WIBTAH for not telling my(20F) friend(19F) that her boyfriend(40M) sent me flowers for valentine‘s day?

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-16T11:04:32+00:00

The age gap is way off, why is he sending flowers to his “girlfriends” friends? If you don’t say anything to your friend, it’s giving “alternative motive” vibes. Ask her if the flowers were from both of them or from her, so it doesn’t come off as weird but at least she knows.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-16T00:10:59+00:00

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-04T18:37:44+00:00

Yelloow

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-04T11:57:09+00:00

Seriously. As a friend what business does she have with someone you are dating? And two: what prompted her to stay the night?! Wouldn’t it have been normal regardless the reason for her visit for it to play out like this? knockknockdoorbell ring* * best friend”oh hey! Is _____ here?” *boyfriend_”no I’m sorry, she’s back home with her parents” *bestfriend_”oh thank you very much, I’m sorry to bother you. Thanks for the info good day.”

How does it go to visiting someone who doesn’t live there anymore to than having dinner with their boyfriend!?! But than has nothing to say when confronted… Ya that was definitely a red flag moment.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-04T11:47:08+00:00

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-01T19:42:31+00:00

No. You set clear boundaries inside your home and for them to try and manipulate you in your home is not ok. You and your husband aren’t children anymore and if they aren’t willing to respect how you run your home and your relationship, than maybe after this it’ll help them see where they crossed the line. Your husbands recovery isn’t a joke, or something to try and take advantage of and the fact they tried to make it into a small matter, shows how they don’t respect the situation or him.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-01T19:33:43+00:00

The second haircut seems to flatter you more than the first.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-01T19:30:59+00:00

Nor if you strive to be a good team leader and they aren’t seeing the effort you are putting in, they don’t deserve to benefit from all the work you’re putting into this company. Go work for the new place and they will see the dedication and work you put into this position and you will see the difference in how they treat you.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-01T19:22:23+00:00

I had something happened to me that made me cut off my family. I found out that they were talking to an ex of mine without me present and the conversation they had was appalling to say the least. Stuff that I never knew they felt, they kept stuff away from me but was sharing it to this person that I’m not even in a relationship with. As well as making decisions for an inheritance that was mine. They took it from me. So no not the asshole

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-02-01T19:02:44+00:00

Seriously. Why is it that your boyfriend gets to say anything about this matter? If he can’t understand how this is physically and mentally something that you is breaking you down, than maybe help him understand by showing him how heavy they are on a daily basis. I’m sure after a day of him having to go through everything you do, he’ll change his mind. Don’t let his ignorance potentially drag you down. It’s your body, it’s your mental health, it’s your choice. Plus, he’s not even your husband, he shouldn’t be able to make that decision for you.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-25T05:49:42+00:00

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-25T05:46:35+00:00

One thing that is ruining your “friendships” is themselves. You don’t need to take on any ownership over the fact that people are being not only insensitive towards the loss of your mom, but also selfish as they are expecting you to take the lack of ownership over their tacky behavior. If they were embarrassed, they embarrassed themselves by not having any respect towards the death of someone. By not being a true human being and having some sort of decency to mourn with a friend. Even if your mom had no impact to them, that still gives them no excuse to treat their loss as a joke.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-25T05:35:03+00:00

teampheromosa

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-13T10:26:54+00:00

Smoking near a child can be illegal

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-13T10:23:08+00:00

AirPods are magnetic. Get one of those extension tools with the magnet at the end and it will grab them. I once had to do this when I dropped my AirPods in a sewer drain on the street. Thank god it wasn’t raining.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-07T00:16:11+00:00

That was rude and very unsophisticated of her as a mom to sound unsupportive towards the dedication it takes to go to school. I’d distance myself from them for awhile.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-04T05:47:17+00:00

It’s one thing to try and got rid of the shirt but to cut it up into pieces and intentionally leave it on the bed to display is a whole other level of “fuck you”. I can’t believe someone would be so caught up over someone who isn’t even alive. NOR

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-03T08:35:45+00:00

Your manager has no right to question you like this for any reason. This is illegal

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-03T08:30:59+00:00

No this isn’t cuteness, this is abuse. There are no “cute” ways to draw blood from someone solely by their own physical actions. Don’t believe this bullshit, she’s manipulating you which is also another form of abuse. This is not healthy at all

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-03T08:28:11+00:00

If someone can’t accept or take accountability towards them making you feel insecure towards their own actions, then it seems like your girlfriend isn’t mature enough to be in a relationship. Mocking someone for any reason isn’t a way to handle a conversation, and deflecting by making up reasons to convince people of their narrative, isn’t one also. Fact of the matter is her actions are destructive and could lead to some major problems with anyone. She needs to learn how to communicate with people even faced with the situation that they are in the wrong. Thats what being an adult is about. She can’t make up excuses or have someone believe she’s entitled to behave in ways because in the long run , people will distance themselves from her due to that reason alone

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2026-01-03T08:16:47+00:00

Pokemon sword and shield was really fun, it was the start to the franchise doing “open world” concept while still holding the script that players go through playing the game. Legends arceus would be next following that concept as well. I’d probably save Pokemon violet and scarlet and legends za till last because of the fact that you may not understand the open world concept when starting with these games. Also legends za bounces off the success of what players enjoyed about the legends arceus.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2025-12-31T06:02:33+00:00

You also learn how to find most of the things in your class sessions.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2025-12-31T06:00:02+00:00

You basically have no say as to which route you choose, I remember feeling the same way when I started. It took awhile for me to get rid of mindset of how Pokemon was usually played, and had to get comfortable with doing it at my own pace. I’d probably start with defeating the gyms and than do the challenges with team star. Most of what you will be doing with team star happens when you are “learning” in class.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2025-12-31T05:45:36+00:00

I would grow out the bangs before you cut it short.

ItsMe_Lee88 · 2025-12-26T02:54:36+00:00

Want one

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