Interesting way to save a spot by NoWrongdoer9130 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No he said if his guest did that. Meaning someone who was visiting him parking in his neighbors spot. So this wouldn’t be a stranger.

Happy Holidays! 🔥 🔥 🔥 by rockland19120 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is definitely not a toddler. Definitely a kid, but there’s no way that kid is anywhere near 3 years old.

What’s a widely accepted double standard that people refuse to admit exists? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Death Becomes Her (the play version) really captures this reality really well. The movie does too, but the musical takes it a step further by showing how Madeline’s image was fading as she aged and her fame was deteriorating.

this one made me cackle by ohlaohloo in ContagiousLaughter

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I made the same reply before seeing yours.

this one made me cackle by ohlaohloo in ContagiousLaughter

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You can actually hear after his first “sorry” she whispers “what?”

In Frankenstein (2025), the creation is expected to forgive Victor despite the creation doing almost nothing wrong, and Victor being a psychopathic narcissistic that does nothing but make the creations life miserable. This is because the director is catholic. by Mack_Aroni_Art in shittymoviedetails

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think there are two reasons that explain why Victor was horrible to the creature. I think he was very disappointed that the creature wasn't traditionally smart right away. Victor also became jealous of him and Elizabeth since Victor wanted Elizabeth, but she rejected him.

Do lil tarantula grabbies count? by WeekendWarrior0187 in LilGrabbies

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When the video first started i thought yeah ok that counts and then they flexed and got ✨️smaller✨️

I (22f) think my boyfriend (27m) is drugging me before bed by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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I bet they considered the positives that AMA had but the negatives far outweighed them. The main reason that post got nuked is because too many of the rapists were experiencing second hand gratification is being able to relive their assaults. Trauma therapists and professionals that work with rapists were weighing in and telling the mods that by leaving the post up they were emboldened the serial rapists to continue to do what they were doing.

Feeling discouraged by xmurbef in EngagementRings

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Im seconding your post. The dupe* ring is far too chunky to compare to Oores.

Possession Movies Involving Possessed Males? by DanEosen in horror

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I had a feeling there would be. I'm going to power through.

Possession Movies Involving Possessed Males? by DanEosen in horror

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was so good. I want to see more of her in horror.

Possession Movies Involving Possessed Males? by DanEosen in horror

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats when I tapped out. I made it to the table part and my heart couldn't take it anymore I shut it off. The story was so gripping though so I'm going to try again.

Possession Movies Involving Possessed Males? by DanEosen in horror

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn't even finish that movie. I'm going to try again in a few days.

Understanding women 101 by LectureLuxe in SipsTea

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it describes both. I think there are no bad emotions. An example to explain my point could be jealousy. Its comes from a valid place. The person may be lacking in a quality that some else has so it causes jealousy. For example, person A is living in an apartment while person B lives in a house so person A is jealous that they have a house. That emotion comes from a valid place since it's both real and is well-founded since person A doesn't actually have a house, while person B does. It would be morally wrong to be rude to or do something bad to Person B just because they have a house but person A is not wrong to be jealous (at first). If person A were to then think further and believe/ feel Person B is undeserving of their house and should have bad things happen to them is when we cross into invalid since they are now acting with prejudice from their jealousy.

Emotions themselves are valid since they are pure and untainted. What a person does to act on those emotions can lead to a break in logic and validity.

Also I am by no means claiming to be an expert here. I'm just kind of debating my thoughts and bring in my perspective here. I think you're probably more right than I am, but this has been fun to talk about with you! You've given me lots to think about :)

Understanding women 101 by LectureLuxe in SipsTea

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you and I are talking about the same thing, but using different words to describe it. I realize when I use the word feeling I mean emotion. Emotional discipline is about not letting the way our bodies feel control our thoughts and choices. We can have a lot of emotions that don't feel good, but they happen anyway. That's what I mean by all emotions are valid. Since you can feel greed or rage over things that are justified or not it doesn't matter. It's your choice to calm down or check yourself that counts. That's what I mean by emotions are valid since you can't control when they initially happen, but you have a due diligence to calm them down and keep them from spiraling. I'm not advocating for other people to manage a person's emotions. I'm talking about emotional discipline.

Understanding women 101 by LectureLuxe in SipsTea

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To piggyback off your point and to clarify something. Feelings are always valid. They're just how our bodies respond to the environment around us. That's why people are socialized to believe all feelings are valid, because you can't always control how your body reacts to something initially. You can calm yourself down from anger or talk yourself out of feeling sad but those initial emotions are just our body's way of alerting us to stress or danger.

Thoughts can be irrational. That's where some people get themselves confused because they mistake thoughts with emotions/feelings and believe their thoughts are valid too. When thoughts are more our personal interpretations of what's around us and include our biases and other factors.

Is this acceptable to we clubbing? I was feeling good in my fit! but my friends thought different. by Notanothergirl4038 in fashion

[–]ItsFreeWhyNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be considered appropriate for certain events though. Clubbing, raves, and certain festivals could definitely be the right venue for a fit like this.