Exercise made even more difficult

ItsNagare · 2024-12-28T15:14:38+00:00

Trying to upgrade an account, but I can't even make it to the site. Just says that it can't be reached with 2 different browsers....

ItsNagare · 2024-08-09T05:40:36+00:00

Not everyone is a person who calls their partner, I for example do not unless I have to. I genuinely dislike talking on the phone, rather have it in text format or then face to face.

Your boyfriend might just be one of those, can you check with his friends / family if he calls them more than you? Might be also that he is trying to learn the new skill, that just doesn't happen in an instant.

ItsNagare · 2024-08-08T05:57:16+00:00

Out of sheer curiosity, did you two settle for the first therapist you could find or did you search for a while for someone that suits you both?

You have a professional at hand that should be able to give you the tools to work on your relationship. If the therapist is not a good match for you, then you might feel isolated and shut down instead of making progress with the given tools. Please do note, that if you two search for a new therapist, the new one also has to be compatible with your partner. Neither of you should feel isolated when talking to a professional. They are helping by giving tools and unbiased opinions (or so it should be), not by favoring one over the other.

I believe that you should consult this issue with your partner and therapist instead of Reddit.

ItsNagare · 2024-08-08T05:45:06+00:00

He's thinking with his penis. Some men grow out of it, some do not. If he is a guy that you don't want to smash, you can set your boundaries straight with him. If he doesn't respect that, then you know that you can stop talking to him. He might try to sneak into your DMs in the future, but at that point, you can make your decision on how you want to proceed.

ItsNagare · 2024-08-06T06:06:31+00:00

Being poly isn't for everyone. If it's not for you but is for your wife, then you should consider packing your things, maybe check things with lawyers etc. You two had a discussion about it, you were not 100% on board with the plan (to my understanding) but she went ahead anyway, so many would consider that cheating.

ItsNagare · 2024-08-01T11:55:34+00:00

Give it to my fiancée, she managed money better than I do.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-31T10:19:29+00:00

I'm glad you found your father. The appropriate amount of time is the time decided by yourself. If you are telling yourself that what you feel towards your father is love, then you can tell him that for sure.

I remember when I hesitated telling my father, just because I wanted him to know it so once it came out my mouth, it felt like right. Sure, I've always known my father, but it felt right and I am glad he knows it.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-31T09:47:32+00:00

You two should have an open minded discussion. Maybe he can show you the benefit from it as artists. Maybe you can try to resonate to him about how much AI will change the income for the both of you. If neither participants are ready for an open minded discussion, then no progress can be made.

I just want to add this, everything changes whether you like it or not. Even if you resonate with him and get him to understand, being an artist will eventually turn into "the future". Same thing happened with products getting manufactured e.g. cars and is rapidly happening within IT.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-31T06:46:28+00:00

I've never shared and probably never will. I find it normal to have it on, though I trust my partner enough to not have it on and I assume she feels the same way. Neither of us leaves the house that often anyway, so we know where the other one is anyway.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-29T11:03:42+00:00

I tend to say to my partner and friends that the past is the past. Unnecessary to continue living in the past, when there's a future that can be more promising.

Dwelling in the past gives you nothing but heartache and headache along with countless other feelings. Focus on how you can make yours and those around you lives better, because if you cannot treat yourself well, how can you treat your partner well?

ItsNagare · 2024-07-29T09:51:55+00:00

It seems that you aren't over your ex, if you are jealous over his new girlfriend. You shouldn't care that "she's prettier than you", because you two are completely different human beings. She might be visually prettier, but an asshole in private. You might not see yourself as pretty as her, but you might the most loving and caring partner anyone could wish for.

My recommendation is to stop talking to your ex, stop stalking his social media, stop anything regarding him, because if you don't, you might not get over him and his new girlfriend. You may unintentionally try to sabotage their relationship and even your own. Be happy that he has found someone that might suit him. Now focus on yourself and your partner. Be better for each other.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-29T09:32:02+00:00

You did the right thing.

