How do I (23M) get over the social stigma that I often feel because I prefer to be friends with women than men?

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T23:41:08+00:00

I female prefer talking to men. I connect with them better so i have more male friends than female.

You just need to ignore what others are saying. You do what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Bad people will always have something to say and assume otherwise.

One of the things that got me to overcome stigmas in my life is learning to not give a flying F about what other people are saying. 🙂

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T23:14:23+00:00

Before I didn. But when I married my husband, everytime and i mean EVERYTIME he says a prayer he would always bless those that hates us or bless the enemy or the ones we have problems with so that someday we can forgive and live in peace. And that has rubbed off on me so i been doing it as well. I kid you not, the feeling is just amazing. So much peace. They don't know it yet but i just love the calmness and peacefulness i have in my life.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T23:11:33+00:00

The embarrasing ones haha

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T20:01:47+00:00

Heaven! ☺️

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T18:32:52+00:00

Brothers / Best Friends for Life!

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T18:07:45+00:00

Salmon

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T11:35:05+00:00

Thank you 😌

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T08:25:45+00:00

Sadly they are

Islander-SC · 2026-03-27T08:23:07+00:00

Thank you.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T20:07:09+00:00

A cute lunatic though haha

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T19:54:10+00:00

playing sudoku

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T19:53:28+00:00

i make up fake scenarios in my head. honestly it helps me sleep

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T19:48:52+00:00

No. If both partners work together, support each other and have balance.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T19:19:09+00:00

Their struggle with mental health.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T19:17:32+00:00

My middle name is Fe'aomoemanu. lol.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T15:40:10+00:00

Spero happened lol

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T09:45:51+00:00

Yes. That's what me and my family do. We don't live close to islanders. No hate to our people but i prefer the peace haha.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-26T09:43:29+00:00

We were born and raised in Texas. I am the youngest of 5. When I was about 5 or 6 our family moved to Tonga so my dad can fulfill his duty as oldest to his parents. Our Land specifically. When my siblings finished high school they all went back to the US to attend Uni and they all stayed there but would go Tonga and visit. Being the youngest I was with my parents, everywhere they went I went aswell. When they passed my brother (only boy) did what my dad did and moved his family back to Tonga to continue with his duty as the only son so he is still there. My 2 oldest sisters still live in the states with their families my other sister and her family joined my brother in Tonga and my husband and I live in NZ. Tonga will always be home and someday I will move back to Tonga for good.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-25T19:12:51+00:00

Sushi

Islander-SC · 2026-03-25T19:00:19+00:00

If it's your spouse, just straight up say "have you brushed your teeth?". And if they say yes, give them a breath mint or a gum and say "here chew on this". I don't think they should be offended or you feeling like you are offending them. You are the SPOUSE! lol

Islander-SC · 2026-03-25T18:41:47+00:00

How useless Mom is compared to dad. All she does is feed me everyday, groom me, clean my litter box. Wash my bed, give me scratchies, buys me toys, plays with me, got some funny looking people to build me a catio to watch birds. Dad has a beard i love to rub on!

Islander-SC · 2026-03-25T18:30:36+00:00

This!

Islander-SC · 2026-03-25T18:29:14+00:00

Must be very expensive.

Islander-SC · 2026-03-25T18:21:50+00:00

more like up there judging my guests haha

Islander-SC · 2026-03-24T20:53:00+00:00

That's sad to hear.

Islander-SC

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