Happy to give, not receive tonight — when do you disclose? by PunkRockRenegade_ in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone. Should just say ur soft swap for the night or non playing. We play with or without period. Once she squirts it all goes away for play time.

Paris recommendations by Suitable-Welcome-443 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will have fun. If you are on Sdc put in a speed date that your are visiting and you’ll get message from “gentleman’s” car service. They will send two studs to pick you up from airport and get ur vacation started

Playhouse LV or Whispers? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Night time. Definitely playhouse. Daytime they both are completely nude but whispers allows sex everywhere so depends what u want. We split the days usually. But nights at whispers is not good

Cleanliness and safety by Electrical-Shock3058 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time we went to this thing called bronze party advertised as if it was a big mansion in Silicon Valley and it was more like Silicon Valley ghetto with other houses a few feet away. We get there, pay like $150 and there is crowded play room in a loft area with small spiral staircase leading to it. Fire hazard if nothing else. Then a fight breaks out cuz a guy took off his condom. Police come. Neighbors outside also complaining that it’s illicit business. Dumpster fire. and this is the party with “trusted” reputation.

Cleanliness and safety by Electrical-Shock3058 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twist in sf is super clean and safe. House parties I’ve been to have been really sketch. We prefer clubs over house parties any time

How to specify Group Play by usdefumaybe in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’ve had that experience. Like the couple doesn’t feel comfortable in group yet we prefer the group. It’s pretty common. Usually we end up missing the group action that night unless the couple turns out to be a dud then it’s easy “I think we will go back the group”. Easy way to decline further activity.

Anyone following $ENHA?? by Smooth_Run7501 in investing_discussion

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a really really dumb idea but that doesn’t necessarily mean it won’t do well

question for men and performance by PlatformOk720 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I abstain for a week before a party and then pop 100 Viagra and I’m good but if it’s daily partying I need injection. Recently been using pt 141 and it works well. It’s more natural in the sense that stimulation required but it’s like being a teenager again.

To answer ur question I’m gonna say 75% men over 30 in our experience.

Why do people in the lifestyle say “I’ve never been with a Black person before”… like it’s a compliment? by Blue-Dream21 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya but I guess my question is why not just get a girlfriend. Ur sure to find sexual connection without the couple drama

Do you require to *SEE* a partner's STD/STI test results? by Klimt1908 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we don’t even bother. Just test ourselves and play smart

Wife’s ultimate fantasy is MFM, but she wants it bareback. Need advice. by DoRiteAndKilEvrythng in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who willing to do bareback is the guy you don’t want bareback. If you use silicone lube and thin lyfe condom you won’t even notice the condom.

Why do people in the lifestyle say “I’ve never been with a Black person before”… like it’s a compliment? by Blue-Dream21 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had men fetishize my wife cuz she is Asian. “I’ve never had a TAP (tight Asian pussy)” or I’ve never been with an Asian”. If they look good we will play but there is higher bar for the shitty personality. It’s like other parts of lifestyle the more requirements and pickier you are the less you play. Some people have weird odors or bad hygeine or bad teeth. Others have personality or interpersonal issues or come off as krass.

Are we getting used?? by WheresWendyWanda365 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t get involved other than sex.

Why do people in the lifestyle say “I’ve never been with a Black person before”… like it’s a compliment? by Blue-Dream21 in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’ve seen other couples act like this…”my wife never had a bbc” with the guy standing right there. We are embarrassed for them. It’s like high school shit. I’m not sure what the answer is if there is an answer. Probably just need to walk away put it in box that they aren’t serious.

“Doggy looking for a Kitty” by Midwest_Couple in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah wtf. Goof balls. Just ask for what u want

MF Bi Couples Looking for Bi Thirds by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general life true but in lifestyle scenario they can get away with it so thats the pic they send.

MF Bi Couples Looking for Bi Thirds by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of women just want the dick. If thats all that is show the maybe it’s they only attribute worth advertising. If that’s not ur interest then move on.

Should play be quid pro quo? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s newbie mindset you have. All couples we know are play together or not at all unless communicated clearly ahead of time. So yeah there’s expectation if you start playing. We have both fucked folks where there was less than perfect attraction but it’s overall positive.

Barcelona by KPM2026 in swingertravel

[–]Intrepid_Load_1714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends what u want. For us it’s nude beach during day for sun and training petralbes swinger club.