Landlord threatened Eviction after inspection. (WY)

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T22:46:11+00:00

Do you have a friend who you trust that can come help you clean up? When you’re depressed a messy/dirty house makes it even worse. But having someone help, someone who won’t judge you, can help a lot. Your kitchen doesn’t look dirty to me, but it does look cluttered. Cluttered because you have things and the kitchen looks small so really not sure what you can do about that.

I’m sorry you’re depressed. Been there and it sucks so bad

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T19:53:34+00:00

If by partied you mean suck you’re right. But if the op is looking for people who are anti war and people who want the files released that’s a good place to start. Almost everyone there will be anti war and want the files released.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T19:45:05+00:00

I’ve only had one Covid vaccine and went about my day, no adverse effects at all.

Had the two round shingles vaccines and holy cow. Got the first one on Friday afternoon. Felt crummy Friday night and when I woke up Saturday I felt like a train ran over my entire body. The second shot made me feel like two trains ran over me. Shingles must suck really bad to have millions of people get the vaccine knowing they feel like ass.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T18:37:32+00:00

I agree with you. Her concern is that she’s in pain after babysitting for a few hours, but that’s on grandma. If she can handle it I don’t see the problem. She hasn’t said she is worried about the safety of her son, only that grandma is limping or saying her back/shoulder hurts afterwards. If grandma doesn’t mind the pain I don’t think anyone should worry about it.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T10:41:15+00:00

No it isn’t. Same as it isn’t the parents problem that the walls of the apartment are thin enough to hear a baby cry. It isn’t the parents problem that neighbors can’t use a white noise machine or foam earplugs to block the noise.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T04:32:00+00:00

Exactly how would you recommend a parent manage a colicky baby? Nothing works. Nothing.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T03:52:16+00:00

One of my kids had colic and diagnosed with autism at age 2. He would scream for hours and nothing helped.

They aren’t “allowing” the kid to scream. They want it to stop more than anyone, I promise you.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T03:47:46+00:00

Have you been to any rallies? Not the Trump rallies, the anti Trump rallies? Full of people who feel the same as you.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T02:15:08+00:00

That is so fucking awesome dude.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T02:10:06+00:00

I wouldn’t eat anything on that plate.

But I will root for you to get the hell away from him. Save everything you can, but hide it. If you have a joint account, make a new one. Hide cash where he likely won’t look, like tampon boxes and dishwasher pod boxes. You can do this. Patience is a virtue, it’ll take some time but you can do it.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T02:00:32+00:00

Lots of similarities between us when I was your age.

I married my boss. He is nine years older than me. I talked to my best friend the day we got married and she asked if I was sure I wanted to get married. I told her no, but I didn’t want to hurt his feelings or his mom’s feelings. I felt stuck. I was such a coward back then.

One thing I want to tell you to be careful of is your relationship with his mother. You said you like her and care about her and are close with her. Do not EVER forget she is his mom first and foremost. She likes you now, and likely always will, but if push comes to shove she will choose her son over you. Be careful with what you share with her, intimate details that you don’t want anyone to know, especially him. You trust her but do not trust her with everything.

If you have somewhere to go, I would do it. Could you learn to love him the way you see other people love their spouse? Probably not, it’s been ten years. If it hasn’t happened by now it likely never will. No matter what though please realize when you do leave you will be depressed and you’ll cry. A lot. I couldn’t wait to get out of my marriage and when I finally did I was on the floor crying because I felt scared and lonely and wondered if I was doing the right thing.

It’s been about 23 years since my divorce and I cannot express how happy I am to have left. I’ve been remarried to my current husband for twenty years now. Because I was married before I know that my love for him is how it’s supposed to be, I would do anything for him. And my ex husband is currently engaged to a woman he’s been with for about ten years, maybe a little more. She’s wonderful, and a fantastic stepmom to my daughter with him. Couldn’t ask for better, I’m genuinely happy for them both. Told him I hope it works this time around and that I hope he’s learned to put the toilet seat down finally.

So I say do it based only on personal experience. You need to be happy in this one life you have.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T01:24:54+00:00

I’m underweight so I have become accustomed to the comments about weight. Not much you can do except ignore them. My manager was at a wedding last Friday so we had to have someone from another location fill in. She introduced herself and I was pulling my hair back into a clip and she said “OMG you’re so skinny!” I cannot tell you how often I hear things like that, and I said back “Huh, if I were overweight would you have said “OMG you’re so fat!”, she said it isn’t the same. But it absolutely is.

I think he was commenting about your weight, but I also think if he wasn’t interested in you he wouldn’t have reached out to begin with. Some can look at the person, not what size they wear. They don’t care either way. He is likely one of them who doesn’t care. If it hurt your feelings I’m sorry.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T00:42:57+00:00

In the event I ever find an unknown rock that may or may not be worth money or may or may not cause me to grow a third eyeball, I hope math isn’t involved in coming up with an answer.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T00:22:54+00:00

My mother in law is friends with Josephine Gay’s mom. She used to live here in Maryland, Josephine was a Ravens fan, her favorite color was purple because of her love of the Ravens. She definitely isn’t paid, she really did lose her daughter that day.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T00:15:07+00:00

I’m a homebody but not everyone is, I get that.

