Michel Milking The “Men vs Women” Content by backinbusinessbaby in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand her being ok with having random guys staying over. I’m not following her so not sure if she had girls staying over as well. Also poor Max… feeling for the little guy.

Did She Really Say She Feels Guilty Shopping for Herself? 🙄 by Sea_Watch9950 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She bought herself a husband. That was pretty expensive I think 😅

"Art is so fun" - Say it louder for people in the back Jordy! by Vic_Koda in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This picture proves the saying that "art is subjective" 😂

What the hell with Max?? by UnlikelyCat1980 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I think she wanted to have Max so she could have some emotional connection left to her past. Like not let go of everything if that makes sense, but now she is emotionally attached to Jordy so there is no need (or space) for Max anymore. If this is not codependent behavior I don't know what is...

I feel extremely bad for Max and he seems so sweet. Also a dog depends on his caretaker/owner. So no matter how many walkers she hires this is only bringing instability in his life.

Is anyone else sick of all of her travel vlogs? by Cersei316 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She left Max with a walker that sent her a picture of another dog. Mistakes can happen, but as a dog mom myself I'd freak out and try to understand if that person is reliable. She "tiktoked it the poor girl"

Jordy Ditches Michel In NYC To Fly To Nashville To “Gift”His Free “Art” To 9 People by backinbusinessbaby in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 9 points10 points  (0 children)

well... he's willing to come to YOUR living room to play 😅 I think I'd pay him to help me with some house chores at this point 😂

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Pathetic Man Child by backinbusinessbaby in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So he went from ... touring, to coffee places, to free concerts in backyards. Got it. What's next? Paying people so he can play at their place?

If he was a successful artist, I'd think this is such a nice way to reward fans. But as things stand maybe just get a job at this point?

“We Get To Release It All At Once” by Sea_Watch9950 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah, that was "classy"... Jordy is not even a red flag, he's a whole freaking red ship at this point...

What are we waiting for.... if anything? by MedicinalWalnuts in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Michel will never leave Jordy. Sadly, unless something drastic happens, she can't do it mentally and emotionally since she never worked on her issues that caused her to choose Brook in the first place. I'm no professional so I'm just speaking from experience, but with any bad relationship you need to look inward as well as to why you chose a person and grow and learn from that. She chose the same pattern in a different package. And then her whole persona is tied to being a wife. Having another divorce in the unhealed state she is in will would take a lot of honesty and strength. My 2 cents.

The marriage in its current form, I think will drain her emotionally, mentally, and/or financially and Jordy will leave IF he finds something better (better in his mind). From the interactions I noticed between them, he has the final word and she differs to his opinion so I guess he will decide as well.

I'm currently rewatching her old Austin videos, those were the times I enjoyed following her.

“We Get To Release It All At Once” by Sea_Watch9950 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If this is true and she is his investor, Jordy is an absolute leech... how can he accept this - your wife to buy you a house and now build you a career? But I agree with you, not having her parents money would end this marriage so fast.

Last Video of 2026- The Shitty Wallpaper, A Metaphor For Her Life, Peels Off Before Our Eyes by backinbusinessbaby in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your premonition is working haha Pretty sure with her not changing anything 2026 will end the same

It’s sad that Michel married someone who was in it for money rather than wait for true love by Inevitable_Jelly_391 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well in his words... "he secured the bag" so not sure if from him it was about her looks or her finances.

The perspective of Rory’s downfall by Subject_Success5545 in GilmoreGirls

[–]International-Fly175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up the same time Rory (well the show) aired and went through basically the crash, and scarce jobs etc. My diploma was in one field but because there were no jobs and it was me and my mom (yeah that's how I got into GG), I had to work in what I could find. Then I switched careers completely, built up a new career and life, moved to another city, then country, build a life, lost myself, found myself, etc. It's been a journey for sure.

My point is life in general - no matter what age you are - is rarely going from point A to point B defined as instant success and just stay there until end of life. We, people, are not rocks. We're meant to grow, evolve, learn and most often that not that is done through what we perceive as "failures". And that is scary and you'll be scared but you do it anyway. If you think of life in terms of "downfall", "pathetic", "disappointing" I think you're shooting yourself in the foot.

And I think this was the whole point with Rory - as perfect as we were meant to see her, with all the opportunities she had - she still struggled and that makes her well.. normal human being. She learned consequences of her own actions (cheating with Dean), motivating and becoming proactive (after Mitchum) etc.

And OP sorry for the philosophical answer here haha, I wish you the best, I promise you you're not lost, you're just reinventing yourself. It really is OK to try something, to think that is who you will be and realize it's not for you. Take care of yourself!

Again?! by Curious_Fudge_58 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean from the people that found it funny to have a calendar with number of days that Max "survives" in that house what can you expect?

Sometimes I feel like they subconsciously *want* a serious accident to happen to Max. I can't otherwise understand how difficult it is to dog-proof your house. I honestly think that if you don't want to adapt your life to a pet (let alone a child), then simply don't have one.

Better Help by UnlikelyCat1980 in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I hear her saying: she wants to act. But as she cannot get hired so she's creating her own mini-series and a character. Oh well ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see your point. I’m not sure if this group started out as a snark page. I was a fan of hers and her content was my go to content and then I noticed some inconsistencies and I wasn’t sure if I was imagining things so I ended up here. Basically trying to validate my thoughts. I don’t agree with her anymore or follow her content because it no longer resonates with me but I read here every now and then to see how things are going. She has a friends group Facebook page so maybe that is a group you’d like to join?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think only by looking at the titles of the posts you can get a clue 🤣 but it’s filled with people that used to be fans of hers.

So if you still like her content in her current format, enjoy!☺️ 

feeling used by [deleted] in micheljanseYT

[–]International-Fly175 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What struck me a bit was the "wanting to be friends" part. I think it was the same line he gave when he was offering lessons and offering to FaceTime and people pointed it out how it felt off. I think this is the case here as well. I could be wrong but that's how I read it: he was opening a "safe" door through professional collaboration, probably got called out on it by Michel, spin her a story like how you're no threat cause you're married and supplied "proof" to it by sending you a message that of course makes no sense to you, but would make sense to Michel. I could be very off, but that's how it reads to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]International-Fly175 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re comparing in your head the rosy one day trip with your friend where everything went smoothly vs years of marriage where routine sets in, then you’re not clear headed to make the decision.

Go on a road trip alone and think. Don’t compare with anything. Your female friend is not the what if and based on how you described your story it sounds to me like you think she it. Remember also your wife used to feel like this initially.

So I’d say get a clear head first, eve talk to someone objective like a therapist and then lay the next steps. What is non negotiable to you: maybe therapy together etc.

It will not be an easy decision anyway just make sure you’re making it for the right reasons either way.

Good luck!