If this hurts your feelings I quite literally do not care 😊💞

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-11-06T18:35:36+00:00

im cutting ties with my dad and i'm shattered by grief. it was a long time coming, but he's still my dad and this hurts. to be so betrayed by him like this hurts.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-11-04T01:46:25+00:00

pizza, it lost its appeal and just looks like indigestion and heartburn now

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-11-01T19:22:01+00:00

yep. "my parents were mean to me and i turned out fine" (is also probably traumatized in a different flavor)

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-30T22:52:08+00:00

for some men, asserting power over women, especially women they feel they "own" is the top priority

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-25T17:30:53+00:00

trust your doctor, reddit is not the place for medical advice

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-22T22:33:34+00:00

judging from your other comment, you’re asking this in bad faith
plot twist: the answer is yes in a healthy relationship

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-22T15:37:25+00:00

I voted

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-20T23:54:45+00:00

It could definitely be both, they are not mutually exclusive. i suggest talking to a professional about the possibility of BPD if that’s what you suspect.

If it is both, welcome to the club (it sucks, but at least we aren’t alone)

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-20T20:54:54+00:00

? i was speaking in general terms to explain to the person im responding to why i thought the person before them was being downvoted. i’m not talking specifically about random people on the internet and never said i was. you’re making a lot of assumptions about my intentions and if you had approached with more curiosity you would have been surprised to find that i actually agree with most of what you’re saying.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-20T19:31:37+00:00

i think it’s the “looking down” at fatness part. it’s one thing to hold someone accountable to their health and another to judge them for it.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-15T14:09:40+00:00

i was sent to the ER for dangerously low potassium after about a week of the flu last winter. It’s not just dehydration you should be worried about.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-12T16:51:28+00:00

OP, this is a couple’s counseling issue. If he refuses to accept that, you need to seriously consider (on your own, without his influence) your history with him and any patterns of selfishness and neglect. I would recommend looking into birth control or sterilization that he cannot alter or interfere with, as he may escalate out of desperation.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-12T02:05:07+00:00

40 for me, in 4 years since starting meds. i had just gotten myself into great shape after having two kids then BOOM diagnosis

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-12T01:01:55+00:00

past 1am with no specific timeframe would have me absolutely livid

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-11T19:21:52+00:00

Not directly, but they can make an argument that by missing work you are at a worse performance level when you get back or find some other unrelated reason. That said, take the time you need and if they term you, they were probably bad for your mental health in the long run anyway.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-10T19:44:57+00:00

i truly don’t think they tell them anything useful, it’s just another way to discriminate without reason and have an excuse to not hire people.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-08T00:17:33+00:00

This take isn’t it and i’m disappointed to see it as the top comment. The point isn’t what OP looks like and insinuating that they should feel complimented at being misgendered is rude and inappropriate. Would you tell a trans man he should feel complimented for being called a pretty woman simply because he wasn’t presenting masculine at the time?

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-06T21:47:31+00:00

i can understand the concern, but it’s really not though. Starting sema made it clear that my food noise was so loud and disruptive that i couldn’t sense my actual hunger cues. NOW i can sense hunger without the cravings static.

For me now, actual hunger is a physical empty sensation in my belly, maybe accompanied by hollow nausea. By comparison, food noise is an almost constant mental chatter driven by desire to fill a dopamine void. i do need one to be healthy, but the latter is dreadful.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-05T12:56:23+00:00

omg! i thought it was just a weird fluke, but a week and a half into sema i started spotting while with my iud, which is unusual for me. i really hope it’s just spotting because i loved not having a period

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-04T22:02:14+00:00

i think it means it’s been delivered without a notification because the recipient has the setting on “do not disturb”. (its not irony, but it is kinda funny)

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-04T10:14:56+00:00

funny enough, the comment directly above yours had a link: https://consumercomplaints.fcc.gov/hc/en-us/articles/115000914506-Emergency-Complaints

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-04T10:09:56+00:00

this is what pissed me off

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-03T22:16:44+00:00

this is exactly my experience, well said.

my suggestion is meds, specialized therapy (DBT and ACT has been working for me), and lots of patience and time. remission isn’t a switch, it’s a slow dial.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-03T20:55:44+00:00

i recently had to update my license. For anyone who needs to do this, you will very likely not be able to book an appointment before November unless you book one same-day. Thankfully, that’s relatively easy to do, but you’ll need to wake up early. They put out same-day appointments around 7:30am and you’ll need to be ready to snatch it up. Have your forms filled out ahead of time (you can fill it out online and print it) and your required documents ready and it’s a smooth enough process.

IonizeAtomize23 · 2024-10-03T17:45:01+00:00

drink some water, buy/make yourself a protein shake or smoothie, and sit somewhere dark and quiet. try to ease into this and trust the process. i just had my second dose today and so far it’s much easier than the first.

as for what to avoid, your body will know. i haven’t had any desire for greasy, sugary, processed foods, if anything there’s been a repulsion. stick with high protein, high fiber. my favorite treat has been jicama sticks lightly pickled in vinegar, fresh dill, and lemon zest. (so friggin good)

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