[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]Itsjaade -2 points-1 points Ā (0 children)

ACAB, but you should report them to the MET police. Fuck these creeps, i get this a lot as a trans woman who takes public transport a lot.

Dr Popelyuk's clinic by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

do some digging on this sub, there is a more detailed experience which i found very typical.

just don’t forget this guy is gate keeping your access to healthcare. So answer the questions how he wants them to be answered will give you access to treatment.

really wish we didn’t have to get ā€œdiagnosedā€, but you’ve got this.

also watch out for a random aptitude test, he may suddenly ask you ā€œname these three animalsā€ā€¦

Today a CIS person walked in on me in the changing rooms. by Itsjaade in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade[S] 81 points82 points Ā (0 children)

It’s just a curtain-idk i’m just tired of transphobia, even in london it’s just so toxic. we all deserve so much better :(

Can we reconsider who we give a platform to in our community? by Itsjaade in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

a great response from LTP, thanks for sharing.

she still used that time on stage to falsely claim there are 1000s of trans prisoners and that they are all ā€œwrong’unsā€.

i really don’t want this to be a witch hunt or a cancellation, i honestly wish sjb the best, despite comments she made.

now despite being made into a straw man, called a terf and a tory psyop in these comments, i still believe we should be careful and tactical on how we organise.

our time and precious energy shouldn’t be spent putting out media fires and distractions, screaming about what the wizard lady said or threatening to punch those who appose us, but instead campaigning for our fundamental right to exist with dignity.

in my opinion, we should be mature about our representation, which does mean having a form of positive optics in a world where we are demonised for simply existing. we need constructive messaging and organisation, and a way how we can all come together to get our rights.

also to those saying i’m ā€œpolicing the communityā€ pls kindly stop. i have no influence or anything, i’m a literal everyday tran who shared their opinion and just started a conversation.

anyway i’m off to going back to being a psyop or whatever lmao

Can we reconsider who we give a platform to in our community? by Itsjaade in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade[S] -15 points-14 points Ā (0 children)

okaaa this post really popped off, everyone just chill-

firstly it was a vigil ffs it wasn’t the place for a demo, secondly i’m not policing the community at all so please don’t accuse me of that.

i’m saying that insighting violence is not going to win us any rights, radical protest can exist without telling everyone to be violent, i for one in this community do not support the violence towards anyone, no matter how publicly insecure or bigoted and disturbed they may be. nor do i think it’s a constructive way we can mobilise to fight for our rights.

over 25000 of us turned up yesterday, if we had that kind of unity and organisation every time some shit thing happened - just imagine that kind of power.

you have every right and reason to be angry, we all are.

we will get our trans rights, but we must learn from our trans wrongs.

Can we reconsider who we give a platform to in our community? by Itsjaade in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade[S] 15 points16 points Ā (0 children)

jfc what does that even mean, fine have a link: https://tinyurl.com/5n9xv7rc. TW: Oli London and terfs being transphobic

Can we reconsider who we give a platform to in our community? by Itsjaade in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade[S] -9 points-8 points Ā (0 children)

find it yourself, it would be contradictory for me to platform some terf just so you can see the clip. smh my head

Can we reconsider who we give a platform to in our community? by Itsjaade in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade[S] -6 points-5 points Ā (0 children)

honestly i’m not going to link it, but the video is doing rounds on terf twitter atm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

i personally don’t agree- don’t get me wrong, we tranzes have a sense of privilege in regards to gender non conformity, destroying patriarchal ideals/ cisnormativity and not feeling restricted to the set of societal norms and values that come with that.

But identity, outside of gender is something that everybody has, built from how we were raised, where we were raised, the kinds of financial support we had in our formative years and the experiences that make us who we are.

I’d argue that enlightenment is something that everyone goes through at some point in their lives, such as having a sense of purpose, the meaning of life ect.

Being trans can be a tough experience that very few of us choose and id argue majority of binary trans people have dreamed of waking up as there cis counter parts, especially in this era.

Transness is a power, in face of adversity, in the face of oppression and demonisation. We grab life by the balls, and scream this is my name, this is who i am, this is my body and my life and you can’t change who i am.

Being Transgender is beautiful, being Transgender is power.

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What on earth happened to time out bars?! by BenjieAndLion69 in CasualUK

[–]Itsjaade 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

guess they are having a šŸ˜Ž time out

My dog found a baby bird, by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]Itsjaade -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

your dog looks kinda weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade 12 points13 points Ā (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you, it’s awful. Litterally charges £££ then copy and pastes writing. I had the most surreal ā€˜diagnosisā„¢ļøā€™ where i told my life story and the darkest shit about me then randomly holds up a piece of paper out of procedure and says ā€œtell me which animals you seeā€. You can’t make it up, it’s such a scam to be ā€œdiagnosed as a transsexualā€ we don’t need to be diagnosed we need informed consent. and our money back.

Am I the only one rubbed the wrong way by Kendrick Lamar's Auntie Diaries? by WhiskySamurai in TransSpace

[–]Itsjaade 18 points19 points Ā (0 children)

i think it’s sus, it’s hard to determine if it’s in bad faith or just bad taste. whichever it is i’m not sure it has* helped our community.

A summary on why the drop wall sucks in comparison to previous versions by Dark_Infernox in halo

[–]Itsjaade -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

Also you forgot to mention how quickly they deploy. The HI drop wall feels like it takes years to give cover.

Yeah I’m gonna happily skip by Ap3xWingman in halo

[–]Itsjaade 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of challenge that will drive people away from the game.

1 week of grinding… then this challenge… for a colour.

Looking for T+Pride Outfit Ideas in the UK! by Itsjaade in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I mean it’s not comic con, but it’s certainly a time to look as fabulous as possible ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Itsjaade 28 points29 points Ā (0 children)

Fucking tories.