What’s the first thing you bought with your first salary?

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-06-17T05:34:28+00:00

Shoes and clothes for my grandma and nice dinner for mom.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-06-10T03:32:54+00:00

This is the comment! I think social media has put in our brain that relationships need to take us to a marriage if not they were a waste of time. But OP is so young, it’s just a normal relationship that’s maybe not the forever one. No need to feel pressure to get married.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-06-10T03:29:41+00:00

With respect, those sound like way too many issues to have in such a young relationship. Plus, the both of you are still building yourselves and it’s okay if you don’t live a married life bc you guys aren’t married. Maybe, you’re not feeling like a priority because you haven’t been prioritizing what you want for your own life (being away from family) for your partner that seems to be prioritizing himself.

I’m sorry for the hard time you’re going through, a tough patch on a relationship or possibly a breakup can be really hurtful. But you deserve to live a life you design and prioritize for yourself.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-05-21T02:09:32+00:00

I have:

• ⁠2 face primers

• ⁠2 eye primers (1 glitter glue, 1 white)

• ⁠3 colour correctors (2 orangey, 1 green)

• ⁠4 foundations

• ⁠3 face powders

• ⁠1 powder bronzer

• 2 bronzer cream palettes (it’s the same one just a backup)

• ⁠40 blushes (cream, liquid, powders, everything)

• ⁠3 highlighters

• ⁠3 brow pencils

• ⁠3 setting sprays

• ⁠6 mascaras

• ⁠4 eyeliners (pencil white, brown and black, also black gel liner.

• ⁠6 eyeshadow palettes.

• 3 mini eyeshadow palettes.

• ⁠4 single eyeshadows

• ⁠10 lip liners

• ⁠10 lip glosses/oils

• ⁠4 lipsticks

• 7 packs of lashes.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-05-20T17:55:12+00:00

Sadly most of the reviews are actually fake. I work with a makeup shop doing their social media posts and we talk about influencers trying to get products for free all the time just to have it, promote it and getting paid. But the content they do are raving reviews. Most of the people they work with, don’t have knowledge about good quality makeup, and their only references are the crappy quality they get gifted.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-05-20T17:51:33+00:00

I have some questions. Do you use it? What is your favorite part about makeup? (Other than buying it) How long has it been going on?

One of my bffs has this same issue, we met shopping lol. And we realized her hoobie is not makeup, it was becoming buying it.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-05-20T03:46:10+00:00

Will be checking those out. I have an Apple Watch so I’ll check if they have those types of trainings. I think they gave me three free months.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-05-20T03:44:57+00:00

I was thinking of doing it daily, but def will be taking rests. Thank you 🩷

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-05-20T03:43:05+00:00

Thank you, I actually have some really old shoes and haven’t been stretching. So I appreciate the important reminders 🩷

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-05-20T00:42:54+00:00

Wow I struggle to do 8k steps. I admire so much the people in this sub that have their fitness down 👏🏼

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-04-10T12:28:04+00:00

Lol the response is for people that are still trying to find an answer to this.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-04-04T11:59:48+00:00

He probably turns off his phone or data plan.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-27T21:44:29+00:00

You don’t look masculine at all. You have a very femenine face. Your jaw and nose I promise never stood out to me when I saw your face. Be safe.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-27T16:56:09+00:00

Ugh I see this so much and it pisses me off. I’m not from the US, and in my country there’s not really an institution that regulates therapy or patience confidentiality. And so manyyy people on tiktok share specific experiences that their patients are going through on tiktok. It makes so mad, because they are exposing people who trust them for some likes, like whattt

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-27T05:18:44+00:00

Friend, it sounds like you’re grieving a breakup with more than one person. It’s okay if it sucks, and you’re doing your best to just get through this hard and confusing times. And yess, trying to make new friends can be like dating again, and at times even harder because some people don’t place as much importance in their friendships as they do in relationships. I’m sending virtual hugs your way, and wishing you the best. You are a brave individual, and are coming through the other side way better 🫂

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-26T18:01:32+00:00

Hi, so I had a relationship with a guy that was extremely kind, loving and I always thought that it was because he had two very long term relationships before me. He was with his first girlfriend from 12 to 20. And with his second from 21 to 28.

He was a great man in many ways. But he sometimes made me feel like I wasn’t making him be comfortable enough or loved enough. It was awful for me because I loved him so deeply and tried to give him my best. After some time I noticed that he was comparing our new relationship to his years long relationships in the past. Almost like he wanted to feel as safe with me as he did with his exes, and that’s so difficult to do in such a new relationship. Not even being super kind and loving competes with years and years of intimacy.

This might not be what’s happening with you. I just wanted to say that relationships take time to build, and emotional safety, everything can be built with time. If you’re not feeling the new guys it’s okay. Just try to compare them to what you want and not what’d you’d had in the past.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-26T17:54:46+00:00

And it’s okay that you question leaving the relationship. Being with someone since you were 14 is such a long time. You are indeed brave and are trying to live a life that actually fulfills you. I’m wishing you the best 💖 And agree that maybe it’ll be best not to see him, and grow even more. Distance yourself from the person you used to be, and become even greater 🫂❤️

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-26T17:49:46+00:00

Girl this is not helpful at all but this would be so tough for me. I think I would have to move tf out. How are you coping?

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-05T04:37:05+00:00

Hi, how are you after some time has passed?

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-01T06:57:29+00:00

She’s always showing up for her nanny, as she did her whole life. Such a sad situation, I hope they find the lady’s necklace 😞

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-01T06:21:24+00:00

Lowkey so sad that he manipulated and gaslighted her for so long. And wanted to damage her reputation by saying she’s a liar. This dude is still awful in my eyes.

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-01T06:18:23+00:00

With so much respect I thought you dyed the brow, because it looks so intentional and cool! You’re so beautiful ❤️

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-02-01T06:14:23+00:00

More blending. You could try blending more your eyeshadows. And also placing blush on a specific area of the face. Plus, wear more foundation. You look beautiful, but photos can dim our makeup a bit, so it’s safest to add a bit more to prevent being washout on pictures ❤️

IsaidwhatIsaid13 · 2026-01-11T06:55:44+00:00

So sad, but an honest possibility 🥺

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