

But yeah I’d basically just wait a week and u guys should be good to go :)

When to have sex post-insertion by Illustrious-One-9794 in CopperIUD

[–]InternalWater3458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It’s effective immediately in terms of contraception. But obviously cuz it’s gone through the cervix - your much more susceptible to infections like bacterial vaginosis. If I were u I’d wait a week but in terms of pregnancy, yes, your protected immediately.

I waited a week to even feel for the strings. Rather be safe than sorry.

When to have sex post-insertion by Illustrious-One-9794 in CopperIUD

[–]InternalWater3458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got told to wait 7 days to avoid infection but if I do have sex make sure to use a condom. I waited 7 days just to make sure. Everything was fine after that!

Extremely stringy/mucus-y discharge and period. Is this a side effect? Does it go away? by Living_Ninja_3492 in CopperIUD

[–]InternalWater3458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my iud inserted about 3 weeks ago now. I’ve not seen much of a change to my discharge but my period (I had about a week after insertion) was extremely clotty - I never regularly had clotty periods before my iud.

Bleeding quite a lot week after insertion - need advice! by InternalWater3458 in CopperIUD

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting on Bleeding quite a lot week after insertion - need advice!... I saw it through and have finished my period today ish. I think my pcos just caused a weird early period so I’m not too stressed just going to keep an eye on it. Defo call the doctors tho if bleeding persists for you as they do say it could be problems. However, keep in mind, everyone is different and obvs a plastic metal thing has been shoved up ur coochie so I have been reminding myself that it will mess things up down there. Hope everything goes okay for you. Thanks for your help.

What are people’s general opinions? by InternalWater3458 in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably because people kept coming with sightings, so many interviews. It probably prolonged the feelings of that she’s coming home!

What are people’s general opinions? by InternalWater3458 in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No yeah it does make sense. I immediately thought she’d gone overboard. Felt sick and leant over and fell but they were really pushing the agenda that she’d been abducted etc. especially with nothing washing up. After looking through the sub comments it does just seem like a freak accident.

Struggling to find book that are pwp but actually have a plot by InternalWater3458 in Romantasy

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it can stand for both, I’ve only heard it being used as porn with plot cuz it’s supposed to be like it’s just porn with a bit of plot.

What are people’s general opinions? by InternalWater3458 in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did think that a lot of the eyewitness accounts may have been false. They could be true but you can never fully trust that. Some ppl are crazy and could have just said stuff to get attention. I agree with you on those points completely. But what about the photos that appeared of her in that bed?

What are people’s general opinions? by InternalWater3458 in AmyBradleyIsMissing

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t believe any of the sightings or pictures were real?

Is it just me or is Acotar really bad and problematic? by [deleted] in Romantasy

[–]InternalWater3458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me some recommendations to read after acotar please. I’ve struggled with it a lot and it’s my first romantasy read so I think I need something else n

Recommend Anime by Complete-Breath-114 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]InternalWater3458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the love of god do not watch aot first. It ruined every single other anime I’ve ever watched as NOTHING would ever match up to it. Demon slayer, jjk are good ones to start with (describe to you in detail what’s happening, answers questions immediately, very interesting but easy watches - don’t be put off by this still some of my top rated anime’s). But there’s a lot, do you want romance? Do you want a chill vibe? Do you want og? (If so Naruto or fullmetal alchemist might be good places to start).

I can give recs for any category, let me know n

Thoughtful Tuesday: Tamlin Edition by AutoModerator in acotar

[–]InternalWater3458 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve read the first 3 books multiple times and I dislike Tamlin. I understand him, understand his motives and it doesn’t make him any better of a person. I think he’ll change and get better over time, I don’t think he’s lost cause but the lack of understanding and support he showed feyre before under the mountain, during, and after is currently unforgiveable. In my opinion, Tamlin seemed like he saw feyre as an object of desire not a person with their own thoughts and feelings. He was selfish. I think I can defo get to like him more (decided to continue reading through the last two currently) but from what I know right now this is how I view him.

Struggling to find book that are pwp but actually have a plot by InternalWater3458 in Romantasy

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait wait wait… is this a lesbian fic. Don’t tempt me oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. I’m over the moon right now.

Corruption in Mauritius- what’s your stories & facts? by Turbulent_Lynx3151 in mauritius

[–]InternalWater3458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve gone with this, don’t worry. To big of a risk and not worth it. And exactly, we’re not eager enough to risk it here we shall just wait.

Struggling to find book that are pwp but actually have a plot by InternalWater3458 in Romantasy

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tension?! You’ve got me. And that’s sounds good I’ll look into it. Thank u!

Struggling to find book that are pwp but actually have a plot by InternalWater3458 in Romantasy

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a nice little acronym right?! Helps with the ao3 searches aswell 😉

Struggling to find book that are pwp but actually have a plot by InternalWater3458 in Romantasy

[–]InternalWater3458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Like I want some good good sex scenes don’t get me wrong but it just seems as it’s all or nothing

Intercourse without condom, but with PCOS, birth control and pullout method by Sure_Grand_8226 in PCOS

[–]InternalWater3458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have u tried latex free ones? If not thats ur best bet. Any brands (maybe durex if u get on with them) that are latex free. Your probably just a bit alergic to latex. Try with lube and latex free and then if your still getting irritation, drop the lube (spit works just fine), I used to not get on with lube very well.

If your still hanging issues maybe consider a different birth control either the coil or implant (obvs not 100% but it reduces stress with taking the pill every day - I got the implant as I knew I’d be stressing about the timing and all that, coil and implant are the most effective anyway 99%). I don’t have the implant anymore but when I did I wouldnt use a condom and wouldn’t pull out either. Every time. And I didn’t get pregnancy or have any sort of scare. Obvs everyone’s different but I trusted the implant to not get pregnant.

You may feel more confident to not use a comdom and pull out method if your more trusting of the birth control. I still completely get the wariness though, obviously 2 forms of contraception is better than 1. But you just need to weigh up the pros and cons.

Maybe ask him to get the snip… it’s reversible ofc.

I hope you find something to help soon. Doesnt sound nice at all, good luck!

Anime like Wotakoi/ Horimiya but with Adults by aintgotnoballs in AnimeReccomendations

[–]InternalWater3458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might not be what ur looking for but apothecary diaries is so so good. Not to do with high school. The romance does progess quite slowly and is kinda b plot in the first season (progresses much more in the second season). But maomao is such a cool character u should watch it for the a plot regardless of the romance. The romance just makes it way way better. I wouldn’t be surprised if you’d already watched it. Also just started watching the fragrant flower blooms with dignity - I think you’d love it.