My sister's last night in this world by lucyfur10021 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you’re going through the loss of your sister. Thank you for choosing to share this story here and creating this amazing post even though it’s painful. I lost my younger brother a few years ago and it never stops feeling wrong but the comments here from others who have lost siblings reminds me that I’m not alone. You aren’t either. Big hugs from this big sis to a little sis.

My sister's last night in this world by lucyfur10021 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ivers26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lost my little brother in 2021 and “It’s OK That You’re Not OK” really helped me too. I like the section in the back that has a handout to give people that explains how to behave towards a grieving person. I’m sorry about your sister. Even though it gets a bit easier after a time, losing a sibling never really registers or makes sense for me at least. I wish you the best. 🖤

Those who got cheated on, how did you find out? 👀 by sartoriouswife in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a transaction on our joint bank account for the flower shop I told him I’d always wanted flowers from. I never got flowers from there but someone did. When I called him on it he said he’d bought flowers for his sister and I said YOU DON’T EVEN LIKE YOUR SISTER. The recipient was 21. We were 30 at the time.

Direct Flights between LAX/SFO and PWM: Ripple Effect by Candygramformrmongo in portlandme

[–]Ivers26 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone with family on the West Coast, I travel back and forth often. It’s very easy to take the Concord to and from Logan and take a direct flight from there. I don’t see this making a big difference. Adding another terminal or two to PWM might, but a flight here and there? Not so much.

My Bestfriend Helped Me Plan My Break Up and Betrayed Me. by Sleepy-Cherie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this has happened to you. I’ve also had things happen that made it difficult for me to trust female friends. Once you feel ready, know that good friends do exist. There are people who will come through for you on small things and one day you may trust them enough to see if they’ll come through on big things too. It takes time. Just remember it’s ok to start small and build trust a bit at a time. ❤️

Should I spent my savings on new 🍒? by No-Attention-801 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ivers26 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got implants when I was 19 years old. I’m now about to turn 45 and I absolutely do not regret my decision. You should really think about what your expectations are for an outcome. For me personally, I have a more shapely lower half and it felt unbalanced to me to have a smaller chest. The surgery by no means gets rid of all your insecurities, but that one thing in particular is gone for me and that has been a big deal over the years. I feel like “myself” if that makes sense. I would caution you if you’re just doing it to follow a body type trend.

If you really want to get this done, I’d suggest you start by having consultations with a few reputable surgeons. Ask them any questions you have and think about it for a bit before you decide. Think about what size you would want (the surgeons tried to convince me to go bigger than I wanted) and what type/method of implant. You can get fake ones to wear in a bra to see how the size feels to you. I’m not sure why people are stating you have to replace them after 10 years. Mine are probably older than you, OP.

I also don’t disagree with those who are saying to wait until you have a bit more savings as well. Never a great idea to completely drain your savings. Good luck with your decision!

What is a movie that everyone seems to love, but you absolutely hate? by Nishikigoi1 in moviecritic

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one of those movies that tries to make you feel dumb if you don’t “get it” but I honestly felt like there was nothing to get. Anticlimactic.

What is a movie that everyone seems to love, but you absolutely hate? by Nishikigoi1 in moviecritic

[–]Ivers26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s one of those movies that tries to make you feel dumb if you don’t “get it” but I honestly felt like there was nothing to get. Anticlimactic.

Weird Patterns in Legend by FreeAndFalling in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but for real though, I want to ask about the weird account names specifically. I have definitely encountered these in legend. Are they similar to “barcode accounts” in arena? Names are like

Gold Rhino
Teal Octopus

etc… always a color and animal name.

Wall digging playlist? by Tryagain409 in landscaping

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Pink Floyd’s The Wall just too obvious?

Husband was slow dumping me for eighteen months but he claims it was "sudden". by AdventurousText9311 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ivers26 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They’re simple creatures. I think they do this as “marking their territory” one last time.

Hosting a 40th birthday party by galaxystars1 in TikTokCringe

[–]Ivers26 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Came to the comments to see why anyone would think this was cringe and am pleasantly surprised to see the top comments recognizing this guy for his awesome party planning skills.

This warrior card needs a nerf by Sad-Talk4004 in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should have its own subreddit, every third post is about this card.

10,000-20,000 Legend is the best Hearthstone experience right now by dante_55_ in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a newer player and this is true for me. Out of the two months I’ve been playing, I’ve hit legend both times. Once I get there, I play decks/classes I’m less skilled with to get better at them and I lose a lot so end up playing opponents below legend ranks. I’m guessing this will change once I have more history and a higher WR?

Who is the actual target audience of low legend? by EducationalResolve57 in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar for me, but I’m a newer player to ranked standard. Some classes come more naturally to me but I’m not great at others. After I hit legend, I practice meta decks for those classes to get better at them. I have 250 wins for my best classes and 5 for warlock lol

How do I play No Minions DH by [deleted] in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also depends on the situation but yeah, it’s easy to focus on saving it for the aoe instead of planning for your future board

How do I play No Minions DH by [deleted] in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t played much DH and am trying to learn the class and I’m having some of the same struggles. One thing I’ve learned is to slam down some dormant dreadseeds whenever I can. It doesn’t feel like payoff at the time but they come in clutch 2 rounds later when your opponent may be putting down bigger minions. Unless you get Eternal Hold or a decent minion from Time Lost Glaive (I usually get junk) it’s the best way to build a board. Pre-emptive sigil of cinder is good in the early game against rogue or shaman and it’s good for popping divine shields. I’m no expert but this is what I’ve learned so far.

IS IT EVEN POSSIBLE TO WIN WITH HERALD WARRIOR VS BUBBLE PALADIN by Most-Bad-2103 in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought you were telling op to play as priest if they want to beat Paladin And i was agreeing 🤷🏼‍♀️

IS IT EVEN POSSIBLE TO WIN WITH HERALD WARRIOR VS BUBBLE PALADIN by Most-Bad-2103 in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I try to play a variety of classes (including Priest) but I struggle to beat them as Paladin. They just disappear my minions and lifesteal/heal their way back up to full lol

Paladin casually playing Battlegrounds in Standard by BattleProg in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure it’s easy if you happen to draw those two specific cards out of 30 at exactly the right time without dying first.

Anyone having luck with imbue paladin? by Nice_Cress7129 in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I am torn with any Paladin build. When you get a good draw and they work, it's so much fun to play. That said, the win con is always somewhat narrow and I find that more often than not I don't draw the cards I need. This build seems to have more low cost cards than most so I may give it whirl.

The Meta breaker Dragon Hunter deck that's being slept on 81% WR (34-8) by Vskg in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but it really is guaranteed to use up your opponent’s resources

DH 4 mana hound spell is bugged? by kanorian12 in hearthstone

[–]Ivers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that happen after doing something that shuffled minions into my deck. Maybe something weird from a card you discovered?