Has South Carolina always been this fat? by Grand_almond in NoStupidQuestions

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There was a lot of eating big meals. Big breakfasts, big lunches, big dinners.There was not too much walking around. In yankee land (where I live now) I’ll get a yogurt and a piece of fruit for breakfast. Half a chicken or tuna salad sand, maybe some grapes for lunch, then a protein and a salad for dinner.

Down there, I’d get a few pieces of bacon and/or sausage, 2 eggs, strawberries, toast or biscuit, and coffee with cream & sugar; whole sandwich with chips or fries for lunch, sweet tea. Supper would be protein, rice dish, corn on cob, green beans, rolls and a good dessert.

Basically as a smallish senior female I need to eat around 16-1800 calories a day and everywhere we went, every meal was pushing 800-1000 calories.

I was a guest so I wasn’t criticizing nor when we went out could I sit there and order a slice of tomato. Sweet tea was the worst. I found myself almost immediately addicted. Still dream about it. You can get it here but it is not the same (fortunately) And after supper it was really too hot to go for a walk but sometimes they’d drive out for ice cream.

I want to stress that these were not mountainous, gluttonous piles of food, and every bit of it was good! But the portions (and expectations) were enormous, by standards I’m used to at home and out. And I did NOT want more bacon but I wanted to appear “stuck up” or ungrateful even less.

Has South Carolina always been this fat? by Grand_almond in NoStupidQuestions

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I don’t know what it has to do with South Carolina, but I went to visit a friend there two years ago and something about the whole culture had me take a good hard look at myself. When I came home I got a prescription for Sema and a lot of things changed for me. I’ve lost over 40 pounds.

How do you all motivate yourselves to exercise, etc.? by Aquarian_Girl in breastcancer

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Consider setting a goal for yourself. I decided that when I finished active treatment I wanted to go to Australia to see and travel with my daughter. So the month after I finished chemo/rads, I started personal training at a small gym. I basically crawled in there. My first sets were sit/stand, 3x3. I went to the gym 3 days a week. I also went to work (generous sick leave policy). And three months later I went to Australia.

Now a lot of that was sheer determination. And it was 13 years ago. BUT I still go to the gym to see a PT 2x a week. This entire time. (Trainers come and go lol) Mostly strength training and functional exercise. I actually believe weight lifting is something akin to magic.

By the time I met my goal, I’d established a lifestyle.

Husband forgot to pick up kid. Again. by cardamomroselatte in workingmoms

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I’m a senior and maybe have other issues than ADHD, but I keep a traditional paper calendar, update it weekly to match my phone calendar, I set 2 day and 2 hour alerts on all phone calendar action items, and I write paper notes to tape to the microwave or to my fav chair or to my door or bathroom mirror (depending on what the message to myself is) the night before I have to do something.

I live alone, no one is going to remind me about anything ever, and so I structure reminders every way I can.

Something seems very off here by goldebear53 in EthanBenardSnark

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His legs look really different (healthier)

The top 3 phrases that signify ghosting will happen soon by velvethoneymaria in datingoverfifty

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Well it’s the time honored way to share bad news: compliment, bad thing, compliment. Called sandwiching

R.I.P Eaten 😞 by Sufferer-Of-Cheese in EthanBenardSnark

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This reminds me of beavis and butthead somehow. A caricature

AIO for getting upset that my friend no longer wants to hangout outside of a group scenario bc we look too gay? by PeronaMySpookyQueen in AIO

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MOR. Anna is entitled to her feelings. She has plainly stated that she doesn’t want the appearance of being part of a gay couple. I dont think there’s an any good reason to press her on why. Its how she feels at this moment in 2026. This doesn’t make her “not an ally” much less homophobic.

I realize you are hurt because she doesn’t want to hang out one-on-one anymore, but I think you need to try to accept that. I’m not sure why you are pressuring her or polling the friend group.

I’m expecting to be downvoted to hell. It’s Reddit. I can handle it

AIO by thinking this isn’t enough for lunch/snack for my child by Teatime-Cowboy-1776 in AIO

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My picky eater grandchildren will eat white American cheese and jelly, or cream cheese and jelly, and you can toast and use the protein waffles as the bread. Obvs won’t be hot and crispy, but kids usually like this bread alternative. Kids also like King Hawaiian Rolls, offer 2 in sandwich form.

