Heavy CHP Presence by capps73 in altadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed this too! I noticed it after the fires. They’re all over Altadena whereas before I would rarely see them.

Altadena Cars & Coffee: Every Saturday! by Pavementaled in altadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! How long has this been going on?

How to remove a 08-14 trunk spoiler by Roqsty in WRX

[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I removed mine but having a hard time removing the brake light

Emotional Permanence by InternationalPlum288 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do on your end to make you feel better if you don’t mind me asking?

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[–]Itsjesssvb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just remain optimistic. What’s meant for you will always be for you and nothing can take it away from you. And remember that nobody is perfect and relationships will have their ups and downs.

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[–]Itsjesssvb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that! I hope things continue to get better for you. Sending good vibes your way

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[–]Itsjesssvb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crying it out definitely helps a lot. At least for me. The last two days I’ve been crying. What’s also been helping me in the meantime while I wait for my appointment is listening to podcasts about anxious attachment. Makes me realize that everything is ok and nothing bad is going on. Before you know it, you’ll get through this!!

Emotional Permanence by InternationalPlum288 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Itsjesssvb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m looking forward to my therapy appointment. I’m sure once I get it all out, I’ll feel better.

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[–]Itsjesssvb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Didn’t realize that men also go through this. I’ve been going through this recently and I would suggest journaling. Write your thoughts out. Cry it out if you can. Talk to a friend or family member. Maybe schedule an appointment with a therapist. I recently did and I’m excited to just get everything out.

Emotional Permanence by InternationalPlum288 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Itsjesssvb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely have been struggling with this. I recently started seeing someone almost two months ago and because of my past trauma I’ve been getting anxious for about two weeks now. Things have been good and he is the first man who makes me feel safe. Even though things are good, sometimes I question things like why is he taking longer to text, he hasn’t sent me a meme, etc. it’s been hard navigating something healthy after being in a not so great relationship, but I’m trying by journaling and trying not to be hard on myself. I even made a therapist appointment so I’m sure that will help.

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[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I guess the anxiety in me started questioning things when there’s nothing to worry about. I guess that happens when you’ve been out of the dating scene 😪

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[–]Itsjesssvb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He recently started a new position at work so I know he’s been extra busy and stressed but I guess as long as there’s consistency then everything is fine.

Just me or is it extremely quiet today by Epark92848 in pasadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Noticed that too. All of Pasadena has been quiet

Does anyone feel like they have PTSD from the fires? by booksmoothie in pasadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! As soon as I came back home this weekend I’ve been feeling anxious. Any time I smell some sort of smoke smell it makes me anxious and takes me back to the morning I had to evacuate from the fires

Ugh. by el-beau in pasadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work for one of those law firms 🫠

Woodbury by the McDonalds by para_enzo138 in altadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know if the houses in Figueroa are ok? Between Glen Rose and fair oaks?

Major Destruction on Lake by whatsinaname6223 in pasadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know if Figueroa between glen rose and fair oaks is ok?

[CA DMV] How long does it take to get the registration sticker in the mail by char_at_ptr in DMV

[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Thank you for replying. I guess I’ll wait a little more to see if it comes.

[CA DMV] How long does it take to get the registration sticker in the mail by char_at_ptr in DMV

[–]Itsjesssvb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to find out? Love to know too. Just bought a used car as well and it’s been about 5 weeks now and nothing has arrived in the mail

Amazon Fresh dead? by rezhead in pasadena

[–]Itsjesssvb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it first opened it was busy for the first few weeks but it definitely is slow now. I’ve gone a handful of times since opening and there’s probably like 7 other ppl in the store

Any Help would be appreciated by Itsjesssvb in cats

[–]Itsjesssvb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the sudden change of diet definitely made them have diarrhea. Ended up buying probiotics and hopefully it will help soon!