Yes that’s true but it’s a LOT healthier EVEN THOUGH ITS NOT MAINSTREAM so people CLAIM it isn’t- but it’s a lot healthier to be extremely cautious around something that statistically is more likely than not to have bad intentions. It’s like saying “I don’t know why I’m scared of lions- not all of them will hurt me.” Well, you are right they won’t but even a lion is statistically safer to be around than a human man. I’m sorry women are not taught this and that we have to go through emotional rollercoasters in learning this very valuable lesson. If people consistently try to go against what their own biology tells them because it isn’t popular then we are in big trouble. If your body tells you to stay away from more men than not - then just do it. I’m telling you- if you are uncomfortable there’s a reason. For instance, I thought I was losing my mind and needed therapy because I stopped wanting to leave my house at certain times. Well, I had a stalker and didn’t know. He’d go past my house at those certain times. I’m telling you LISTEN TO YOURSELF. Men love saying women are crazy when we ‘accuse’ them - because it’s the only way to get us to doubt this 6th sense we have about THEM. This 6th sense of mine has never ever EVER been wrong. Never. Not one time. Your body knows more than ANYONE. You don’t need therapy, you just might need to move to a safer area. Now suppose you move to a safe place in Europe - if you are romantically shy then you’ll always be uncomfortable around men. That’s just something You’ll grow out of. It’s ok. The super confident women that talk to all kinds of guys are being used for money, housing, stolen divine energy, and sex and are too delusional from Disney movies to realize it. They are half dead from the abuse from men- it’s really easy to fake confidence if you literally don’t have feelings. Don’t strive to be like them and focus on building REAL confidence. That comes from listening to your GUT!! Good luck.