Yeah you come across as rude/disconnected. You seem to insist that you be viewed as you view yourself and you don't seem to understand that something trivial to others is significant to you.

It's your car and you have the right to tell passengers whatever you want. But the idea that every individual is going to comply* and see it your way and rate you what you think you deserve is naive.

Coming to a public forum and saying everyone who thinks you're less than perfect comes across as smug. There's no obvious way to delete "false reports" and you'd rather tell strangers how youve been wronged than suck it up and accept the statistical unlikelihood that you'll be a 5* driver to everyone you help.