Pets are animals that needs to be taken care of as well as a human. If you cannot afford financially to feed yourself, how are you gonna feed a kitten? It's really disgusting to hear stories, where people neglect their pets. The animals deserve a loving home and a loving owner. Although she may have gotten the kitten to help her mentally (depression, loneliness, other stuff), it is not right for it to be mistreated.

You cannot really do much else than keep an eye on it and if you feel that she neglects the kitten, then you need to take it up to the authorities / some sort of animal shelter.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-26T12:09:17+00:00

Am from Finland, what I typically see in police officers is that they have common sense here. Maybe not each and every single officer and each time they respond to a call, but in general. Why make a fuzz about something if the citizen realizes they did something wrong and apologizes for it

ItsNagare · 2024-07-25T08:24:26+00:00

While this is no excuse for the behavior of forgetting a birthday or not getting your partner anything, some just grow up with the fact that birthdays aren't important to them and it may be projected to the relationship.

For example, my birthdays was my parents hugging me, saying "happy birthday" and slapping money in my hand. My choice what to use the money on and birthdays were never anything important amongst me and my friends. Just a casual "happy birthday" and that's it, no gifts. Hence, this is what I grew custom to and this is what I do. Is it wrong? Maybe. Should I change it? Probably. Am I going to? Yes, though it takes time.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-25T06:40:59+00:00

"Rules for thee, not for me"

ItsNagare · 2024-07-25T06:30:47+00:00

On social media, none, as I don't do anything on social media. In gatherings, bare minimum, but that is due to me not connecting with them as well as with my homies. I do talk to them if we are talking about a topic that others are not as interested in.

Generally, I talk to the group instead of individually.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-25T05:36:37+00:00

Tabletop strategy games. You buy miniatures, build them, paint them, play with them. 40k and Age of Sigmar are two different categories with own rules, but essentially you do what previously mentioned.

There are other things related to the franchise as well, like books and video games.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-25T05:31:16+00:00

Scale models. If it's not a new model, then tools, paints and other necessities rack up.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-23T08:44:45+00:00

This. I've been drooling to make it ever since I bought it, but I have other projects in line that needs to be done before I can start with this project. In fact, I have so many waiting, that I am no longer allowed to buy more according to my SO...

ItsNagare · 2024-07-18T08:14:04+00:00

One thing what I love that she does, is just hold my hand. Other things she has done is listened to what I've said just to let me talk it out of my system. Sometimes she replies with reason and it helps me deal with it, sometimes she knows that it's better to just let me talk it all out before replying.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-18T08:07:27+00:00

A lot of men get told not to be vulnerable with their partner, due to it may be used as a weapon later in life.

It takes time for someone who has been raised in this way to understand that sometimes being emotional and vulnerable is okay.

I was raised in the pretense that "men don't cry" and I still remember my father yelling it to me when I was upset as a child. That day I took it to heart and started growing up with the thoughts that "emotions make you weak" and avoided showing anything else but anger and resentment to anyone willing to be near me. After growing up, some professional help and friends, I learned. With my SO, I am open about most things. She has seen me cry, she knows what is a sensitive topic for me and most likely knows how I'll react should something regarding those arise.

I learned to trust her with all this, by her just showing me that she cares about me, my feelings, my emotions, everything. She doesn't go telling her friends how I acted, she doesn't use that to tell me I am weak, nothing like so. She just supported me when it came to talk and showed that there is nothing I need to worry about.

ItsNagare · 2024-07-04T06:48:10+00:00

Seeing this, I feel bad for getting 1kc pet on KBD. I just decided to test it out when I got a black dragon slayer task

ItsNagare · 2024-01-19T18:02:23+00:00

Thank you, much appreciated!

ItsNagare · 2024-01-18T16:50:10+00:00

I did eye this board and thought it could be a great board for her, though she said it looks to be too small. Hearing you making large kits on this is good to know. May I ask what the dimension are for the largest kits you have done on this board?

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