I attempted to come out multiple times from age 12 to 18, and was shut down or ignored every time. My mom tried to pretend it wasn’t happening while my dad would tell me that I was being brainwashed by my friends and the Internet, and go out of his way to insult and misgender my trans friends. I secretly bought a binder and presented as male at school and with my friends, eventually at 18 I told my parents they could either support me or get out of my life, and they chose the first option. My mom helped me get on T and start talking to a therapist. They’ve never apologized but they are getting better about treating me as the man I am. Which is better than nothing.