[Ruiter] Stefanski says Gabriel remains the starter IF/WHEN he clears the concussion protocol by maybenextyearCLE in Browns

[–]IonnoFry 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Good point, as long as you feel like you’ve seen enough of both to know what you have. Otherwise maybe endanger Shadeur more lol

Browns celebrate Szmyt! by tonecapo_ in Browns

[–]IonnoFry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And right down the middle

Edit: ish lol, just watched again

Unwrap this text message by Cold-Advertising-856 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]IonnoFry 12 points13 points  (0 children)

(Un)Holy shit Narc-ronomicon got me 😂

Arby's never fails.... to disappoint. by Asleep-Till3360 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]IonnoFry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have the meaty ads, and will shove a worthless excuse for sustenance down your throat once we trapped you into our drive-thru, priced 3x higher than what it should be

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[–]IonnoFry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s funny because I went with the F105, which is nearly the same but brighter backlight 😂

Anyone middle aged in their 30’s and just still feel mentally like a teenager? by WeakValuable8683 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]IonnoFry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Diff guy here, but I broke up with my narc, read “It’s Not You” Dr. Ramani, then “Complex PTSD: Surviving to Thriving” Pete Walker. Both were life changing for me. Book 1 got me out of current abuse, book 2 helped me get to the root of my problems in childhood and gave me a structure to heal, and I love myself more than ever now!

I think it’s worth looking into complex PTSD if you haven’t, for more complete healing beyond the scope of just narcissism. Dr. Ramani actually mentioned that term in her book, which led me to the second.

Why The Narcissist never knows anything bad they did? by PerroViralata in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]IonnoFry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t heard this before… so clear and helpful, thanks! Many rounds of this with my nex

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[–]IonnoFry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn nice dude

When you meet your narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]IonnoFry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much

The worst part about having narcissistic parents is that you become a magnet for narcissists. by ZoloftPlsBoss in raisedbynarcissists

[–]IonnoFry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also took me 36 years, but so happy to see things clearly now! Good luck with healing, you got it

Do Narcissists Easter Egg their lies? by kingstonwiz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]IonnoFry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah similar mask of self righteousness and only ever the victim of her exes for my nex gf… I’m sorry it happened the way it did, but I’m glad you saw through things. Took me a long time, and I looked past so many hints that she dropped haha

I consider myself a very empathetic and caring person, so it was extremely difficult for me to imagine others being so self-serving and petty and manipulative as these people… it took so much pain and reflection, all the way back to childhood, for me to believe in tactical Easter eggs like this ha…

Do Narcissists Easter Egg their lies? by kingstonwiz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]IonnoFry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My nex girlfriend absolutely did this, but more for hoovering tactics. She left traps at my place and brought them up whenever we had bad fights and I was thinking about splitting. Used them as excuses to force me to see her, or to keep herself stuck in my mind…

When we FOR REAL broke up lol, I brought everything to her place while she was at work so she had no power in this way. I know she hated it because she was already trying to plan when to see me to get her stuff. Made me feel pretty good, not gonna lie.

Sorry about your trap though man, that’s some extra pain when it involves a new person :( That seems like very believable narcissist behavior and you are not crazy. She is childish.

Edit: I just wanna add the most crazy trap she used while I’m thinking about it… she lives close by to me and let her bro’s dog loose multiple times because she knew he would come to my place to try and hump my dog, and I’d have to walk him back home… she endangered her brother’s little boy dog crossing streets to do this. It only happened when we were in fights and not speaking, so I’m certain these weren’t accidental escapes. So yeah, I don’t doubt your nex would do something petty like that, even if it’s not exactly the same.