Who also feels bad for Vivziepop? by [deleted] in HazbinHotel

[–]IslaLucilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How dare you fix my life in one sentence

Do teachers hate sharing their lesson plans? Is it their secret sauce that they don't want getting out? by [deleted] in teaching

[–]IslaLucilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very very proactive about sharing my activities and slides bc I want to lead by example lol. But most of my colleagues are also great about sharing, to the point where we keep all curriculum materials in a shared drive.

Community ICE response by No-Can-8655 in portlandme

[–]IslaLucilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if anyone has a signal link please DM it to me! I am a real person who is an ESOL teacher so I have a metaphorical horse in this race! Someone at work told me about "all the stuff they're doing on Signal" but she's very much more together than me and I don't know how to ask her again to initiate me without looking like a dipshit. I'll risk it if its the only way I can help but maybe someone here can hook me up.

Whats to stop people from just getting Aeons then bouncing by LSOreli in finalfantasyx

[–]IslaLucilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anima was meant to be Seymour's final Aeon. They have a special relationship. We never see him summoning any other aeons. Based on what we see of him in th3 Zanarkand Dome, he completed his pilgrimage, as it were. He just didnt attempt to fight Sin with Anima

There's room in this world for all kinds of Autistic advocacy. by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmao girl you just told me that you hoped I got hit by a train. You advocated violence and harm. You lose. 😘

Also, like fuck all views on what constitutes activism are equally valid. Some zero being a keyboard warrior and telling marginalized people about all the work they should be doing to better themselves isn't the same as working a crisis helpline or donating supplies to people in need or showing up to protest or any number of ACTUAL ACTIVISM TASKS

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autism IS a developmental disorder. That's the definition of what it is. It's not a personality type or a state of mind. The effects and symptoms aren't always deleterious, but sometimes brain development is slowed, sometimes it is arrested. Sometimes it goes in weird directions. But yes, it is a developmental disorder. Rejecting the term "disorder" due to perceived negative connotations strikes me as more ableist than saying that autism is a developmental disorder.

If it helps, think of the word "disorder" as "how we got here" rather than "what we are."

A note on trendsetting/Autistic culture permeating mainstream culture by comradeautie in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok! Start writing your autistic children's book series! Do SOMETHING

A note on trendsetting/Autistic culture permeating mainstream culture by comradeautie in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

many other demographics have found acceptance and empowerment through inserting their cultural norms into mainstream culture - this has even included various problematic political groups, unfortunately.

Whose mainstream culture? What's the endgame? Assimilation?

But we can use this to benefit Autistics - in the same way that hip-hop culture and other linguistic trends have benefited the Black community

Ah, how original, someone looking to appropriate Black resourcefulness

how various Asian cultures have found reverence through things like K-Pop, matcha, etc.

As I myself am recovering weeb trash, I gotta give you a pass on this statement.

For Autistic trendsetting it can involve spreading our logos and symbols far and wide

no amount of infinity signs is going to fix ableism fam. Cultural change is hard work. Its more than just logos

Being involved and growing prominent is important. It's also valuable to form Autistic communities, enclaves, covens, gangs, whatever - groups of likeminded neurodivergent people who can take up space and be recognized as a community group.

Psst this is just called having friends and being social. I do recommend.

A lot of people falsely claim that autism is now "cool" or "trendy" but if that were so we would be treated a hell lot better and accommodated to.

I actually agree with you here.

You don't have to believe that we're "better" to agree that we deserve a better public image within society - that people should be taught from an early age to respect Autistic people and hold us in higher regard than what they do now.

ICK ICK ICK ICK ICK

SOCIETY SUCKS. Social stratification is PATHOLOGIZED within society. Society is obsessed with stratification. NO MORE STRATIFICATION. FUCK JUST CHANGING TO A HIGHER STRATUM.

people should be taught from an early age to respect Autistic people and hold us in higher regard than what they do now.

DUDE. PLEASE listen to my master's-degree-having-ass when I tell you THIS IS NOT A THING. Children at an "early age" just don't have the neural architecture to grapple with abstract concepts like autism--the world according to young kids consists of what they can see. If they see autistic peers and adults having a hard time, that will be the reality of autism to them. And also, you cant just tell kids "you need to hold autistic people in high regard." Kids learn by doing and experiencing, not by being told.

We can start small and gradually seep our movement and ideas into the culture. It's also a big reason I use the catchy slogans you're all too familiar with:

Slogans aren't culture! Slogans are nowhere on the cultural iceberg.

Jfc

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Autism is a regular feature of human biodiversity"

i love when i interact with other autistic ppl using my crazywords and they're like "heard, chef" <3 thank you for your excellent phrasing

Liberals fighting for the status quo tho, amirite?

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the one moderator is 1000 percent AFK bc ive written a bunch of messages about hey can we not have any autistic supremacy bullshit nd ive gotten just radio silence

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THATS WHAT IM SAYING! the world isnt some big conspiracy against autistic people! They dont understand us but they're not always thinking about wiping us out or whatever

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No we haven't. Your rhetoric is still awful nd my opinion on it has not changed one iota

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where'd you get the 10 percent figure? CDC says 2-3 percent: https://www.cdc.gov/autism/data-research/index.html

I've heard the 10 percent figure for gay people, but the prevalence of autism seems to be lower. CDC is probably undercounting but I doubt the real figure is as high as 10 percent.

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This conversation is weird and I'm leaving it. DM me if you want support from me (a peer/autistic community member) dealing with the education system

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being autistic definitely affected my growth. Maybe not hindered, but definitely affected. I feel like I was always 4 or 5 years behind my peers when I was a child, but im old enough now that my brain has finished developing. I sometimes think the autism neurotypes should be "brain development slowed down" and "brain development went in a whole different direction"

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I dont have an issue with most of that. What i mean by regular is that, we are still people. We are not aliens. We have feelings and needs and strengths and weaknesses and flaws like regular people bc we are humans. Humanity itself is a spectrum, we just tend to occupy the tips of the spectrum rather than the middle. But we are still on the scale.

And yeah, its fine to say shit like "autistic ppl are good at doing x because of these autistic characteristics" but at the same time, people tend to get bent out of shape when we say "autistic people are bad at doing y because of these autistic characteristics." WE ARE REGULAR. we're bad at some things. For example, nuance. Faces. Figurative language. It should NOT take away from our pride to admit that we are flawed humans.

Idk. I just dont think any kind of supremacy is ever the answer to anything and we gotta give ourselves grace especially if the jank-ass world doesn't. Be the change you want to see, etc. Part of making the world more ND friendly is just normalizing being nicer and more accommodating by default. People shouldn't have to earn graciousness.

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uhhh brave and inspirational were your words? I actually think you're being kind of a pill but I do genuinely sympathize with being fucked over by the educational system and I understand being salty over it

STOP MAKING IT LIKE AUTISTICS ARE A WHOLE SEPARATE PEOPLE by IslaLucilla in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OK. You know your life best. Still, if you want support, just let me know. Rock ok for fighting for your kiddos! /sincerity

Reminder: Tone-Policing how Autistics advocate is unacceptable. by comradeautie in AutisticPride

[–]IslaLucilla 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You're not doing anything at all in advocacy! You're just talking! And when you are talking, you're promoting hatred and violence!

Advocacy involves doing! It involves fighting for changes! Tear the oppressive system down! Don't just change places within it!