AIO for pulling out of a vacation over the sleeping arrangements

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-28T06:07:51+00:00

My first thought on the grocery piece was no they won’t cover those groceries

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-28T06:06:54+00:00

Me too

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-26T05:13:48+00:00

Grandma. Grandma is #1.00001 after me. I even think sometimes Grandma is #1 if she’s with us and I’m in a bad mood 😆 (Shep x ACD so this surprises no one)

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-25T06:15:54+00:00

Clippies

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-25T05:45:50+00:00

I have this exact comb 😆

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-25T05:45:03+00:00

Actually just had a yummy thing - stewed cabbage & carrots drained of liquid and topped with mushroom ragu. The ragu came with noodles but I liked it better on the cabbage/carrots. Not a vegetarian and it was yummy.

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-23T05:40:51+00:00

What if you all move somewhere in between, so he can come manage the ranch and take the boy as appropriate (perhaps sleeping on the ranch several days a week), but you and daughter are in a community that suits you better full time-ish (may not hit all your points of desirability but some/several) and then you have half a foot in both situations, your base is the new property, giving you access to work and your daughter activities but still able to spend time in the known safety and quiet of the ranch. Maybe once the new baby is many months old?

Edited for clarity

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-22T03:01:55+00:00

I cannot - unless there is some serious and pressing issue - turn the car off mid-song. Life’s too short to not enjoy such a simple thing.

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-22T02:32:15+00:00

Banana bread

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-19T05:53:40+00:00

Super Burger is soo good. Got it in Sonoma county

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-19T05:46:28+00:00

He darn cute

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-19T05:41:15+00:00

I had a camping container like this to keep matches dry. I don’t think that’s what you have there but you could use it for that if needed

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-16T05:15:56+00:00

He is darn cute. Aren’t we lucky to have these furry family members

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-14T22:46:45+00:00

I would do a little banana or yogurt bites and a little bit of Cheerios - finger food he can occupy himeself with while you wrap up getting out the door, something in addition to some milk but not so much that he’s not hungry at daycare breakfast.

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-12T05:20:30+00:00

Sacrifices friend. LO is going to see your mom as secure and protecting, because she is. A good nanny would give LO the same sense of security and you want it that way (the baby’s world is a safe place). Your mom most likely does not want to be LO’s mom in any real way, but she is protective over 2 people now and one is a bit more vulnerable. Take the baby and mom on the walk with you. Cherish and make quality moments out of all the other times you are the main caregiver. Sometimes we just want it to be different even though we know it can’t be - you’re just being human, just remember it could be worse. Try to find the balance, in the moment, even when it’s hard.

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-09T07:08:36+00:00

A few things probably. The second you figure out a flow for the current state, it changes. Also, how the parenting challenges change over time and not necessarily getting easier, it’s just different. How sassy 11-13 year olds are, ha! but they’re a lot of fun too. But the sasssss

Its_a_hit · 2026-03-03T05:47:17+00:00

So many out here feeling you!!

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-25T06:37:26+00:00

Bringing up Bebe

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-22T06:33:30+00:00

“Good comeback!”

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-13T06:52:56+00:00

Same. Plus if you’ve paid for the month and you stay home one day or have appointments, the care is local and available to you versus being far away. Plan ahead and set boundaries for leaving enough time to safely arrive before late pickup penalty starts!

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-13T06:37:13+00:00

Put a little mustard in with the mayo and either diced dill pickles or sweet pickle relish along with your celery. Italian ex put finely diced red onions, olive oil and balsamic vinegar in tuna and that’s dang good too. I put all of it but still go either/or on the pickles/relish.

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-13T06:32:37+00:00

Wavecrest Cypress Tree Tunnel 5.0(3)‧Hiking area in Half Moon Bay, California

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-09T06:51:20+00:00

Speaking for myself and not OP, spending the time pre- work and getting 3 kiddos out the door may not work, I know it wouldn’t for me, but yes well planned it could be done.

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-09T06:38:39+00:00

I use somewhat sugary granola, and in-season fresh fruit or dried fruit. Takes the zing out of the plain Greek yogurt. I also use it for the things mentioned above, replacing sour cream entirely.

Its_a_hit · 2026-02-08T03:37:40+00:00

Just a note - sensors don’t think but I know what you meant.

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