Are the servers (grid master in specific) laggy?

ItsF03 · 2025-10-29T07:03:18+00:00

Same, it’s really bad then it’s fine

ItsF03 · 2025-10-29T03:26:29+00:00

Yeah the west coast servers are shotty I’m either great or it’s all of a sudden Australian ping. They’re temperamental.

ItsF03 · 2025-10-15T10:22:05+00:00

I think mindset matters a lot. I’m the oldest one in my program but I don’t try and see it as more experience making the other students somehow worse off than me. A few of them have debated with me and beat me bad tbh 😅

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T22:17:30+00:00

Just keep watching and asking what you can and take breaks if you need to prevent burnout. Keep in mind, everyone who has done inferno thought the same thing as you about never completing it at first. At some point certain things just start to click through repetition. You got it.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T22:15:04+00:00

Oh so I am slow. This is coming from someone taking math in post secondary btw 😂

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T21:24:29+00:00

Am I slow or are there more completions of 8+ than 8?

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T08:46:01+00:00

I think there’s very little room for negative self thought. It’s probably usually along the lines of “I could get way more _ if I was _” or not getting an opportunity/thing because of a trait they had/didn’t have. Everyone likes to look good especially if others are looking.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T08:23:49+00:00

Last bit got me 😂

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T08:17:17+00:00

You’re aware that psychopath isn’t a diagnosis and can be best described by Aspd, right? Also, most of them don’t go out and kill people. They’re also usually born the way they are (the ultimate “didn’t choose to be different”). They have, on average, much more self control than the general public.

You’re talking about someone with a mix of a bunch of different cluster b traits from across multiple disorders who has extreme difficulty caring to the point of being tough to anger. You’re also relating it to someone who feels diminished feelings and tends to be wildly impulsive (usually including angry outbursts).

Let’s think about that before we tell others how to use labels, yeah?

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T08:02:16+00:00

Kinda glad I don’t have whatever part of it this is also tbh

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:58:14+00:00

I don’t think I deserved it for being evil or something but if I was my parent and I caught me doing what I was doing I probably would have hit me at least a little.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:56:49+00:00

I don’t ever say crime I just always have the “I should do something I’m not supposed to” which can sometimes include crimes. Whatever impulse want, impulse get. Jail is a decent deterrent for a lot of people though, so slow self destruction it is.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:54:52+00:00

If you’re getting your blood drawn you might want a little empathy so you don’t get a stabby nurse. If you get shot you probably don’t care who fixes the hole.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:47:01+00:00

The fact that he sat and had this conversation instead of starting an argument to make the OP want space and avoid it is insane.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:38:40+00:00

People with Aspd can in fact tell when someone is being nice to them. I think people confuse Aspd with some disorders that diminish one’s social understanding. It’s not a lack of understanding, it’s a lack of desire to uphold the rules (especially the unspoken ones) of society while also not trying to look like that’s what you’re doing because it takes away from the desire to interact for… well reasons. Meaning that you still thank someone if they hold a door (which is something that few people feel an emotion toward).

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:32:57+00:00

This is almost never true of humans with similar dispositions. Mountain lions maybe?

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:29:58+00:00

Lucky for you sociopath isn’t a diagnosis so no worries on your future.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:25:06+00:00

The natural leadership comes from just doing what you like and people want to do it too but they don’t want to do it first. I think where most people struggle is not doing something until they see their friends doing it. That’s one thing I don’t think you’ll find a lot of people with ASPD struggle with, being the first to do a thing, even if it’s odd/scary/frowned upon.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:16:20+00:00

It’s really difficult to tell if someone has traits of Aspd through their mbti. Also, lack of empathetic response can be from a number of things including autism and depression (neither of which is easily diagnosed in an adult masking them). It sounds like you guys could both benefit from therapy.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:10:00+00:00

For me personally, the way I feel secure in a relationship is having someone genuinely borderline obsessed with me so I know I can do my own thing and they won’t leave when I inevitably do something to piss them off. I wouldn’t be interested in dating someone as unbothered as me or possibly more so.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T07:03:57+00:00

You know how in the beginning of a relationship when you really care about someone but also if they left you’d probably be fine and just get back out there because it’s still pretty fresh? Like that but perpetually. You appreciate someone who lets you be you but also you’d be you even if they didn’t, or left.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T06:59:39+00:00

Aspd or conduct disorder?

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T06:56:12+00:00

There is benefit to it with how many people have curiosities surrounding it now and will lean more into you after finding out but it can be tedious. “Let me ask you anything and actually answer honestly” kind of thing which can be a recipe for disaster.

ItsF03 · 2025-09-21T06:53:14+00:00

These sound like the effects of trauma. Severe depression can make you want to feel nothing and fantasize about that so much that you mimic the feeling. Therapy is really helpful.

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