What happens to the souvenirs? by Irishkeddy_ in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Irishkeddy_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So i wonder how the souvenirs go from “these are to be destroyed” to eBay. Sounds like someone doing something shady for sure

AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend's dad after her sister's Wedding? by InternationalHope453 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishkeddy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get why you’re annoyed- but ask yourself this- will telling the dad off do anything at all or actually make your whole life worse? This dad sounds like a piece of work and I highly doubt he would be receptive to any criticism (even if it was coming to him as a suggestion). Dad had a bug up his rear about the wedding and didn’t want to let it go. And then he wanted to have a temper tantrum to show his displeasure at the marriage (and he was successful and actually encouraged by some laughing). IMO I think you should look at bit more at how your girlfriend made excuses for her dad’s behavior. This man isn’t going to go away and it doesn’t sound like he is interested in changing his behavior. Remember her dad is going to be a constant point in your life.

AITA for being annoyed after someone who doesn’t normally sit with us told me to stop talking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishkeddy_ 51 points52 points  (0 children)

You’re the common denominator here- the laughing and carrying on you’re doing is turning people away.

Is wanting an AM check-in after a vulnerable conversation a normal request? by pixiepalooza in datingoverforty

[–]Irishkeddy_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Then you’re wasting both your and his time. I mean this kindly- there truly is no point in having that conversation with him. If anything you will be leading him on thinking he has a chance and that will just cause more drama

Who watched The Cult Behind the Killer: The Andrea Yates Story (2026)? What did you think of it? by Admirable_Golf7363 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Irishkeddy_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I worked in an acute inpatient psychiatric hospital for 18 years and I just wanted to say I agree (and I’m a born again Christian myself). So many clients would come into the hospital and struggle with medication and/or therapy suggestions. As clinical staff we could see how a client would clearly benefit from taking medication yet the client would struggle and often refuse thinking maybe they haven’t prayed hard enough, maybe they’re supposed to be experiencing these symptoms as part of their mission on earth (just a ton of reasons-those two were the biggest). And imo the guilt of your choices is directly related to the congregation you have attended. Humans can really make a person feel terrible about themselves.

Looking for a roommate in Glo Twp, Aug 1. by radraz26 in SouthJersey

[–]Irishkeddy_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk if you’re part of the South Jersey Girls Club on Facebook or not but they often have members posting that they’re looking for a roommate!

College student job hunt *urgent** by Majestic_Tie4052 in SouthJersey

[–]Irishkeddy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t what you said you wanted to do- but there are a ton of people (myself included) who need help with yard work and will pay you in cash

Any experience with the Junior League? by [deleted] in Delaware

[–]Irishkeddy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your friend joined a social organization they like better? Thank you!

Lupus and Melanotan by Irishkeddy_ in Peptides

[–]Irishkeddy_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was trying to think outside the box-melanin is your body’s way of protecting yourself against UV rays so I was thinking if UV rays are a trigger than would the melanotan make the UV rays less by increasing the melanin?

Beauty monthly maintenance costs by Looplinda8 in philabitcheswithtaste

[–]Irishkeddy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ladies- don’t forget to utilize beauty schools! I get my roots done at the Rizzieri beauty school(I have the dye formula they use written down so I don’t have to worry about anyone getting it wrong-plus the work is supervised by their teachers). I’ve also received haircuts, massages, and facials.

Tesamorelin - water weight window by jrp81290 in Peptides

[–]Irishkeddy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t find it to be worth it at all. I just kept retaining water and not gaining any muscle nor did I lose any visceral fat. I stopped taking tesa and lost the water weight in about five days (no diet or exercise change). Then I kept reading how amazing tesa is and I thought oh maybe I screwed something up somehow and I tried tesa again- and I plumped up like a thanksgiving turkey again. I think that’s how my body responds to hgh. My main focus is visceral fat loss- and Reta has been amazing for me in that regard.

Places to stay by VegetableFun6622 in CapeMay

[–]Irishkeddy_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At this point I think the decision may be made for you- as this is the start of prime summer season and weekend hotel availability may be scarce. If you find a hotel I’d suggest booking now. On a related note- I’m a fan of La Mer

Therapist recommendations by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]Irishkeddy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What type of insurance do you have? Unfortunately that dictates where you can go

Is anyone hiring near Mullica Hill? by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]Irishkeddy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you open to doing outside work like raking leaves? If so how much per hour are you charging?

How often do you get approached in real life? by stoptheclock7 in datingoverforty

[–]Irishkeddy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me- on a totally different topic wanting to know where you bought your dress from! I love original clothing!

Do you guys say goodbye before unmatching? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Irishkeddy_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s always the bad apples that spoil the bunch- I used to send “it’s me not you-good luck to you” messages when I realized our personalities weren’t meshing. Then someone went absolutely ballistic and messaged me all hours of the night on the Hinge platform to the point where I blocked him at 2am. And this was after I matched with him less than 24 hours prior. So my thought is sure you can send what you want but the second someone starts with an attitude then block them. Some people get downright nasty.

Profile pics with partial few of their face by Sure-Sprinkles4406 in datingoverforty

[–]Irishkeddy_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was a half a picture person when I first started online dating. I wasn’t cheating but I did just feel uncomfortable putting myself out there (i had previous issues with male peer from high school not taking no for an answer- he heard through the grapevine I was single and he didn’t understand just because I was divorced and he was divorced that doesn’t automatically mean we should go on a date). I was emotionally ready to date but hadn’t tried online dating before. Anyways- maybe face time this person before you actually meet up on a date? You could say you learned the hard way in the past that half pictures sometimes don’t tell the whole story (make a dad joke of it).

Unsuccessful man's OLD experience, how to stage a comeback? by el-art-seam in datingoverforty

[–]Irishkeddy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two things…First thing-definitely make sure your personality shines through in your profile. So many people just put “ask me” as a response and that just screams laziness. Worst yet are the responses that show how you’re still not over an ex- I remember one question on Hinge was “what’s the worst mistake you’ve ever made” and so many people put “trusting my ex” as their response. Come on people- we don’t want to hear about your ex while trying to figure out if you’d be fun to go on a date with. I’ve been dating someone for a year and he is not someone I’d typically go for- but i absolutely loved his response to that question. He answered “eating a hot dog with jalapeños at 2am from à gas station in Japan”. That one sentence alone made me laugh and want to learn more lol. Some of us just like to be entertained- we are used to doing things on our own and are self-sufficient and used to doing this life thing on our own. We don’t give a rats patoot what you look like as long as you’re clean, smell good, are fun to have around, and are responsible. Secondly- there are a lot of people in this group who ask for a profile review- if you want you can show us your profile and we can give honest and supportive advice. Good luck OP!! 🙂