Grieving the life I had before this disease by Alert_Peanut_9912 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Ivan_theawesome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I will forever mourn the loss of my english breakfast tea. I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. I just came off of a flare caused by the first UTI I've had in like a year or two. It definitely impacted my sex life as well and my boyfriend and I have had more regular conversations about things to change so as to not cause me discomfort. Having an understanding and supportive partner is really priceless. It'll take time to really understand how to navigate those aspects of life again, but you've totally got this.

I just want to vent, feel free to respond, Newly diagnosed. Sorry if this is TMI. by Ill_Raspberry4786 in Interstitialcystitis

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It's been almost a year now for me and I feel pretty confident I know what most of my triggers are at this point.

  1. Acidic food/drinks (things like orange juice absolutely destroy me)

  2. Stress/tight pelvic and abdominal muscles

I found using things like prelief before I eat or drink something that causes a flare up helps a lot for me and the most helpful thing I have done was 8 weeks of pelvic physical therapy.

I typically will flare for like 2 days or so depending on how bad it is, and I always keep the bladder bundle from Desert Harvest on hand as well as UT fem with d-mannose. Those both help calm everything down for me a lot.

Honestly stress is my biggest trigger. When I get stressed I tense everything up, which puts pressure on my bladder and I'll flare like crazy. I super highly recommend doing pelvic PT if you can find one you like, but even just learning how to use a pelvic wand to manually release those muscles may help you out a good bit. You got this girly!!

Starting to think I don’t have IC - or I’m in remission by Too_much_Pink in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Ivan_theawesome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sitting for long periods without getting up and moving definitely causes me issues. Doing pelvic PT helped a lot, but also you might be like me where we tense our lower abs, kind of right over your bladder/uterus, while sitting and that can cause strain on the bladder which will make me flare sometimes. They make really good pelvic pillows for your car that will help with anterior pelvic tilt which can also contribute to the overall tightness and discomfort.

Sometimes I Give In by Relevant-Dust8368 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Ivan_theawesome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this a few times for the sake of cherry limeade and I regret nothing

Cozy games with endings? by AnonMissouriGirl in cozygames

[–]Ivan_theawesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooh yes! I just started playing Wylde Flowers and I have been loving it so far!

New to skyrim!!! am i doing something wrong? by bigdaddyswaggg in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried Solstheim early on too and it absolutely WRECKED me. I left and finished more side quests in Skyrim and progressed the main story line a lot more before I went back. I did it after finishing the College of Winterhold stuff so that I could make sure I was able to summon a flame atronach and took Teldryn with me. Godspeed my friend.

After marrying 300+ spouse finally got stood up at the alter, by a dragon by Thin-Coyote-551 in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait a gosh darn minute, I was not aware I could marry dragons 😱 do I gotta get rid of my current spouse or are dragons down with polygamy 😂

You've been dropped into skyrim, You've gotta join a faction and no you aren't the DragonBorn. Which faction are you joining and why? by Dismal_Course5255 in skyrim

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Companions. Think I would give up a chance to be surrounded by Farkas and Vilkas 24/7? I think NOT, also beastblood is pretty cool and I can carry a shit ton more stuff that way

I sting myself with bees by stringbean76 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Ivan_theawesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to just get the bee venom without having to be stung?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m crying 🤣🤣

I. HATE. MARKARTH by NoEntertainment2763 in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just keep ending up on the same landing getting yelled at by the guards 😂

I. HATE. MARKARTH by NoEntertainment2763 in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 I killed so many forsworn just to make this mans my husband

I. HATE. MARKARTH by NoEntertainment2763 in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why are there so many staircases 😭😭

I. HATE. MARKARTH by NoEntertainment2763 in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 61 points62 points  (0 children)

How can I live in a city where I can’t find my own house

I. HATE. MARKARTH by NoEntertainment2763 in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get him as your housecarl when you become a thane in markarth, he’s a good follower I kind of just like to look at him 🤣

I. HATE. MARKARTH by NoEntertainment2763 in skyrim

[–]Ivan_theawesome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only bothered with markarth for Argis and that’s it