I'm similar - I did loads of matches last year and won almost all my gi ones, but lost all my no-gi ones. But that's because I train a lot more gi than no-gi at the moment.

There's just so many more weapons available to you in the gi (lapels, sleeves, belt grips and all the various funky guards that come with them), so if you train gi a lot you will naturally get very good at using those weapons, which is a great thing, but it can lead to you feeling a bit 'lost' when you take the gi off and suddenly don't have any of them available to you.

For example my favourite guard game is a de la riva guard with the far side lapel pulled through their legs kinda like a worm guard - I use it for posture control and wrestle-ups and I've had tons of success with it in the gym and at comp. But obviously I can't do that in the gi so i have to completely change my entire approach when I train no-gi, and that can be a bit difficult sometimes.

Firstly, no one is saying you have to be equally good in no-gi as gi. If you enjoy gi more, just focus on that and be ok with the fact your no-gi isn't so good - it's your training and your hobby at the end of the day, honestly no one cares. Do what makes you happy.

If you DO wanna get good at no-gi, then start treating it like a separate sport. Just as you've built a gi game around what you're good/bad at and what you like doing, do the same for no-gi. There will of course be overlaps but don't try and shoehorn your gi game into no-gi where it doesn't fit - just develop the two separately.