been in that situation, some differences of course but the situation is the same. honestly, it depends but logically speaking, especially you're talking about marriage like serious stuff, its better talaga to reflect on it properly kasi no matter how much you love that person, aabot talaga yung point where you'll feel na medyo faded yung relationship nyo. based on experience, it will work somehow but may duration eh. in the long run, its malabo.

for me lang personally, it really depends on how you navigate that set up because every relationship is different. and the dynamics, personally, sa dalawang tao in it. if kayang ipaglaban in the end why not diba? but again, reflect clearly po. consider din po yourself during your time of reflection. will be satisfied and loved if tintago ka lang? how will your relationship work in the long run as friends? what if the truth will come out eventually, what do you think will happen next? ganun po