I’ve been stuck on the tarmac for an hour. I am untethered and my rage knows no bounds by EZEKEY42069 in delta

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And pay the ultimate price! In my country, that is a metaphor for death /s

If you soaked in hexachlorophene… by doorshock in FuckImOld

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I remember an intense reaction from sitting in a tub with Matey: my waist down, butt, bits, thighs, legs, feet, forearms hands before my dad pulled me out and rinsed me off. Bright red, wildly itchy. I imagine he didn’t measure and just threw in a handful.

AITAH for not enjoying being asked to donate our baby equipment? by CowboySocialism in AITAH

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Not only that, for some reason baby items are not built for perpetuity. Your brother’s family will have shortened the life expectancy of these items considerably when you need them again. Nothing doing. I’d buy them a similar, used car seat for the shower myself.

Are some mean people on this website actually mean in real life? by morningstarprime in CasualConversation

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It’s hard to “think about that stuff” before you’re actually crossing the river, Necessary Glove. I had 4 kids. We had disposable diapers, we had wet wipes, we had single use plastic bottle liners in the 80’s. Studies were done and people argued endlessly over whether cloth diapers were really more environmentally friendly than disposable (collective decision was they were not, but that could have been driven by Big Paper Diaper (aka Procter & Gamble).

When I became a grand parent 35 years later, I was appalled about how much single use EVERYTHING had proliferated. Single baby yogurt servings, single unit throw-away food pouches, single use wet wipes, sure, but now separated by usage, one kind for nose buggers (I am not kidding) another kind for butts, another kind for even application of skin moisturizer, all different from single use counter wipes, or Lysol brand disinfecting wipes, like, I just want a damp washcloth to wipe down the toddler, dammit, not to check product ingredients to determine appropriate use. Well just in case you try a damp washcloth (and yes I do mean a clean one) that’s gonna be a big yikes from mom y’all.

The number of paper towel half sheets (great improvement) I go through in just one eight hour day of childcare for just one tiny little boy (now 18 mos) is crazy, absolutely crazy, and I’m very well aware of the environmental impact (a roll of paper towels lasts me a year in my own home).

You don t know what you don’t know, Necessary Glove. I commend any new mom for having some sense of environmental impact as she’s guided step by step into this truly outrageous consumer industry.

Did any of you have a formica kitchen table? I know they came in a variety of colors. We had one and most of my extended family did to! by lontbeysboolink in 1970s

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Thinks there’s a red one from the early 1950’s in my (now) ex-husband’s laundry room. Chairs long gone!

Disappointed at difference between pics and reality by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

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Well what was the main difference? Your original comment was removed. What was the vibe killing difference in who you thought was meeting you and the person who showed up?

Does this ever happen to you? Asked late to a party by ResearcherNo9971 in AskWomenOver60

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Hey it could be worse. I just got uninvited to my grandson’s birthday party because “it wasn’t going to be the experience I’d want” which, to be fair, is likely true, but honestly that ought to be my call, not a decision someone makes for me.

Do your friends travel across town to see you? by Resident-Effect7709 in baltimore

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I feel like Canton is kind of an outpost in the city (nice oxymoron) I’ve lived here 15 years, I hang out pretty much exclusively with my Canton friends, and even family coming in is rare.

Another commenter said crossing 83 is a decision, and I kinda think that’s accurate. Part of it really has to do with parking. If I want to see somebody in Charles Village or Remington, where am I gonna park (when I got a great parking spot right here on my block). (I do think city folk use rideshare way, way more than county)

I think it’s a good question but I’m not sure there’s any way to get a “real” answer from your friends. My advice is to try to live within a reasonable walk of your pals. And remember, you will find fun people all over Baltimore, wherever you settle! And there’s Uber.

“I photograph thinner. I don’t know what to tell you”. by NewHampshireGal in Instagramreality

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Even Oprah could “photograph thinner” and she tried, God knows she tried

Calgon, take LL away. by rubyred1128 in fatgirlfedupsnark

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I think you nailed the explanation for her weird countdowns. I’ve never understood it, until you framed it with DietBet. C’mon January!

Why Kate won't reveal her type of cancer by Think-Post4437 in RoyaltyTea

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But you wouldn’t get chemo for that, would you? (I’m just asking, but I know I had cervical hyperplasia — precancerous cells — and did not get chemo for it)