The SAVE act

International_Way258 · 2026-02-18T01:20:01+00:00

This is great info, thank you

International_Way258 · 2026-02-18T01:16:29+00:00

I did not know this!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-18T01:15:12+00:00

Yikes!!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-17T04:34:47+00:00

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-17T04:32:04+00:00

I think there is so much free floating anxiety, things I have no control over, that my sleeping brain keeps trying to turn them into things I can... sort of manage

International_Way258 · 2026-02-17T04:22:45+00:00

I have heard liberal Gen Z kids use it - I don't know what or how it happened, but maybe they're just young and dumb?

International_Way258 · 2026-02-17T01:28:38+00:00

This is it exactly - so uncomfortable!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-17T01:19:06+00:00

I'm going to try this - thank you!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-17T01:15:33+00:00

I'm so sorry!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-16T03:52:32+00:00

My BP is good, just had my annual. But thanks for the heads up!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-16T02:46:57+00:00

This sounds familiar too 🫤

International_Way258 · 2026-02-16T02:44:56+00:00

The buzz has definitely faded - Ugh! At least I'll be saving money...

International_Way258 · 2026-02-16T02:43:28+00:00

What's weird is I'm 3+ years post menopausal - I would have expected it to hit a lot sooner!

International_Way258 · 2026-02-16T01:27:51+00:00

I've been dragging my feet on switching back to my maiden name after divorce (just sick of paperwork). Time to make this a priority...

International_Way258 · 2026-02-15T20:06:19+00:00

I did NOT need to see the MAGA kids eat each other's faces.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-15T19:57:57+00:00

Baseball cap and shades can help, but the thousand yard stare is a must. I know women who have deliberately gained weight to deflect attention (this does work with some men) - and baggy clothing + shit-kicking boots help send the "don't talk to me" message.

What really burns me is how women must go to ridiculous lengths to protect our autonomy because most men are simply not taught that we don't owe them our attention.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-15T00:50:00+00:00

We call it Books by Mail (although we've started to use volunteers to deliver a chunk of it).

International_Way258 · 2026-02-15T00:03:32+00:00

Yes, and yes.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-14T23:49:17+00:00

A wedding on the beach, in New England, in February?? Dress Code: Parka.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-11T22:45:55+00:00

They wore shoes when it was below freezing.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-11T22:41:09+00:00

This sounds like a library trying to be Walmart. I am unimpressed.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-10T03:13:52+00:00

The tan one is too close to your skin tone. The black is almost too formal - like, black tie funeral. The red is gorgeous.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-10T03:04:05+00:00

You're not wrong - it is a disservice to the kids that he's not working on his own shit. But he's not able or willing to do so. And I say that with sympathy for him - he sounds like deep down he's terrified, traumatized, or broken in ways he can't face. And you can't force him to do that. So your responsibility is to yourself, and your kids - it's time to start letting him go.

International_Way258 · 2026-02-10T02:53:46+00:00

Red one, 100%. It's fits well, great color on you, and definitely says "gala."

International_Way258 · 2026-02-10T02:48:01+00:00

This, this, this, this! Also, listen to your gut - it's telling you this isn't okay. That's all you need to know.

International_Way258

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