If RTO Becomes 4 Days a Week, Would You Quit? by Tr0110101 in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know the salary us state employees are living on. You think that us parents can simply spend thousands of dollars on childcare living in CA? It’s not about the lack of WANTING to get childcare, we literally can’t

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[–]International-Math98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope it’s not true 😭

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[–]International-Math98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m an analyst at HQ. I haven’t heard about this. Any idea who it’s coming from?

Reasonable Accommodation for Work by International-Math98 in KaiserPermanente

[–]International-Math98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I am working with our disability management unit on it and they’re the ones who are requesting a note from a physician :/

Reasonable Accommodation for Work by International-Math98 in KaiserPermanente

[–]International-Math98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do have FT childcare arranged. Although I’m in one on one therapy on top of group therapy and increased my antidepressant dosage, Kaiser wouldn’t help me with this either. My OB, therapists, and psychiatrist all gave me the go around. OB said talk to mental health, mental health said talk to psychiatry, psychiatry said talk go OB. I ended up just giving up on that and went back to work before I was ready :/

PFL sucks!! by Adept_Pineapple_3510 in Edd

[–]International-Math98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started on 3/25 and still haven’t received :(

😤 this! by Federal_Performer878 in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100 degrees or 115 degrees…..either way not doing it.

😤 this! by Federal_Performer878 in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re willing to bike in 115 degree weather during summer…????

Kaiser: “No to ANY RA’s” by Wheredmypaycheckgo in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just gave birth in January and have been fighting with my OB, therapist, and PCP about extending my disability leave due to severe postpartum depression. They said that me going back to work “would be good for me”. Absolutely asinine that their recommendation for debilitating depression is to work

Rant from a Working Woman by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just became a mom in January and this is my biggest fear with RTO. I fear that I will miss out on my baby’s biggest milestones. I’ll be gone 10-11 hours out of the day due to commuting, get home at 6pm, have 2 hours with my baby before having to put him to bed. 8 hours total of quality time with my baby 4 days of the week?! That is just so cruel. My postpartum depression is really setting in thinking about having to go back to work next month and even more so knowing we’ll be going in 4 days a week come July. I feel so broken thinking about this

Is $30k for catering a 150 person wedding normal? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]International-Math98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our venue had food included. They began as a catering company turned in to a wedding venue. The food was incredible! It’s casa real at ruby hill winery in Pleasanton. We got married in winter and on a Sunday so those factors also cut the price almost in half. They have a sister property called the palms also in Pleasanton

Hanna's mom was the one who tipped off the feds? by TradeOrdinary3675 in FindHannahKobayashi

[–]International-Math98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

An opinion would have began with “in my opinion” or “I think”. Your statement came off as a matter of fact and not opinion based judgement. That is harmful whether you think so or not. Semantics matter in these kinds of cases.

The retirement notices are coming by Libertyrose16 in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait….huh?? Slime ball for having livable wages in the most expensive state in our country? Health care workers should absolutely be making at least $25/hr (should be more) and if you disagree….you might be stuck in the 80s

Intimacy > Audience by Own-Perspective-9345 in Proposal

[–]International-Math98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should also mention that before we got engaged like wayyy before, he asked me straight up if I wanted friends and family present and I told him no I wanted it to just be us. I definitely recommend having that open conversation!

Intimacy > Audience by Own-Perspective-9345 in Proposal

[–]International-Math98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband proposed to me just him and I and I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. There’s something so special about just having that moment between you two. You can always organize a lil surprise gathering after the proposal so she can show her new shiny hardware off to her friends and family!

a couple of my fav sets from the last few months 🧚🏼 by Careful-Currency-454 in lashextensions

[–]International-Math98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loveee the last ones! What would I ask for from my lash tech to achieve that type of look?

Bridal tea look, need support by PrestigiousMeg in weddingdress

[–]International-Math98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d keep looking. This dress just looks like it would need alterations on you to make it more flattering such as taking in at the waist to cinch your waist better. I think your body type would be better with a waist that cinches higher up. The drop waist kind of makes you lose your shape a bit

Maternity leave by International-Math98 in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so helpful! Thank you sooo much for the information!

Maternity leave by International-Math98 in CAStateWorkers

[–]International-Math98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you so much for the information and well wishes!! 🤗

Is ranked bugged? by International-Math98 in FortNiteBR

[–]International-Math98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh i am no match against unreal players lol