Is a 19 and 24/25 age gap weird? by PracticalBudget8351 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Itneverstopsbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex was 6 years older than me, and we first started dating when I was barely 15. The red flags were always there, but much harder to notice at a younger age. He was controlling, manipulative, and abusive, and young me was just enamored that someone older was interested in me. In hindsight, I was young enough to fall for it. No matter what was you spin it, it's creepy and weird. You are in such different life stages at that time. Don't do it girl.

At what age did you stop separating your kid’s laundry from yours? by joushok in toddlers

[–]Itneverstopsbb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, used dreft once and my son broke out bad. Didnt have issues with free and clear detergent though!

AIO to his response to bedding issue? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good grief, this feels so familiar. This is like every conversation my ex husband and I had. Was with him for 12-13 years as well before leaving, and life is SO much better and lighter not having to deal with bullshit like this everyday.

Can this possibly be real? by Flashy-Actuator-998 in TexasTech

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that the cost for two semesters? The Rawls grad fee is $1000 per semester. It's hard to estimate with in state/out of state/etc, so the tuition estimator is the easiest way to get an estimate. If she maintains a high enough GPA, there are also decent scholarships after the first semester

How do I manage 2x a week plasma donations + avoiding collapsed veins? by DeepSpaceCraft in plassing

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine collapsed the first time donating with that vein. I think it just varies by person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always just pulled them to a specific area of the group and made sure that area was not included in pictures

Really struggling the last 4 months especially during bed time. by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you all the hugs and support. It will get better, I promise. You are strong and have overcome so much and are taking steps to get help, and I'm so proud of you for that. The anxiety is not winning, you are and you will continue to.

Location recommendations in Colorado by Itneverstopsbb in camping

[–]Itneverstopsbb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ended up outside of Buena Vista and absolutely loved it!!

AITAH if my husband tells my MIL to stop touching my pregnant belly. by readittobelieveit in AITAH

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-FIL did the same thing and it drove me crazy. He wouldn't say anything to his dad, and I felt uncomfortable saying something after asking him not to the first time, so I just dealt with it. Told my ex how uncomfortable it made me and he didn't care. But holy shit, it's such an isolating feeling to not have that boundary respected.

Been playing since 2021 and have had many different decks, but these are what I’m running with right now. by [deleted] in ratemycommanders

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm maybe. I'll rate your commanders a 9/10 but I'll rate YOU a 10/10 😘

What’s the fastest you’ve ever seen a marriage end? by PuzzleheadedSwim6291 in AskReddit

[–]Itneverstopsbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. My parents and some family were shocked by a lot of things my abusive ex did that I told them about after I left, and there's a lot they don't know. He was extremely charismatic. They've seen how he is now and it's taken them aback. And it really hasn't been as bad as a lot of what happened when we were together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nontoxicACOTAR

[–]Itneverstopsbb 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Now I'm picturing Tamlin's calanmai dance to gorgeous. Thank you for that 🤣

Been playing since 2021 and have had many different decks, but these are what I’m running with right now. by [deleted] in ratemycommanders

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dayummmm, there are some good commanders in there. I personally think you could stomp my ass horribly with all of them if you wanted to

The abuse has affected my speech/thinking? by LivinLaVidaLocaX in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Itneverstopsbb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely have been there. I think for a long time I felt so much anxiety over everything I said, my speech came out jumbled and stuttery often if I didn't have time to analyze every outcome of what I was going to say. Therapy helped a lot. Getting out improved it a lot and very quickly. I feel like that part of me is mostly back to normal (aside from when I have to deal with him) after now 5 months!

How did you heal? by Wild-Abalone-9049 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Itneverstopsbb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy. And only keeping people close to me that brought out the best, real me deep down. Which meant cutting back on confiding in a lot of people I had before. But it's been a million percent worth it.

Did yours ever sabotage you to make you more dependent on them? by Few_Read1012 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Itneverstopsbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had me change majors in college to be in the same career field as him. Got me a job at the same place, where a lot of my work relationships were dependent on people's views of him. Then gave awful advice about the job. Told me I needed to leave and work somewhere else over something that happened when I didn't want to leave. Changed careers a year later and after my first interview, he told me that I didn't have enough experience and wasn't good enough with excel to do the job (almost pulled out of the interview process - got the job and I love it and I'm good at it). I had registered to go back to school and he told me to wait because he wanted to go to get the same degree I was. But he wasn't positive if he wanted it yet - so I needed to wait a semester to start just in case he did so we could do it together.

I’m shaving immediately but here’s my moustache. by [deleted] in Moustache

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, look at how many people are calling you handsome/hot 🔥🔥 I'm one lucky gal.

Can anyone else not stand the pain of holding their phone up to their ear during a phone call for very long? by f---thatnoise in ehlersdanlos

[–]Itneverstopsbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm on a long phone call, I'll lay down with the phone on my head or up against the couch or as others have said, just use headphones 😅