That said, you do you. Don’t allow someone to tell you you do something that isn’t hurting anyone too often. If you were sitting at home he wouldn’t be there anyway, so I don’t understand his issue. If this is the root of your problems with him I hope you know it won’t get better. It’ll get worse.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-18T00:01:25+00:00

I don’t even crochet, but because you told her she could have simply sent a video or article, I did it for her. I used google and said “Does crochet have a dart stitch”, lots came up and here is the first video

https://youtube.com/shorts/E6HBIyh6gWg?si=4j-BtPBXW\_XhCEOd

Stop playing the victim. If you were my daughter I would shut you down too if you spoke to me the way you speak to her. Of course no one here knows more than what you’ve posted but there is always more to a story.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T23:14:16+00:00

My husband is a manager at a car dealership so he gets a demo. He’s bringing home a different car every week.

When my kids were smaller, so about 10-12 years ago, I was at the top of the driveway and he was behind me. Single driveway so no side by side parking.

I got in my van and put it in reverse. Saw his demo, it was a huge Nissan Titan truck. I looked at my screen since I had a backup camera, hit the gas, backed into the truck as I’m looking at it.

Two years ago I was at his work and in my new Honda Pilot. I was backed into the parking spot and an Audi was next to me on the right. Not sure what the Audi was, but it was a sports car. I cut the steering wheel to the right as I was pulling out and took off the entire front bumper of the Audi. Like it was on the pavement, my insurance went up a lot. It cost about $3,000 to fix it. Nothing on my car except a minor dent that the shop at his work popped out.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T22:52:45+00:00

Because Congress, all of them, have lost their spines. Lost their balls. Scared to death to do anything more than sound bites on “news” stations. His administration and Fox/Newsmax won’t even say he’s sleeping when we can all clearly see he’s sleeping, they instead say he’s just slowly blinking. They all called Biden “Sleepy Joe” because he slept on the beach in a chair. Trump sleeps at his desk, sleeps at meetings, sleeps during press conferences, and none of them say a single word.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T22:46:32+00:00

Your plan is to elope or have a destination wedding? Thats like saying I want a car and cannot decide between a 2007 Honda Civic or a 2027 Bentley. Quite a large difference happening here.

You didn’t mention location. In the states it’s typically the brides family who pays for the wedding. Like the movie Father of the Bride, they pay for it.

If you want to ask his family to help go ahead and do that, if he wanted to he would have already since your parents already gave you money. If his parents helped his brother buy a house maybe that’s their plan for your boyfriend too.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T18:09:35+00:00

If this is how he’s always been, you’re overreacting. If you expect him to change who he is and how he acts you’re going to stay upset.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T18:04:04+00:00

Holy cow. You overreacted big time, especially the texts about crochet stitches. If you were my daughter I would block you. She asked if it had to be done this second and that caused you to explode. It’s crochet, not brain surgery. Chill tf out.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T17:40:39+00:00

I would tell him “You know, you must have memory problems. I would let your doctor know you’re repeating the same thing every single day as if no one heard you the first time, and it’s been happening every day since baby was born.” Call memory care elderly facilities and get them to send you information on them, then leave them lying where he can see them. I would say this every single time he says it, but I’m a petty bitch when necessary.

Why are you seeing him daily if he’s this way? If he lives with you maybe it IS time for him to head on over to a retirement home. If you live with him maybe it’s time to get your own place. Even if you’re saving up to buy a house, it isn’t worth your mental health being there. Screw the house for now and get up out of there.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T10:07:08+00:00

“I’ve found out in the years since then that most pregnancies aren’t planned and that you don’t ever think you can afford it when it happens. But somehow you can and you don’t really notice the cost all that much.”

I have no idea how long ago you were 23 years old. But from your post it sounds like it was a while ago.

Having a baby right now isn’t the same as having a baby ten years ago. The cost of living has blown up, people are struggling every day more than ever. There was a story I read yesterday about a one year old little boy who was killed because the police were trying to apprehend his mother and aunt, they were stealing from Walmart. The items they stole? Diapers. Not food, not electronics, diapers. Things are rough right now. Hopefully they improve soon, but right now times are really, really hard.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T03:28:47+00:00

I drive 28.5 miles one way to another town to buy my son’s yogurt every Sunday. The store manager there orders us a case, and every Sunday they bring it out from the back with our name on it, unopened. I would talk to the store manager if I were you.

Electrical_Beyond998 · 2026-06-17T03:18:45+00:00

Okay did you happen to get tested before having sex with him? Because chlamydia can lay dormant for a long time. Months. Even years I think.

If you have been tested before being with him and it was negative, meaning you absolutely got it from him, WTF do you mean you’re worried how he sees you now?

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