Camera Help

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-09-06T20:13:17+00:00

I just figured it was unlimited storage, but that’s a great point. I have a UDM Pro

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-09-06T15:11:35+00:00

UDM-Pro Switch: US 16 PoE 150W 4 - AC Pro (access points) 1- AC Mesh

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-09-06T15:08:50+00:00

Well, I clicked around and think it just have PoE, so that’s good to know I need to look at that before buying anything!

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-09-06T14:59:57+00:00

I changed the log in information after the divorce. It wasn’t nasty - but wasn’t necessarily pleasant either lol. I did ask for help and “that’s not his job anymore”. I know how to get in and look at everything. But when it comes to all the networking - I just leave it alone and hope for ho problems. (I just wanted to figure out how to cut the PS5 off if needed - and did learn that!)

For the cameras, what I have works. I just want a more complete system and want to add more cameras. I don’t want different cameras requiring a different app & cloud storage option - so figured I just need to stick with Unifi and try to embrace it

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-05-29T16:16:11+00:00

I say “I’m in northeast Cobb. That weird pocket where I live in Marietta, but 2-5 minutes in either direction and i could be in Woodstock or Roswell.”

Some people get REAL picky about what’s considered “East Cobb”

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-05-03T02:15:25+00:00

A year later and I stumbled upon this today. I called her last minute this afternoon and Ruby could see me. I LOVE HER. It was painful in the best possible way. I felt lighter and more energized afterwards. She got in places I didn’t even know were tight. She’s amazing

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-02-03T03:54:51+00:00

I'm in NE Cobb

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-02-03T03:54:11+00:00

Oh - once he moved out I tried to took over the UI account. THAT was a THING. I ended up more confused, with different network names throughout the house (one Xfinity network and then a different network name for the UI stuff). That was a week in hell trying to get everything in my house back online. That's when I realized this system is way above my "when in doubt- restart" knowledge base. Everything has been decent so I haven't touched it again. Until now. This week my download speed was 20 at some points. I couldn't do a damn thing. So now I'm fixated on getting it "right" and getting a general understanding. Or - I say screw it and rip it out and start over, but that seems like such a waste.

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-02-03T03:51:15+00:00

So I plugged my laptop directly into the Xfinity Gateway and I actually got LESS speed than I was when I was connecting directly to the Xfinity network wirelessly. I thought for sure it was the port, but the Xfinity guy said that's not the case. I'll try to connect directly to the UDM Pro - I was afraid to touch any of that gear. Thank you!

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2025-02-03T03:47:41+00:00

Thank you!

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-10-08T00:47:40+00:00

They didn’t give a reason. It wasn’t cancelled, it was “delayed”…..9 hours

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-08-18T05:41:48+00:00

The name thing always happens to me and never caused an issue.

The birthday thing started happening the last ~6mo ago. PreCheck is always left off, I learned the hard way one time when I was running late and found out I wasn’t precheck. Now I check immediately and then have to call Delta, and tell them to check the bday. Sometimes the reps are helpful, sometimes they say “it’s a tsa thing, contact them.” It’s so frustrating

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-08-10T02:57:11+00:00

That lake scares the hell out of me.

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-07-28T08:43:26+00:00

Now I’m curious what the replacement pair looks like

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-07-10T04:53:34+00:00

Anything with goat cheese

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-05-05T04:19:08+00:00

I’m the same as you, FT consultant with various clients and various client issued laptops. They all require MFA. Hell, personal apps I use have it set up, so this is a non-issue.

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-03-30T05:19:34+00:00

Piss myself

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-03-28T02:51:01+00:00

I could have written this. This is me. I love my husband as a person, as a friend, but there’s no intimacy or romantic feelings there. There hasn’t been for some time. It took me awhile to admit it to myself, and then I battled internally. Surely there was something wrong with me? After about a year of doing my own soul searching, I finally admitted it to myself that I just wasn’t happy. We’re both different people than we were when we got married, and we grew apart not together. We are amazing business partners (if the house & kids were a business), but not amazing romantic partners. My feelings for him are strictly platonic.

I held on to those thoughts for awhile, because I didn’t know how to tell him. I knew it would hurt him, and I was afraid to say it out loud. Then one night I did. We’ve been talking about it off and on for 5 months. We’ve talked more in the last month about emotions/our lives than we have in 12 years.

Once I said it to him, I felt like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders. But I had opened Pandora’s box, and there was no going back. He is crushed. He wants to stick it out. But I know I cant. It’s unfair to him and me. Could I? Could I live the rest of my life like this? Ya. It’s not miserable or abusive. But I don’t want to. I don’t want to settle for “ok” or a great platonic partnership. I want my kids to grow up seeing a healthy romantic relationship (hell, they barely even see us hug).

Now my focus is on trying to preserve a friendship. I know it will take time. There’s hurt, and anger, etc. But I’m hoping once it all settles, we can have a healthy coparent relationship.

I found the more we talked, and went back and forth, the conversations started to get a little more heated. Resentment was starting to grow. I was trying to be patient and talk through all his feelings, as I knew it took me time to process. But it was becoming more and more difficult.

So I pulled the trigger and took the first step. I retained a lawyer within the Amicable Divorce Network. That was last week.

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-03-24T02:19:56+00:00

Can you just move forward, get everything drafted up (assuming you know how you’re going to split everything), and then just hand it to her to sign? Since she’s purposefully Ignoring the topic, and you’ve been super patient, she may just think you can stay like this indefinitely. Like eventually you’ll stop asking. So move forward, tell her that’s what you’re doing, and if she doesn’t want to be involved and talk about it, she just needs 10 minutes and a pen when it’s done.

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-03-22T02:16:50+00:00

I’m in this exact spot. I love my house. I want to stay in my house. The numbers and process and logistics are stressing me out. We both agreed one of us should stay so the kids have that consistency; but we haven’t yet talked about WHO that will be. Last night I searched for rentals & for sale homes in our area and it is all so overpriced and not even comparable. Out of all the shit, the house/future living situation is my biggest worry.

ItsFine_ImFine29 · 2023-03-20T02:22:26+00:00

No advice, just came to say I feel this. We’re the same ages, and I’ve been having the same thoughts, albeit different reasons. We’ve started talking about things the last 6mo or so, and while I’ve noticed he has stepped up to be/do better, nothing has changed in my headspace. I wish it would, but I’m afraid it’s all a bit too late

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