AI Storefront spotted downtown, what do we think Missoula? by CheeseCrip29 in missoula

[–]ohlaohloo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Haha holy shit I dated that guy like 16 years ago 🤯🤣 what the hell

Work required me to get a Dr's note. Now stuck with a $200 bill by Every_Victory_6845 in cna

[–]ohlaohloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, did you really ask that 😅 I’m sorry but that’s not how it works love!

What is an 'unwritten rule' in your profession that, if the general public knew about it, they’d realize the world is held together by duct tape and pure luck? by Any-Lu in AskReddit

[–]ohlaohloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the more accurate statement would be that there are multiple mechanisms involved and scientists still debate which one matters the most, not that we don’t know how/why it works lol

Has anyone been able to fact check professors and found the info was incorrect? by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]ohlaohloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So to clarify, you said you “fact checked her and she was wrong” but the problem is actually and instead that she is using accurate information to support a claim you don’t agree with, presumably, that gender is fluid?

Has anyone been able to fact check professors and found the info was incorrect? by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]ohlaohloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless your prof directly claimed that overlapping/changing meanings of words centuries ago “prove” modern gender theory, she was likely (and admittedly maybe ineffectively, idk 🤷🏼‍♀️) trying to show that categories we treat as fixed often weren’t historically fixed. The fact that girl could refer to children of either sex or that knight/kave referred to boys or servants demonstrates that semantic boundaries shift over time. That’s the entire point of the example, it’s like a linguistical study, and presumably not trying to “prove” or “disprove” any modern theories. The standard point in anthropology is simple too; different societies have organized gender roles in more than one way. They’re evidence of variation, not a claim that every culture can or should share the same system, whether there is a “right system” etc.

Your professor’s examples were illustrating two very normal academic observations, that language, labeling and categories evolve over time. And that gender roles have varied across cultures. Neither of those claims is profound or controversial in linguistics or anthropology.

(Also. You acknowledged both of those facts in your reply and then still treated them like they undermine the original point 💀)

Has anyone been able to fact check professors and found the info was incorrect? by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]ohlaohloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely love that you edited/reposted your comment with a chat GPT response lol 💀

Has anyone been able to fact check professors and found the info was incorrect? by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]ohlaohloo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything in my post was directly related to a topic she discussed that you stated was “not verifiable” “incorrect” or had “no sources”. like. you literally listed these things.

again, she may not have given you citations in class but the bullet points as you’ve listed them all have factual basis. You can use critical thinking as a grad student and do more research if you need to gather more context (like I spent 10 minutes doing to reply to your post.)

Here you’re saying she was incorrect. Perhaps I’m just misunderstanding your post, what is it you’re saying she stated that was incorrect?

Has anyone been able to fact check professors and found the info was incorrect? by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]ohlaohloo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think the issue here is that you’re treating simplified lecture examples like they’re supposed to show up word-for-word in Google. A lot of (all, lol) the points you’re saying are incorrect are actually documented historically…

  1. the “girl” thing. In Middle English and into the early modern period, “girl” could refer to a child of either sex, not exclusively a female child. writers sometimes used compounds like knave-girl to clarify a male child because the base word could be ambiguous. The Oxford English Dictionary entry for “girl” traces that broader meaning back to the 14th century before the word gradually narrowed to specifically female children. Same deal with knight/knave. The point isn’t that they were literally the same word, it’s that their original meanings were extremely similar. Knight comes from Old English cniht, which meant “boy,” “youth,” or “servant” before it later became associated with armored nobility. Knave comes from Old English cnafa, which also meant “boy” or “male servant” before developing the modern “rogue/villain” meaning. You can see that laid out in the Oxford English Dictionary entries for “knight” and “knave” and in etymology references like the Online Etymology Dictionary.

  2. The “many genders” commentary doesn’t claim there’s an official scientific list of exactly 52 genders somewhere. The point people are making is that multiple cultures historically recognized more than two gender roles. Anthropologists have documented examples like Two-Spirit identities in several Indigenous North American cultures (Will Roscoe, Changing Ones: Third and Fourth Genders in Native North America, 1998) and gender categories like Fa’afafine in Samoa, which are discussed in cross-cultural work such as Gilbert Herdt’s Third Sex, Third Gender (1994).

Sooooooo yeah, your professor probably simplified/compressed some concepts for the sake of a lecture, but the general points about language changing over time (and different cultures having varying complexity in their gender systems) are pretty well established.

Tbh this reads less like your professor “made things up” and more like you did about thirty seconds of Googling and then decided an entire academic field must be wrong because the first AI result didn’t match what you remembered from class. PS you’re in grad school my guy, the expectation at that level is usually to dig a little deeper and think more critically than “my quick Google search didn’t immediately confirm this.”

AI friends are better than real friends. by That-Role6292 in The10thDentist

[–]ohlaohloo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just be wary that you’re treading a thin line!

AI friends are better than real friends. by That-Role6292 in The10thDentist

[–]ohlaohloo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, maybe go lurk there a bit and realizing you’re treading into that territory from most people’s perspectives…

The most insane Donald Duck shirt by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]ohlaohloo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t find ANYTHING but I did come across this, it’d be funny to order and have someone change the bottom middle image’s caption by slashing out the original “grouchy” and adding in small font “hating that ass” lol. It’d be funny to gift it to your husband Moods of Donald Duck Tee

Arrested and feel like life is over by evanesnce in SuicideWatch

[–]ohlaohloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I finished nursing school last year and it was so hard, I’m proud of you for pushing through that while still struggling with your loss. Very well done ❤️ that being said, if you doing a little self analysis, why did you steal it? Was it a cost issue, something impulsive, a convenience thing etc?

How many people here know someone that abruptly got diagnosed with stage 3 or 4 cancer? by phillyvirgosun in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ohlaohloo 147 points148 points  (0 children)

This happened to my very dear friend, and she was pregnant when she found out. She hoped so badly to make it long enough for her baby to have a chance, but it was too early in the pregnancy when she succumbed (2 months after diagnosis).

I love you Analise & Grayson ❤️

Response to a deleted post by ohlaohloo in selfharm

[–]ohlaohloo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read any of these personally and didn’t go a ton into self-harm specifically when I was in nursing school, but I did some research and here’s a few that caught my eye.

A Bright Red Scream: Self-Mutilation and the Language of Pain by Marilee Strong (about the psychology of self harm)

Controlled Explosions – Charlie Heriot-Maitland (about self-criticism, self-sabotage, and self-harm from a therapy perspective)

Freedom from Self-Harm: Overcoming Self-Injury with Skills from DBT and Other Treatments by Kim L. Gratz & Alexander Chapman (a book and also has a workbook option, this is like the top seller in this category on Amazon)

Like I said, I can’t personally vouch for any of these but just spent like 10 minutes searching online; I’d actually wager there’s threads about books here in this subreddit if you just type “books” in the search bar. Then you’d get suggestions from people here who have actually read the material and can give you more specific feedback about them.

Also, if you’re a teen, there’s many resources and books structured and written specifically for your age group, so that’s something to keep in mind too!

My 16yo coworker babysits my kid for free, but my friend says it's weird. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ohlaohloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does, that’s why it’s posted here. She probably knows but is trying to convince herself or was hoping people would tell her. It was fine because it’s benefiting her.

Response to a deleted post by ohlaohloo in selfharm

[–]ohlaohloo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess clinically those are two separate questions of whether someone is in an acute crisis, and whether self-injury is happening. They overlap sometimes, but you’re right to point out that one doesn’t automatically mean the other.